Reddog01

Here is another to keep the heart beat up a little.

Could not download but was able to capture the pix with a screen shot.

Merry Chistmas back at you Heidi. I would love to meet you in the new year. Wish you were under my tree and we could spend a cozy night together in my little cabin.

I heard on the radio that the winner will be announced on Mauler and Rush during the Monday "Morning Hot Tub".

As consumers, why can?t we wait for the next generation that can fulfill our needs for at least three years? Is it simply human nature? Consider this: the big rush to buy the first generation (of any tech device). It always has lower memory, storage, fewer mega pixels (camera), slower conductivity - usually in basic black or silver. We are playing into the hands of the big market tech developers: Apple, RIM, Sony, Google, to name a few. I am sure they have unwritten agreements to launch new tech devices with limited capability. This way they can reel in all the public to buy the first generation, knowing full well they have the capability to launch with more at the beginning and for the same price. The expectation is that we will all trade up in a year or so to get more capability - and therefore spend more money and discard old devices to the landfill or top drawer in the bedroom. I was in the Apple store yesterday looking at buying the ipod touch (4th generation - already - what over a year or so?) for a Chrismas present. It has almost the same functionality as the iphone (less phone and gps) but includes options like a camera, more storage and better browser speed. Problem is my friend allready has a phone with some of the ipad functionality - so now she might have to carry around will two devices (more to lose or misplace). I am making due with a three year old Blackberry and a heavy old classic black ipod (4 years old) waiting, until an all singing, all dancing device is available that has , phone (video/voice), browser, GPS, e-reader, multi-media storage capability and compatible with a PC and iMac. Humm...what abot that RIM Playbook (tablet) that is due to be launched after Christmas.....?

Red and Green - Holiday colours. I like it.

Don't know her name but I would help fill her tank any day.

Why are they looking for a "non-sex worker" (but in the end they really are, a sex worker I mean), maybe they want: a. to assume control (perhaps afraid that they themselves are less experienced than a sex worker); b. support the perception that there is less risk of an "STD" with a less experienced partner; c. to control her "relationships" ie keep her to himself as if he has a mistress but without the “love”; d. something that they can’t seem to get in their present relationship; e. or need an escape from reality with someone (medium to long term) with out complications when they want to cease the relationship Megan: I can't see how they might feel they are above seeing a prostitute; because that is exactly what they are doing anyway. Seeing prostitutes range from the streetwalker, red-light district a la Amsterdam to Escorts or companions and sugar babies. It’s all based on money you can afford to pay and risk one might be willing to accept. Funny, I never though I would pay for a prostitute’s service. I was one that thought it was beneath me, but, you know what, once I took the plunge (for what ever reason) I have met the most incredible women. Beautiful, funny, intelligent and always and above all interesting. So far no regrets.

Well, I learned the hard way, then I found this thread. Photobucket deleted two thirds of my posted pictures on CERB, and they were tasteful shots of beautiful women, nothing close to even soft porn. I am trying Megan's recommendation with Imageshack. Thanks.

Lara is an Indy who is taking a bit of a break right now, touring around England in a "Caravan". I found her in Bath but she likes to work out of London. I see that the photobucket deleted one of my photos of Lara. Can you recommend another site I can use to support CERB? Cancel last. I am changing from Photobucket to Imageshack, using Megan's rec from the tech page. Is there a better host that won't delete pixs that have a little nudity?

I agree, there should be no bartering. As Grasshopper pointed out, it will only ruin the mood - and everyone loses. The hobbyist must do his research and accept the rates as dictated by the SP. I am sure she has done her homework and set her personal rate in line with what the local market can bare (simple economics), congruent with what she is comfortable with herself. I am still relatively new to this hobby and experimenting to some degree. I have tried encounters between 240$ and 750$ an hour. It is a bit expensive, from my perspective, because I prefer a minimum of two to three hours per session. Sadly, I too must draw the line (somewhere) as I find the price for an over-nighter prohibitively expensive. Maybe someday. Hey, but that is my choice. If there is something you want, save your bucks in a special cookie jar and when the time comes enjoy it.

First attempt at posting a picture. Lara from the UK: Another: Uploaded with ImageShack.us

Stopped by the Den last night when I just couldn't stand the malls anymore - just for one beer. A very friendly Tiki introduced herself (Japanese / Hawaiian) - very tight body - spinner. Went for five dances in the "new" CR and enjoyed it very much. She is also a great conversationalist. Had to leave my beer behind the bar because they still don"t have a licence for the CR. Next stop was Leyla, tall slim, dark shoulder length hair and a beautiful smile and very pleasant personality. We went upstairs so I could take my beer with me this time. Her Cherry Blossom tattoo is amazing and I loved tracing it with my fingers. She has a way with a very sultry and sexy come hither look during her dances. I just loved it. I know where I will be stopping by during the holidays. RD

PK: Can't let this one go by. Military personnel are not brain washed; however they learn discipline through training and "drills" and "procedures". It is a generalization to say he did this because of being in the Canadian Forces. In fact if you do the research military folks are on par with the rest of Canadian society regarding mental breakdowns. Edited to add: I don't think we will ever know why Williams did what he did. However, I am confident that the heinous crimes he committed was not caused by his experience in the Military.

I agree, Moxies is a great place. I have never had a bad meal and the girls in their black ensemble are hot. Have not been back to the bar upstairs for a while. Maybe some time for Christmas cheer.....

Reading the thread about missing "Hooters" in Ottawa made me think of a fun place I visit every time I go down South to New Mexico on business. It is a sports bar with a "Lumberjack" type motif. Twin Peaks is a chain only found in Texas, NM and there is one in Oklahoma. The girls are beautiful and they take the time to join you at your table to chat. The food is good but the menu is limited. The beer is great and is served ice cold through a special draft operation that displays the beer temp at about 32F. Do you think this type of establishment would catch on here in Canada? The home page is kind of fun. Have a look. http://www.twinpeaksrestaurant.com

So we are all going to live to a ripe old age. Who is going to support us all? Long live the Hobbyist and the objects of our desires.

I just had to find out the end-state. What a great picture to wake up too. Have a great Friday.

Not so bad. I thought it would be much worse. 78.42 years....that's a good 30 to go.....

Yep I can identify with all those feelings. I am jealous as I am cleaning out the home office. Ok, Cato, you have to finish the chapter.

A lot of things are labeled as additions. Overuse of alcohol, drugs, gambling, overeating, yes even shopping or exercising (compulsive runners for example) and now recently sexual addition is in the forefront due to celebrity exposure. We heard little about sex addition before because, well, it is about sex.... I think what drives people to addition (sex or otherwise) is an inner craving to counter something that is missing (hardly original thought). I guess, and perhaps this is a generalization, but from a sex perspective, sexual addicts use porn, sex workers, multiple affairs, compulsive masturbation to seek momentary relief from feelings of disconnectedness, disappointment, depression, loneliness or to counter anxiety and stress from today?s lifestyle; or perhaps from not living up to expectations, real or percieved. It can be connected to work or to a relationship. Mostly it is men who seek the intimacy that sex brings to get relief from pain, rejection, feelings of inadequacy, failure, even abuse. It is the inability to deal with these feelings (by some accepted way)that may lead some to use obsessive sexual activity to bring relief. Sex (more than the normal need - hard to determine what is normal I know), is one way that gives us the momentary connection, or diversion needed to balance out negative feelings with the positive. Something that makes us feel good, if even for the moment. Of course this can be the same reason to engage in sex outside a relationship. It is the escapism and temporary euphoria we can get from this intimate encounter. (Of course you don?t need to be addicted to seek the same, but I guess it is the obsession and frequency that makes it an addiction - you just have to go back for more - all the time.) ?I just want to make up for lost time? or ?enjoy life to the fullest?, ?I just love women? are many of the excuses we use to validate this obsession or ?maybe the hobby itself?....? It also involves risk and the thrill of the experience...regardless of the consequences such as impact to your SO, family, career, risks to personal health (those that seek to engage in unsafe sex primarily). A final thought: calling yourself or identifying someone as an addict is sometimes used to validate ?bad? behavior (outside society?s norm). A subset of people will use ?addition? to excuse their actions or to feel less shame or guilt.

Thanks , for that. I am sending the link to family and friends.

Tell Apple to accept flash.....

First come up with your objective and build a strategy. What are you trying to accomplish...how are you going to get there? Pretty strait forward in this case: promote your service and make it more appealing and attractive to the customer so he chooses you over the competition. You have to understand the customers needs and wants. Asking this community is a smart way to validate the direction you are planning to take. So from my perspective: A professional website design (home page) that is pleasing to the eye creates the first impression with the potential client. Pictures and graphics must be of a high quality that will reflect PK as a distinctive service provider superior to other agencies. What is under this surface will keep the clients coming back. What is under the surface? The inherent design has to be user centric and the architecture has to be objective focused. You want the user to choose a beautiful lady that you are promoting through PK. So who is PK and why should I trust you ? ...for example. Part of the trust starts with the promotion of your service and the feelings that are generated through your site that will positively affect your client. Trust, what you see is desirable, what you have on the menu is credible and the messages that are presented are believable and not just “cut and pasted from another site or narrative”. Info required: Usual statistics on the ladies, professional photos (the more the merrier, in and out of clothes), services provided, donations (no charges for extras to a GFE - restrictions if required should be up front), personal message and a little background (likes/dislikes, hobbies, turn-ons, turn-offs, restrictions, etc...) Have the ladies write there own introductions from their own personal view. Of course there may be some editing but to many times it is the manager that makes up the site narratives with no input other than approval of the photos from the ladies. Another thing that is helpful is a way of portraying availability - schedule (in-call/out-call). Contacting the agency is another procedure that has to be well covered. I find email to be the easiest. After initial contact with PK, depending upon the situation and planning time before the meeting, it would be preferable to be able to contact the lady personally to confirm preferences or to get to know each other before the meeting. Very important is technical reliability of the site and effective maintenance to keep all information up to date. All your work and credibility will be for not if the site is not maintained. I am not a fan of a musical background as it become repetitive and I almost alway turn it off. Videos of your ladies with a soundtrack would be ground breaking if you can get them to do it. An interview could take place of their personal narratives. They have to be tastefully done..... Of course your reputation has to follow through with the message. IMHO an effective website that is current and well maintained will have me dropping in at least weekly to see what is going on or new. Good luck. Looking forward to seeing your end product.