Reddog01

At the risk of having a "hit" taken out on me. Meg are you going to follow the "World Cup" in South Africa?

The only time I came close to being discovered was when I was in the middle of typing a reply. I minimized the window and browzed the home page until the coast was clear. I always erase history and close Explorer before walking away from the laptop.

I like trimmed natural nails, a little long and with colour or clear nail polish, not trimmed flush with the end of the finger. Having said that French nails and well worn fake nails (not to long) are a turn on especially accompanied with 6-8 inch heels...

I don?t mind being categorized as a "Newbie", as we are all "Newbies" at something at one time or another. I consider I have a depth of ?life experience? to fall back upon when I need it to make judgments, but even then you can go wrong (Funny that life is like that). To be honest, trust works both ways on this site. Using my intuition and experience, I may choose to follow a recommendation offered by a more experienced or long time poster / contributor. Then trust builds with positive experience and with time as one reads the posts and threads getting to know the various personalities. I imagine, security is also a concern and some hesitate to contribute for fear of consequence or some sort of retribution. I have not posted any recommendations because I want to clear it with the SP, MA or Dancer before I do so. So far I have not visited someone who is active on CERB. Maybe I will have to change that! What I don?t want to see is the "Newbie" being categorized or treated as a ?Lurker?. I hope to begin contributing more as my ?Hobbiest? experience widens, but alias this too will take time.

I hope to get out and see Santana on onthe 14th. Lots of other bands and performers that are not listed as Headliner I would like to go and see and experienc. Week 1 July 6: Iron Maiden July 7: Furthur with Phil Lesh and Bob Weir July 8: B-52s and Moody Blues July 9: Joan Jett July 10: Roger Hodgson, Metric, Flaming Lips July 11: Rush Week 2 July 13: Arcade Fire July 14: Santana and Steve Winwood July 15: Crowded House July 16: Great Big Sea July 17: Keith Urban July 18: Weezer

I like going out on the limb here but as a resident in Ottawa I like going to Gatineau for "meetings". I am less "in therory anyway" to bump into someone I know when venturing out with a SP for dinner or a drink.

This thread has been realy entertaining. Personally, I like having music on in the background during an encounter with a lovely SP. Background means not to loud. This rules out heavy medal as it is meant to be played loud but there is a place for this depending on the situation - when In a hotel setting I usually turn on MTV or MUCH if the timing is right. Its doesn’t work if “The Hills” or “A Shot At Love” comes on just as the end is near. I note references to Santana and Diana Krall, both are artists I like and can see as background “atmosphere” that I could appreciate.

I visited Sapphires back in 2009 with some US contractors while I was attending a conference. http://www.sapphirelasvegas.com/ It is huge (more than 60,000 sq ft) - they split the club in half; opening partitions as the club fills up in the early ours of the morning. Ok for a one time visit. I only dropped about $300.00 USD but one of my contractor buddies spent over $1200.00 during the evening. I real spread of talent, beautiful looking but ranging from crass, down to earth, to very sophisticated. YMMV, as I remember it; and lap dances were $30 USD a song. I don’t think I would go back to Sapphires, preferring a smaller club next time……

I have only participated in ?outcall? at my hotel when on business, and usually through an agency. Although, now that I am reading CERB recommendations and trying to contribute to the Board, this trend will likely change. When on business, social commitments and a heavy schedule usually leaves little time for me. However, recently I try to reserve at least one night off to enjoy two or three hours for myself and a visit from someone special. It goes like this: I get back to my room, having declined some activity, but it is always at 6:30 pm or later. I phone to line up my evening. I know I need to plan better?. I don?t eat anything heavy and I fetch two bottles of wine (red and white) so she can select her preference. I also have a little selection of cheese and crackers, Brie and Gouda, something light and not too pungent. If I have time I obtain some dark and sweet chocolate to cleanse the palate or when we are lying in bed together after some activity. She knocks lightly at the door. I resist looking through the peep hole as my insides flutter in anticipation.. I let her in, we embrace and say hello, and I kiss her a greeting on both cheeks. I take her wrap. I offer her a seat and over wine we talk to get more comfortable with each other. I will have music playing on the TV ? soft rock or we can agree on something else. I try to sit directly across from her, almost touching knees so I can look in those lovely eyes. I try and learn something about her preferences, last time she preferred rum and coke - - note to self. After 30- 40 minutes of conversation, everything from the weather to sex and politics, its time to shift gears. I try to shower before her visit, but sometimes as always with crisis management these days, I might have to take a quick one after the wine and conversation. She can join me but usually she slips into something more comfortable and is nicely displayed on the bed for my return. I let body language take over, she leads at first, but I try to please her as much as she is ought to please me. If the chemistry is right (and it has been every time so far) it?s a great time and I love the full GFE. I always book two hours but on some occasions I have asked for an extension to three hours to allow for more ?cuddle time? between the sheets, and if I can handle it one more go around. When it is close to the time to leave we shower together. I watch her dress and we kiss and embrace a goodbye. Sigh.

I agree with Meg's comments.

I did a three club tour this evening. Barbs, Taboo and finally Pigale's. Renos at Taboo are a nice change from the past, at least from what I remember a few years back. No joy at Barbs or Taboo but I scored at Pigale's with a hot blonde "spinner" with natural breasts. Her name is Jenna and we seemed to hit it off very well. My trip to the CR went by very quickly and 15 songs later I had to let her go for her turn on the stage. Hot dance routine. She told be she works at Taboo sometimes on Sat afternoons as well. I had to leave or risk falling under her spell once again. I will be going back to see Jenna again, and something tells me it may be soon. Man, I love women and I am so weak.....

La Pink eh. I have not been there for years. Maybe I will swing by tomorrow after work. Maybe an early departure because of the long weekend.

1. Barbarella's ? intimate, beautiful women (my all time favourite works here) but the CR is less than desirable; 2. Pigale's ? party atmosphere, beautiful hot women, CR is the best, especially the booths with the mirrors; and 3. Nuden ? comes in third, easy to be a bar fly, women are above average with some hotties, CR has some partly obsured booths and an open area with couches, plants and tables.

Thanks Cato. Appreciate it. I must meet Meg and look up Leah again next time in Toronto. Cheers.

Cato: Good job revitalizing this thread. Have you heard from Leah lately? Unfortunately her picture you posted 10-03-2009, 10:20 AM doesn?t appear on my page. Can you try again?

Ok Meg, the balls in your court. What are you going to do?

Great vid. I guess I will have to strart watching SNL again.

Dropped by Barbs tonight between 8:30-10:00 pm for a beer at the bar. It was quiet, because of the playoffs; as one of the girls surmised. Very good ratio: about 12 dancers that were visible to about 20 patrons spread about the club. I just got my draft and was watching the gorgeous Christina on stage, when Dianna from Romania introduced herself. After about ten minutes back to the CR. I enjoyed 10 songs; she has beautiful facial features as most women from the East enjoy, full lips, high cheekbones and green eyes. We seemed to strike it off well. Most enjoyable! She tells me she works at Barbs daily from about 3:00 to 10:00 pm. Saw a couple of “spinners” I would have liked to try, but that’s for next time.

[FONT=Arial]I enjoy the thread on SCs in Ottawa, so why not the Big Smoke? [/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Here is an opportunity to share stories and reviews of SCs in TO and surrounding area. After all, for many of us SCs were the roots of our “Hobbiest” activity. I least I did. After a few years I graduated to SPs (recently). I may never look back. Having said that, where else but a SC can you get a beer and appreciate the view, partake in unpretentious discussions with young ladies and/or chill with friends? Now that is what freedom is all about.[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]I visit Toronto frequently and would like to keep up on the SC and SP scene. I usually visit the Pro Café (Club Pro) but the last time, about three weeks ago, I found it had changed from about a year previous. It was dead and the girls where not really into performing, on stage or in the CR. Although it was early in the evening they still charged $20 just to go into the CR (and that was each time if it was with a “new” girl).[/FONT] [FONT=Arial]So guys and girls where are the best SCs in Toronto? [/FONT]

I don't aim to find release in a SC. Rather, if I am on my own I enjoy talking with some of the dansers and having a drink or two, just taking in the moment with a beautiful young lady with no hiden agendas. Yes things can get a little frisky in the CR. I have had lots of fun with favourite dancer(s) on the Ottawa side in the recent past doing body shots, licking salt and squeezing lemons on various body parts; just being playful between danses while in the CR. Some mild to heavy petting through clothes (mine) of course. I always found the summer more fun with shorts and t-shirt. However, on the PQ side I have experienced the fourth option in your poll a couple of times, but that was a few years back. I usually don't look for it it just happens.....

Out for fun: "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." Another one I like: "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." FN Here is the link again taken from the start of this thread to the satire : "So you want to date a Stripper?" http://www.identitytheory.com/insight/bruns9.html

Kubrickfan: Your right I should have posted it under stripclub. I am new to this board and will pay more attention in the future. I have more expeience with SCs than SP. I plan to engage more SPs in the future, having had a lot of fun with one recently in Toronto. My intent was to share this article with a wider audience by postin in the general area. I thought it was fun and as you pointed out it rings a little true for some of us.

Soleil: The post was not meant to offend, and not to generalize. It takes all kinds to make the world go round. It was intended to make light of a situation when a guy gets a bit too close and finds he can't say no or can't recognize (or dosn't want to recognize) when being taken advantage of. Of course most dancers and Sps don't aim to "take advantage". Some guys, me included, have been smitten by a dancer or escort where a relationship grew over time. I got lost in the "fantasy" (no fault of hers), after all she was just trying to make me feel good with comliments, sexual innuendo and the odd dinner out and evening at her place. This kept me interested and she knew it, although I think she did enjoy my company, when it suited her. The link I provided is a stereotypical story of a hobbiest, not all guys are like him either. Appreciate your reply and I hope you can see the homour in it. Reddog