Old Dog

Having a great conversation on Twitter with a Denver provider and coming up with two definitions of "Ultimate GFE" 1. Having great sex and then going shopping for rings. 2. Having great sex and then lying back in bed, picking out potential baby names.

Banana Cream Pie

Whiteman... MOD did a bit of maintenance yesterday and a few things went astray... he's working to get things fixed. I had the same question of him.

Just had my initial intake interview for physiotherapy/rehab. My handler is a young, extremely cute young woman that wears Lululemon yoga pants and wears them REALLY well. Needless to say, I am looking forward to SLOWLY getting back on my feet.

rg RG RGRGRGRG!!!! Well done my friend!!!! Congrats on this milestone!!!!

Not everyone can share, that's a given, but there are those client/provider relationships that transcend the "transaction." Some clients just want sex. Some providers just supply sex. For them, that's enough. I speak to the relationships that are built on both sides by willing and perhaps temporary "partners". That's the magic.

It's gratifying to hear that it goes both ways, but to a degree I have known that for a while. The relationships we build are incredible in that the boundaries are fluid. I do want to know about you. I want to show I care. I want you to see the "me" I can't show to others, and I want you to share your desires with me. For the briefest of moments, I am your protector. I am the man with whom you can confide your thoughts and dreams. It sounds like old romanticism, but at the moment, the meeting goes beyond pleasures of the flesh. It's a melding of the carnal and spiritual in the ephemeral plane. It's difficult to put in layman's terms. It's a temporary love that evolves into a fraternal bond and vice versa. It's sacred in the purest sense of the word. It's an obligation that comes with sharing our bodies. Not everyone can achieve it, but when it happens - it's real.

(cont) It goes beyond - and the beauty of the physical relationship with your provider grows with each encounter. You begin to feel the ability to confide in her. You know that discretion is her credo. You trust her. That's when it hits you. You can speak to her. You can speak to her about things beyond bedroom fantasies. You can tell her what has been bothering you. You can tell her about the amazing things in your life. You can relay things to her that you couldn't tell anyone else. Your sexual partner not only releases your sexual tension but also those other tensions that exist in your life. Your time together is cathartic. It's better than religion; there is no ultimate judgment. She listens. She may not have answers for you, but she listens to your story. She comforts you. She takes your mind off your other problems. You know that after your encounter your issues will still persist, but because of the nature of your relationship, she has given you a brief respite. For that time you have together, she doesn't judge, she gives. It's therapy for the body, mind and soul. Think about it. It's not just sex - it's so much more. (and thanks Webothscore I needed to complete but the character limit was killing me!)

Honesty, Discretion and Trust... three of the most undervalued, but naturally assumed facets of the industry. It has always been my thought that the first of these, honesty, is one of the cornerstones of a client/provider relationship. We don't give it much thought - but it is the essential element that drives this business. Taking it down to the bare bones, it is perhaps the most honest relationship a man and a woman can have. Think about it. There are things that you would not ask your significant other to do - not because they are immoral or degrading - but because of the potential for conflict, looks of contempt and accusations of deviance MAY be the end result. You love your SO but to preserve the delicate balance you may bury desire(s) and leave avenues of exploration untravelled. That's where the relationship with the provider blossoms. It's simple. For a nominal fee, you can express your desires and within reason, have them fulfilled. There is a comfort in relaying your desires. You can be honest with her. You can be the man that you want to be. You know that it is in your mutual interest that discussion be frank but polite, and that again within reason, she will not mock you for the simplest of requests. On the basest level it is a transaction; but on the spiritual side, it's miraculous. You have fulfilled a fantasy or just a natural desire and it was simple. That's the beauty of the honest relationship. (cont.)

Congrats!!! Great involvement on your part and great reading too!

I got the same. Some of the other features have also gone awry - some threads seem to extend into my neighbour's apartment; anything with a lot of pictures extends horizontally. The "thanks" button seems to have disappeared in some threads.

Congrats buddy!!! Always great to hear from a friend!

That depends on what you want. Longer appointments tend to be far more sensual... you have a chance to get to know each other and frankly, the sense of longing and desire becomes an integral part of the encounter. Never undersell seduction. Shorter appointments tend to satisfy the physical needs and if you have time constraints they would be a good solution. Think of it like going to restaurant. A steakhouse versus MacDonald's. At the steakhouse you will probably consume the same amount of calories and feel as full as you would if you picked up a Big Mac meal at Mickey Dees. The difference? The steakhouse is unrushed and the experience is all the more satisfying... you get everything you want in an unrushed environment. At Mickey Dees you get food. Make sense?

Having one of your favourite authors "favourite" your tweet... and then seeing it go semi viral. Texting providers from other parts of the country, just to say hi and share a giggle. Thinking about someone and then getting a phone call from them a moment later. Telling your friends that you love them every time you talk to them. Seeing someone for the first time and knowing it won't be the last.