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Ice4fun

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  1. From my Opinion this has been a good discussion it has highlighted why many ladies require the real name of their clients... they have devised a business model that incorporates safety measures that meet their needs. Of course there will be other ladies who choose other methods and guys who choose for their own reasons not to want to give out their name... that's life people need to respect the respect the decisions of others... it's ok to disagree on approach and to just see those clients / ladies whose approach we are comfortable with. This for me was a topic about safety... There will be no perfect answer and in my opinion no way to 100% ensure safety for either clients or ladies but I think the risk pendulum clearly weighs heavier on the ladies side and that has been reflected in the strong comments about their safety that have been expressed. That said I do think we are at times all a little overly sensitive to the comments others make (yes i am including myself in that) I think we all could take a few deep breaths and accept that hey its just someone else's opinion... I don't have to agree with it and yea he / she may be wrong. But I do like these types of debates... really makes me think. Just my opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  2. Was not really trying to start a debate but sure if you want to pick up on every word fine feel free to do so... My point... probably not as articulate as I may have hoped, was simply that ladies take a risk in this business every time they open that door to a man they have never met before... of course they use many strategies to mitigate that risk and certainly some ladies are better at doing so than others but that does not change the fact that this is a risky business. It is risky for the clients(even more so with the new law) and risky for the lovely ladies we go to see. Because of the risks inherent in this business it is not unreasonable for a lady to want a clients real name and I don't have a problem with that I just also know that that is only one piece in the best practices ladies must employ for their own safety and is not a guarantee of no problems. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  3. Great day shopping Chicago's Magnificent Mile.... bad news spent so much now I have to cancel my bookings for when I get back... Not lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  4. Yes I fully agree... just saying that people can still do stupid things and that having a real name be that the client's or ladies really is very limited protection... I am constantly amazed by the willingness of you ladies to assume such great risk... my comments were not meant in a negative way.. I hope they were not seen as negative. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  5. I am not sure real names provide all that much additional security for a lady... but I certainly get 100% why she asks for the real name because if a guy is not willing to actually give his real name or will not trust the lady with his real name then perhaps the situation is not right for them to actually meet. Having a real name does not stop a good client from going bad or for that matter knowing the real name of the lady does not stop her from acting inappropriate. The bottom line is this is a business that requires the lady to demonstrate amazing trust to just open that door so in return if the guy wants the door opened he must also demonstrate some trust. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  6. Like everyone people in this industry have things that happen in their lives that require last minute changes... in my experience with the ladies I have met in this industry they tend to have a higher than average desire to be on time and be accountable for commitments they have made but like everything their are exceptions. In the few cases where a lady has had to cancel on me at the last minute I have generally found they were very eager to makeup for having to cancel and as such very accommodating. Bottom line.. shit happens... life goes on. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  7. Well it certainly could happen but the odds are strongly against the Sens... that said I think it would be good even for the Habs to have the Sens win a couple of games. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  8. Usually connect through the "tapatalk" app so i just go directly into the unread feed and surf through them responding to any that catch my interest. I don't usually pay that much attention to what area the post was made in... lol... it seems I often have an opinion on things that are in areas other than general or NL area. Oh Well.. lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  9. Well I am a life long Leafs fan who does not play golf... so there goes that logic... but then again I am also a life long Leafs Fan that does will not feel the need to take a poke at other fans when their team exits the playoffs... instead I will choose to focus on watching and supporting the teams that are still playing... hey but that's just me. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  10. That may just mean you are a really bad golfer.... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  11. Just got up... trying to decide if it will be room service for breakfast or to head out and get something. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  12. I'm certainly not against helping any lady who wants out but I do have some concerns about the process and they obviously don't show every interaction so there is no balance in what they do show Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  13. Eating dinner... A pretty good burger Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  14. Really tired from all the travel today so just something quick tonight a great burger from Hard Rock Cafe Chicago.... well tired and it's raining tonight. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  15. My policy is only to discuss a lady with other members after I have advised the lady that I have a request... if she is ok with me sharing info I will if not I don't. If I get a request about a lady that I can't give a positive recommendation about I generally just say "I am not in a position to share any information"... in this regards i am not referring to situations that i consider dangerous or bait and switch just services that i would not recommend. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  16. Some extremely expensive snacks at Montreal Airport... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  17. On a plane just waiting to leave Montreal Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  18. Don't be too jealous Cristy... I had cold Pizza at the rink last night... however tonight definitely a great meal in a good restaurant in Chicago... anyone have any suggestions? Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  19. Last minute things before heading to the airport.... no sleep tonight Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  20. Unfortunately us guys are not too good at looking after our own health... good point Cinelli thanks for the reminder. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  21. Driving to the IceCaps game... last game of the season Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  22. New phone for my daughter.... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  23. The "LEAP" is Blackberrys newest full touch screen device but it should be noted that it was introduced to provide a mid-range full touch screen price point option. It is aimed primarily at Business enterprise clients who are looking for replacement options for existing legacy BlackBerry devices. As a mid-range device it's specs would be very comparable to other mid range units from other suppliers but would lack some of the features of the higher end Classic or Passport. In comparison to the other BlackBerry full touch screen units it has a larger screen and improved battery then the Z10 but lacks things like micro HDMI out port and USB on the go functionality. In Comparison to the Z30 the screen size is the same and so is the battery but the z30 certainly is more feature rich... I have had both a Z10 and Z30 and if I had not already moved to the Passport I am not sure if I would trade either the Z10 or Z30 for the Newer Leap. In case you had not already guessed it... yes I am a big BlackBerry fan. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  24. I am guessing this will be a grab something to eat downtown kinda day... at work now... home to pack... then last IceCaps Game this evening than airport for flight. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  25. I kinda think that in these types of situations you really only get to help someone once they feel they can trust you and being ambushed by a TV crew might get a lady to respond by either leaving immediately or playing along because she does not want to be portrayed in a negative light... she has no time to think this through the "pastor" who she thinks is a client gets her talking about her personal life ie child in protective services, drug use etc before he is honest so if she does not accept help she knows she will look bad. Why not off cam meet lady be immediately open about situation and then if lady wishes help start rolling. The same right wing conservatives that would support this type of show would also trumpet personal rights and the need to allow people to choose for themselves even if it might be perceived a bad choice by society... they would probably be against government money being spent on this type of program but are fine with trampling on rights if it is private industry and there is money to be made. All that said this is just the type of voyeuristic programing that is very popular so I would not expect it to go away. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
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