Reddog01

It’s a shame women have to think like this.......but you will survive because of it. A friend of mine...she walks with keys in her hand, between her fingers, especially at night.

I guess I am in line with Scott's thinking. Growing up I fostered the same misconceptions until I needed something myself (typical eh?). I don?t consider myself pathetic or a ?low life? nor do I think that of the women that have chosen prostitution as a profession. I rationalized my first experience, which was in Amsterdam a couple of years back, after a stressful deployment in a war zone. I guess I thought I deserved it having cheated death a number of times. Looking back, I realize that I sought intimate human contact to celebrate life - life in general. I guess I needed comfort and stress relief; to hug someone and escape for a few moments - I found solace in an SP. After Amsterdam, it was Australia, where prostitution is legal in some States. So I guess from this trend legality has something to do with it from my perspective. If it is accepted by a society I can identify with; then it?s good with me. Although far from a GFE, which I prefer by far, my experience in the Netherlands and Australia started me on the road to hobbying which I just took up earlier this year. As a new hobbyist, I have engaged with a handful of Escorts through out-calls (only in Canada and Australia) and one in-call in England. All the women have been exceptional, extraordinary in their own ways. I have never had less than a two hour visit so I can delve into the person a bit if she lets me. They have their own reasons (I never ask why) but all seem to enjoy the services they provide and have tangible goals to reach. I just love meeting them as well and found I have a real appreciation for the opposite sex that was lost to me when I was younger. How do we change Canadian Society to accept this profession? Charlotte, as you pointed out it is difficult for clients to stand up and be counted for obvious reasons unless you have no strings to a SO and an understanding employer. I think legalization will only be accepted based on the added security such a framework will bring to the industry. Unfortunately, the violent crimes against sex workers that have taken place in the past (Pickon Farm for example) and still take place with little repercussion, need to be highlighted to the government(s) and law makers. Exploit, sympathetic and understanding politicians and lobby groups from this angle. Legality will bring security to the women and clients alike. Unfortunately there will always be an underground industry for illegal activity but legalization of prostitution as we know it, will allow law enforcement to concentrate on reprehensible areas of the industry such as underage exploitation, child pornography and sex trafficking. By the way, I never have talked to anyone about my hobby, save this board. Thank God for this outlet and community.....

It will become easier...by this I mean that you will become more comfortable and self confident when meeting someone new for the first time. It is indeed normal to feel nervous and excited with anticipation about a rendez-vous with a beautiful SP you have specially chosen based on your own tastes and desires. This is part of the thrill and experience. I am with you, I am still new to this hobby and I understand the enthusiasm to want to make the experience pleasant for both partners. Again it is normal to want to connect with the SP when looking for a “true” GFE. The SP is hoping to enjoy herself as well. She is also full of anticipation for some of the same reasons. (Ladies feel free to comment). How do I prepare myself? I prefer outcalls to an upscale hotel, that way I can create an atmosphere that is I hope, safe, pleasant and erotic at the same time. I try and find out her likes and dislikes; a favourite drink and maybe provide a little chocolate if we have Champaign for example. It is a good way to break the ice before and after activities. Candle lighting is also a favourite of mine - candles, and lots of them if time and space permits. I think the “let down” or feelings of depression you talk about after she leaves can also be “normal”. After all you just spent a couple of hours with a beautiful woman who was (I expect) really personally engaged with you on an intimate level. Also, I bet the work up to the meeting was likely an intense experience as well (research, planning, earmarking funds, contact, prep time, anticipation, risk, adrenaline high, expectations and euphoria or a version of it if you are lucky........ We can react differently depending upon our moods - hopefully the experience will add a smile and a spring to your step. Good luck with your next rendez-vous; I will be interested to hear how it goes.

First I heard of this as I have been away for a while. Wishing you the best Tess. You have a long life ahead of you and many friends who want you to succeed. Hang in there.

Congrats Cato. I appreciate your dedication to provide great and insightful input across the board.

Saw Jenna this afternoon. She is a babe. She can be rather direct but once she warms up to you she is a honey. Recommend her to anyone.

Empathetic

Real candles creates the right ambience for me - a nice glow and subdued lighting. Music, champaign or a dry red wine are perfect accompaniments. I also try including some nibbles (chocolate strawberries with the bubbles or some light cheeses with the wine) depending upon her preference for drinks. As far as safety goes, if you set them up strategically and carefully you shouldn't have any problems. Just don't fall a sleep or leave them unattended. Failing candles dimed accent lighting is the next best thing.

All the best to get through Earl. Hope it fizzles out as it moves up the coast. I remember Juan a few years back. Good Luck.

Stopped in between 10 pm and 1230 am. No Jenna tonight but I had a good time with two new "friends"; Amber and Alexis... Amber is a blonde spinner with bright blue eyes, new to dancing. We started off slow but as the dances progressed I enjoyed our time together. Alexis, I gather is a regular to this club. She is about 5'7", dirty blonde hair, hazel eyes, well proportioned and curves in all the right places. Our time in the CR downstairs was great. I loved the short skirt and tied-up shirt over the red bra. I will see her again.

Stopped by for a cold one tonight/this morning. I met Marie-Lou from Montreal. A Blonde Spinner with an engaging smile. We chatted and following her floor show she introduced me to the new CR. As mentioned above the room is separate off the bar area. I like the open area with the large couches. The space gives you the allusion that you are alone with your dancer. Like Megan mentioned I found the mirrors to be a nice touch (ceiling and walls). Seeing your dancer from all angles can be a turn on. I found the blue lighting to be sufficient to see OK. I will be back and will hopefully see Marie-Lou again.

Cato: When you speak of Jennie, is she the tallish blonde, augmented breasts, (Netherlands descent) with the barbed wire tattoo (right Arm). She is one of my favs - I am wondering how she is doing....

Has anyone seen Jenna recently? Blonde, spinner with natural breasts. Last couple of times I visited she was nowhere to be seen. She loves horseback riding.... thanks

I have posted this before but ..."Six inch black or deep red heels that define the calf muscles. White stockings that show off the lines of the leg up to mid thigh. A short black or red mini-skirt that opens from the front. A tied up white blouse that displays a bare midriff. A simple gold or silver chain around the neck. Carefully done eyes that suck you deep into the vortex. Luscious red lips that make the mouth pout, just a little. Finished nails that display attention to detail. Its the whole beautiful package." I guess close to the school girl outfit slightly modified.

Thanks Mod for putting 2 and 2 together.

I prefer email although I can see how an SP would like the phone to get a sense of who is on the other end. However if someone wants to hide intentions or their personality then they can do it on the phone too. I only have a business Blackberry and I can't afford to have unidentified numbers recorded on the RIM or business server that might come back to bite me later. My employer does spot checks on numbers to ensure that they are business related.....although this is difficult to do. i have never been challenged. I am paranoid about using my home computer but I do, and delete all messages and lines of communication after the RV is over. On the road I use my laptop and hot or gmail. This has worked so far. I try and key up appointments a minimum of a day or two in advance. If I am travelling I try a week out. Starting communications a few days out with positive results leads to heightened anticipation. I have phoned from a hotel room but even that has is a problem when the number is recorded on your hotel room. And how about all those video cameras everywhere including hotel elevators and hallways..... I thought about buying a pay as you go phone but then I have to keep very close track of it and it seems overly complicated to ensure coverage when travelling abroad. Is there a solution to get a phone that you can use at home and overseas (Europe and Australia)?

Ok guys. I am missing something. What pics and where is she?

I have a fake Facebook account to allow me to search and a veiled email account to communicate with SPs and MAs. I am too cautious to put up a real site just in case there are unintended repercussions. Like someone mentioned, there is recognition software to find all kinds of links. Not just pictures but names addresses and phrases. Once google brought me to a CERB link when I was searching for something very benignly. I was surprised to find a thread with my alias front and centre. When you use the internet beware. Everyone can see it.

I admit, I like the occasional bacon cheeseburger,,,,,

A CERB milestone. Congrates Megan.

So let's make sure we make the most of it when we get there, and we will.

Duh. Your right Cato. I have no idea why I typed Sep. Asleep at the switch or wishing time away which is not good either. Now I get Sierra's "I have no idea" response. I'm losing it...so the Fax, eh - but on a Sunday?