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Arcadia - Election Day http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snHsnpiQs3Q
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Young Rascals - I Ain't Gonna Eat Out My Heart Anymore
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Devo - Mongoloid http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWmf7r_37eA
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In a perfect world, the analogy is just that, perfect. It's like eating at a restaurant instead of eating at home. The problem is that we as a society are conditioned to equate sex with a loving relationship. That is especially true if one or both parties are otherwise encumbered with a significant other. Jim.... it's not just women, it's men as well. Think of it. Your view is based on a perception that your wife does not wish the same things that you want sexually. Now consider something else. Would you not feel betrayed, hurt, angry or smitten if your wife was seeing another man, just for sex? If the answer is yes, then you too, link sex with love. I have been on the other side, my ex cheated on me. The relationship and ultimately the sex she had with another man cut me like a thousand knives. I was the good husband. I made the efforts, held a good job, did my share around the house... virtually everything I did, I did for the sake of our relationship, our family. What hurt the most was that the relationships she had outside of the marriage denied me the intimate contact that I craved. She was giving her "physical love" to someone else... and although I had opportunity to engage in extramarital activity, I could not bring myself to do it. It is a tough road to tread. I don't engage in the hobby when I am in a relationship because I can't justify it to myself. It certainly is not a condemnation of anyone who can; I just can't do unto someone else what has been done to me, and I know that if I was in a relationship it would be a guilt that would ultimately be fatal to that same relationship. I understand that the SP/client relationship is altogether different than a boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, lover/lover thing... but the penis and the heart are two separate things with two separate agendas. All that being said, the place that I find myself now in life allows me to indulge in the hobby with only the pause for financial justification and allowance. I am not currently looking for an SO; the need for that companionship can be met by friends, family and my service provider. Just my two cents...
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How would you as a hobbyist deal with this?
Old Dog replied to Lexy Grace's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I like that idea... MegasHeartTouch... Sensual Massage, Lapdancing, & Angioplasty. -
Neneh Cherry - Manchild
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Offspring - You're Gonna go Far Kid http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_LxyhCJpsM&ob=av2n
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They always seem to leave.... rare footage has shown the cause....
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There it is.....
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And then there's Maude......
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I was trying to come up with something witty... but... I got nuthin'... damn.
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How would you as a hobbyist deal with this?
Old Dog replied to Lexy Grace's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I am with Sin Cindy on this...and I quote... "I get up and put my lingerie back on. I don't really have to say anything 99% of the time." -
MP Bids to Make Buying Sex Illegal in Canada
Old Dog replied to a topic in Legal discussion, cases & questions
Touche!!!!!!!! Megan Touche. Hell, you form a party and I would vote for ya. -
How Facebook Saved My Life
Old Dog replied to Megan'sTouch's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
How ironic.... I thought I was having a heart attack and went immediately to Facebook... ...an arm reached out of my pc, checked my heart rate, grabbed my mouse and closed all the porn windows. It then punched me in the head and wagged a finger. Facebook saved MY life too! -
you know sometimes words just get in the way....
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Congrats Cindy!!!! Your posts are always fun and informative.... keep up the great work!