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Sin City - A Dame to Kill For about to be released around 22 Aug. Jessica Alba returns - remember that "cow girl" get up in the strip club for the first film. Here is a first look - longer trailer at the link: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/culturevideo/filmvideo/cinema-trailers/10997461/Sin-City-A-Dame-to-Kill-For-watch-Lady-Gaga-in-the-new-trailer.html Anyone else a fan of this type of film?

My experience has always been both sides, hairy or not...:)

BBQ Chicken breast in a bun with all the fixings and beer :)

Well done, 8000 is a heck of an achievement. Cheers to more posts crafted from home and abroad.

Adding my welcome a well. Gotta love Halifax:)

Bravo Meagan, you are truly brave and an unsung hero for doing this act of compassion. This is a badge of honour (as already mentioned) not a scar to be concerned about. I wish you and the recipient all the best with the procedure.

As Canada Day draws to a close here in the nation's capital, I also reflect on how blessed we are as a free nation. I look forward to the future and what the next generations will bring. Happy Canada Day.

Ride for Dad Ottawa - tomorrow. Should be a good turn out as it is supposed to be sunny with a high of 23 degrees.

I guess it is all about communications. I can see your point, as I have had one lady ask before she pulled out a device. Having said that I don't think it would put me off personally if she pulled it out without warning. If I am planning an extended session I quite often request the lady to bring her favourite toy(s). Sometimes they are used, sometimes there not. Once the tables were turned and she used one on me. It was a lot of fun and something I hope to experience again.

At Bondi.

I do get it. Not that I view the issue as sacrosanct; it just crosses the line for me.

For me, the type (incall/outcall) and length of date (one hour to overnight) drives the clothing expectations. Incall for an hour or two, I totally leave the clothing options to the lady and I dress casually. No worries. If a longer outcall is in order, than clothing is usually discussed and agreed upon based on the approach I take through email communication after I have conducted my research of recommendations, reviews and the SP's website. For example, if she is a proponent of glamour photography and represents herself that way, then I have no hesitation to request a couple of Agent Provocateur (AP) ensembles and Christian Louboutins for the boudoir. This also inevitably means a tasteful but head turning cocktail dress for our dinner or activity out. I meet her in a jacket and tie freshly groomed and try to present myself the best I can. I usually go this way for a first time well planned extended encounter. After the second or third rendezvous I always give her the option of dressing down to jeans if we are staying in, however I always request the lingerie and heels for fun and by this time maybe a favourite toy:) I have one one occasion with a regular, requested a school girl outfit and a nurse outfit another time. This was an experiment and experience I will never forget. She used her real school uniform from her past private school days and I was surprised how turned on I was after a little roll playing and provocative teasing on her part. It was really intense. We both had fun thus the nurse outfit the next time we got together. Now, if I pursue a SP that presents herself as more down to earth (and I don't mean this pejoratively at all) then I don't ask for AP or Loubs in the bedroom. I just let the chips fall where they may. That's fun too.

When your legs go numb when on the toilet.

In the context of seeing an SP, foreplay is important, at least to me and I hope to her as well. I agree with Ice, it begins with communication and saying the right words, passing the right message. I even hope to engage in a little playful banter back and forth once a commitment is made. I realize many SPs may regard this as a time wasting activity - which is unfortunate; but I guess I can understand it especially for a first date. Then it is about the atmosphere. Perhaps candles, music, wine conversation and a soft kiss before moving on. I love lingerie as well and slowly revealing what is underneath. Oops got to visit the lingerie thread now....

Through good and bad times and you stuck it out. Congratulations Spud. At one time I thought we were about to lose you. I am glad you decided to stay and carry on - much appreciated by the community. Not sure I will have the stamina :) Again thanks for you contributions.

I prefer to strictly use email all the way through the communications and booking process. I have the means and tools to do this quickly and efficiently. When travelling I use Wifi to send my messages and if I am out of contact for a while I will let her know in advance. Having said that, I purchased a separate (hobby) phone to allow me to text and or call to make final/confirmation arrangements in accordance with some SP's operating procedures. This was usually the case for in-calls. A bit of a challenge/hassle for me as I use a pay as you go plan at a minimum of 10$ a month that I rarely use. I constantly let it lapse, the phone is dead, and then am faced with buying a coupon and re-activation. I find now more SPs are comfortable with just email which you can manage over your regular smart phone and that works great for me.

Welcome again Brooklyn and many thanks to Gabriella for helping out to establish another beautiful, beautiful addition to CERB :)

If I had my time over I would spend a little more time to come up with a meaningful user name and thus a "better" avatar. When I came across this Board I had just begun to explore this lifestyle and did not even think I would jump right in so to speak and participate. So I just picked a "call-sign" I had used on a radio one time and then had to find a picture to match a few days later. Now I feel it identifies me and like others have said, I readily identify others more by their avatar than their name at first glance. It is funny how you get accustomed to association by visual cue. Now it is more than four years later, same name same avatar and profile pix. Frankly, I am happy that some have elected not to change their avatar... Now albums are another story, I welcome change, creativity and updates. I am very visual I guess, like most men (generalization).

I have extended let's say from three hours as previously agreed to four or five hours on the spur of the moment during our tryst and paid advertised rates IAW the SP's website with no problem. Where I found it difficult, (personal problem) is when I arrange a three hour rendezvous with a new date and want the option to extend to an overnight if we connect. Every SP I have asked to consider this has agreed. However, 90% of the time I end up emailing my decision to go for the full overnight - a bit of a gamble from both perspectives but then she can plan and there is no hassle later.:) If I have the time and occasion to do so, I prefer conversation, some intimate time, a shower, dinner, more mutual fun/massage, sleep and morning sex with orange juice and Moet. In the end end I guess it is about communication, comfort level, planning and availability.

A repeat from another thread yesterday. Lia is on my mind and she deserves to be included here:)

When is the best time to see her? I remember her well from a few years ago. Would not mind seeing her again at all.

Adding my welcome to CERB as well.