Reddog01

At Bondi.

I do get it. Not that I view the issue as sacrosanct; it just crosses the line for me.

For me, the type (incall/outcall) and length of date (one hour to overnight) drives the clothing expectations. Incall for an hour or two, I totally leave the clothing options to the lady and I dress casually. No worries. If a longer outcall is in order, than clothing is usually discussed and agreed upon based on the approach I take through email communication after I have conducted my research of recommendations, reviews and the SP's website. For example, if she is a proponent of glamour photography and represents herself that way, then I have no hesitation to request a couple of Agent Provocateur (AP) ensembles and Christian Louboutins for the boudoir. This also inevitably means a tasteful but head turning cocktail dress for our dinner or activity out. I meet her in a jacket and tie freshly groomed and try to present myself the best I can. I usually go this way for a first time well planned extended encounter. After the second or third rendezvous I always give her the option of dressing down to jeans if we are staying in, however I always request the lingerie and heels for fun and by this time maybe a favourite toy:) I have one one occasion with a regular, requested a school girl outfit and a nurse outfit another time. This was an experiment and experience I will never forget. She used her real school uniform from her past private school days and I was surprised how turned on I was after a little roll playing and provocative teasing on her part. It was really intense. We both had fun thus the nurse outfit the next time we got together. Now, if I pursue a SP that presents herself as more down to earth (and I don't mean this pejoratively at all) then I don't ask for AP or Loubs in the bedroom. I just let the chips fall where they may. That's fun too.

When your legs go numb when on the toilet.

In the context of seeing an SP, foreplay is important, at least to me and I hope to her as well. I agree with Ice, it begins with communication and saying the right words, passing the right message. I even hope to engage in a little playful banter back and forth once a commitment is made. I realize many SPs may regard this as a time wasting activity - which is unfortunate; but I guess I can understand it especially for a first date. Then it is about the atmosphere. Perhaps candles, music, wine conversation and a soft kiss before moving on. I love lingerie as well and slowly revealing what is underneath. Oops got to visit the lingerie thread now....

Through good and bad times and you stuck it out. Congratulations Spud. At one time I thought we were about to lose you. I am glad you decided to stay and carry on - much appreciated by the community. Not sure I will have the stamina :) Again thanks for you contributions.

I prefer to strictly use email all the way through the communications and booking process. I have the means and tools to do this quickly and efficiently. When travelling I use Wifi to send my messages and if I am out of contact for a while I will let her know in advance. Having said that, I purchased a separate (hobby) phone to allow me to text and or call to make final/confirmation arrangements in accordance with some SP's operating procedures. This was usually the case for in-calls. A bit of a challenge/hassle for me as I use a pay as you go plan at a minimum of 10$ a month that I rarely use. I constantly let it lapse, the phone is dead, and then am faced with buying a coupon and re-activation. I find now more SPs are comfortable with just email which you can manage over your regular smart phone and that works great for me.

Welcome again Brooklyn and many thanks to Gabriella for helping out to establish another beautiful, beautiful addition to CERB :)

If I had my time over I would spend a little more time to come up with a meaningful user name and thus a "better" avatar. When I came across this Board I had just begun to explore this lifestyle and did not even think I would jump right in so to speak and participate. So I just picked a "call-sign" I had used on a radio one time and then had to find a picture to match a few days later. Now I feel it identifies me and like others have said, I readily identify others more by their avatar than their name at first glance. It is funny how you get accustomed to association by visual cue. Now it is more than four years later, same name same avatar and profile pix. Frankly, I am happy that some have elected not to change their avatar... Now albums are another story, I welcome change, creativity and updates. I am very visual I guess, like most men (generalization).

I have extended let's say from three hours as previously agreed to four or five hours on the spur of the moment during our tryst and paid advertised rates IAW the SP's website with no problem. Where I found it difficult, (personal problem) is when I arrange a three hour rendezvous with a new date and want the option to extend to an overnight if we connect. Every SP I have asked to consider this has agreed. However, 90% of the time I end up emailing my decision to go for the full overnight - a bit of a gamble from both perspectives but then she can plan and there is no hassle later.:) If I have the time and occasion to do so, I prefer conversation, some intimate time, a shower, dinner, more mutual fun/massage, sleep and morning sex with orange juice and Moet. In the end end I guess it is about communication, comfort level, planning and availability.

A repeat from another thread yesterday. Lia is on my mind and she deserves to be included here:)

When is the best time to see her? I remember her well from a few years ago. Would not mind seeing her again at all.

Adding my welcome to CERB as well.

Xenia Onatopp - Goldeneye These names were fun.......... Corinne Dufure - Moonraker with a C

New tires alreadyâ?¦.new oil, back on the road again today. Darn traffic though, time to get out of the city. Just curious, how many kms before you find you have to get a new tire. Took me only 5 k this time!

It will come at a cost though. I think it should be a free service to draw more loyal customers, just like the entertainment systems are provided in most aircraft as standard service.

Cup size works for me. The link ws helpful in understanding the nuances between band and cup size. Did not realize the the breast size 32C was the same as 34B. Its all good:)

Ah yes, but he remembers the "fun" parts that really count. Trying to build my own memory bank for when I am put out to pasture some day:)

Fond memories of a favourite spinner.

I think I will remove the blade this weekend. No more snow I hope!

Although expensive Agent Provocateur is a favourite.

Adding Happy Birthday wishes as well. Another milestone to remind us to stop and take time to enjoy the good things we have while we still can, if you know what I mean. Enjoy your day.