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Ice4fun

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  1. Just tells me you are a good person... Karma will look after them Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  2. When we reach out and extend help to people we trust we run the risk that they will take advantage of that friendship... when they do it can sting but I still think we are better people because of our willingness to be there for someone else... we can't control what they do just what type of person we are. Sorry you had that experience. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  3. Eating a late supper after a busy day... did not make it to the Steak House tonight... that is now on the agenda for tomorrow... having a great meal though.. lots of amazing Resturants in this city Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  4. That's funny now I am wishing you were here with me :) Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  5. Riding the L-Train on The Loop in Chicago....great city to visit. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  6. I think it will be a steak from Gibson's Steakhouse as recommended to me by a wonderful CERB lady... Thanks Bianca Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  7. From my Opinion this has been a good discussion it has highlighted why many ladies require the real name of their clients... they have devised a business model that incorporates safety measures that meet their needs. Of course there will be other ladies who choose other methods and guys who choose for their own reasons not to want to give out their name... that's life people need to respect the respect the decisions of others... it's ok to disagree on approach and to just see those clients / ladies whose approach we are comfortable with. This for me was a topic about safety... There will be no perfect answer and in my opinion no way to 100% ensure safety for either clients or ladies but I think the risk pendulum clearly weighs heavier on the ladies side and that has been reflected in the strong comments about their safety that have been expressed. That said I do think we are at times all a little overly sensitive to the comments others make (yes i am including myself in that) I think we all could take a few deep breaths and accept that hey its just someone else's opinion... I don't have to agree with it and yea he / she may be wrong. But I do like these types of debates... really makes me think. Just my opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  8. Was not really trying to start a debate but sure if you want to pick up on every word fine feel free to do so... My point... probably not as articulate as I may have hoped, was simply that ladies take a risk in this business every time they open that door to a man they have never met before... of course they use many strategies to mitigate that risk and certainly some ladies are better at doing so than others but that does not change the fact that this is a risky business. It is risky for the clients(even more so with the new law) and risky for the lovely ladies we go to see. Because of the risks inherent in this business it is not unreasonable for a lady to want a clients real name and I don't have a problem with that I just also know that that is only one piece in the best practices ladies must employ for their own safety and is not a guarantee of no problems. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  9. Great day shopping Chicago's Magnificent Mile.... bad news spent so much now I have to cancel my bookings for when I get back... Not lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  10. Yes I fully agree... just saying that people can still do stupid things and that having a real name be that the client's or ladies really is very limited protection... I am constantly amazed by the willingness of you ladies to assume such great risk... my comments were not meant in a negative way.. I hope they were not seen as negative. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  11. I am not sure real names provide all that much additional security for a lady... but I certainly get 100% why she asks for the real name because if a guy is not willing to actually give his real name or will not trust the lady with his real name then perhaps the situation is not right for them to actually meet. Having a real name does not stop a good client from going bad or for that matter knowing the real name of the lady does not stop her from acting inappropriate. The bottom line is this is a business that requires the lady to demonstrate amazing trust to just open that door so in return if the guy wants the door opened he must also demonstrate some trust. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  12. Like everyone people in this industry have things that happen in their lives that require last minute changes... in my experience with the ladies I have met in this industry they tend to have a higher than average desire to be on time and be accountable for commitments they have made but like everything their are exceptions. In the few cases where a lady has had to cancel on me at the last minute I have generally found they were very eager to makeup for having to cancel and as such very accommodating. Bottom line.. shit happens... life goes on. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  13. Well it certainly could happen but the odds are strongly against the Sens... that said I think it would be good even for the Habs to have the Sens win a couple of games. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  14. Usually connect through the "tapatalk" app so i just go directly into the unread feed and surf through them responding to any that catch my interest. I don't usually pay that much attention to what area the post was made in... lol... it seems I often have an opinion on things that are in areas other than general or NL area. Oh Well.. lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  15. Well I am a life long Leafs fan who does not play golf... so there goes that logic... but then again I am also a life long Leafs Fan that does will not feel the need to take a poke at other fans when their team exits the playoffs... instead I will choose to focus on watching and supporting the teams that are still playing... hey but that's just me. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  16. That may just mean you are a really bad golfer.... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  17. Just got up... trying to decide if it will be room service for breakfast or to head out and get something. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  18. I'm certainly not against helping any lady who wants out but I do have some concerns about the process and they obviously don't show every interaction so there is no balance in what they do show Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  19. Eating dinner... A pretty good burger Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  20. Really tired from all the travel today so just something quick tonight a great burger from Hard Rock Cafe Chicago.... well tired and it's raining tonight. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  21. My policy is only to discuss a lady with other members after I have advised the lady that I have a request... if she is ok with me sharing info I will if not I don't. If I get a request about a lady that I can't give a positive recommendation about I generally just say "I am not in a position to share any information"... in this regards i am not referring to situations that i consider dangerous or bait and switch just services that i would not recommend. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  22. Some extremely expensive snacks at Montreal Airport... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  23. On a plane just waiting to leave Montreal Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  24. Don't be too jealous Cristy... I had cold Pizza at the rink last night... however tonight definitely a great meal in a good restaurant in Chicago... anyone have any suggestions? Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  25. Last minute things before heading to the airport.... no sleep tonight Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
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