Reddog01

A new mattress. Most expensive one I bought in my life from a local Canadian company, and I went King. Usually I always bought a brand name during one of those sales but I found apart from impossible comparison shopping, they build them these days with inferior material just to save a buck. Like everything they are now built to be replaced (disposable) in five years. Anyway, this one seems very well made and has a 15 year warranty. After all, we spend at least one third of our life in bed sleeping, apart from other activities :) so it only took me 50 years to address a good sleep as a priority.

I actually tried to stay away last night (Fri) as I have been frequently dropping in, it seems, ever two to three days over the last three weeks. Maybe it is the season, maybe it is bordom or maybe it is the beautiful dancers that keep working there everyday that have been drawing me in to Barb's. Likely the latter, and if my mind strays and the opportunity is there I just check my billfold and launch. Tonight I launched with Nicole again in the CR. She can attract me so easily in that short pleated skit and knee high socks. After an hour I was ready to leave until I came across petite Sandra, all 4'11" of her. I had to take her back and it certainly proved to be a good time. She fit nicely in my lap and her laser treatments sure gave witness to flawless and soft skin everywhere. That's it for a few days so I can muster some Christmas cheer for my next visit.

I like it all. I use the BBQ most of the year and cook the chicken that way with different sauces which keeps it moist. If using the oven, I season the chicken and I cover it for most of the cooking until near the end to brown it up. It is juicy if not over cooked. Not a fan of gravy.

I agree with most of the above. I also enjoy the atmosphere where I can converse with a beautiful young lady without judgement (or she can hide it well). She is a willing participant and there is usually no agenda - for the most part it is what it is I guess. If you can hit it off and enjoy each others company - it is the visual, cognitive and yes, sometimes (rarely) the physical gratification that keeps me coming back. Years back this activity (attending exotic dance bars) actually led to a few dinner dates and enjoyable activities out side the club, but inevitably for lots of reasons, nothing could ever be sustained.

As far as Barb's goes, I have had the pleasure to experience all the acceptable (minus squirt) and only three of the "unacceptable" not counting the Kilt. Missing from acceptable is a favourite pastime of mine when in the mood. Tequila (and reversible) body shots. Lemon and salt gets everywhere. Just have to "try" and avoid the super sensitive area. I would move Kiltboy's "opening my shirt to nibble, lick, suck my nipples" to the acceptable category - its only fair when tequila and lemon juice is involved :).

A bit on the wow side:

Dropped in tonight for a couple of hours. Pretty quiet with the Sens game on in the background. LU included Nicolle, Destiny, Marie(a), Christina, Heavenly and a few others I am not familiar with. First time with Nicolle in the CR and I found it quite enjoyable - stayed longer than planned. Promised to return for a dual with her partner(s) in crime (Stacy/Phoenix) in Dec before Christmas.

YES- Redblacks in overtime. They deserved it. Great barn burner! Grey Cup parade anyone?

Hey guardian; I know it is not easy some times but after reading your experience let me share my approach to strip clubs. Go into the club with a plan and a cash limit in mind and stick to it. I try to set my own expectations by gathering intel on any ATFs that might be working (or not) that day. I only use cash and refuse to use the machine. Ok, I admit I have broken the rule but only a couple of times over the last few years. I have a couple of dancers I see regularly. One ATF I pay a fixed rate for about an hour of time that sometimes is only 55 mins but many times 10-20 mins over the hour depending upon circumstances and whether or not someone else might be waiting. The other dancer takes it for granted that I am committed to an established pattern/habit of 15 to 20 dances; which is the way more expensive way to go. She is young, and on one occasion after we shared many tequila shots she tried to take advantage of my amiable disposition to entice (almost bully) me to stay for more. This annoyed me as it dawned on me that she sees a large ��� stamped on my forehead. I got somewhat short/annoyed with her and she later apologized. We are still "friends" and I still pay lol. It is easy to forget sometimes as we tend to get lost in the moment and fall prey to our own (maybe delusional) fantasies and forget that it is "work" for the women, and although this may sound crass, many dancers use what ever tactic or approach on you to win your interest/loyalty to maximize profit. I realize this is a generalization and some do not target us for maximum profit but try to establish a "friendship" and what comes naturally usually happens over the long term. As long as we remind ourselves of this fact and keep the reins on our discretional funds that we put aside for SPs/MAs/Dancers, it is all good. If I have no intention of taking someone to the CR, or have other plans, I let them know within five minutes of conversation by either saying that "I am waiting for someone", "I have spent my quota for the evening", or "I am just enjoying a drink and I may look you up later". If an ATF (regular) is involved I tell her I don't have the time right now or I am tapped out tonight and I will likely see her the next time I am in the club. Bottom line is, you are the consumer; you have control; it is your hard earned cash and you should make the choices to ensure your time is enjoyable, fun and respectful for all parties involved.

Hey Prufrock; no need to even think an apology is required or even sought for your observation. I won't answer for the OP or how his post is interpreted, however the underlying message remains the same and I think we all received it loud and clear. In an ideal world we all, as Cato mentioned, should treat each other the same way (with respect) as a matter of course. And yes, I agree honesty is part and parcel. That way we all win.

Agreed; showing respect, being considerate (kind) and showing a genuine acknowledgment of the person you are seeing is a good recipe for a mutually enjoyable session.

Cool examples of some of Harry Martin's work.

I recognize the benefits/arguments for seeing a "mature" escort. However, personally, I find I am focused on SPs in their late 20s/early 30s. More now, as I am just starting to feel the "creep thing" associated with a wide difference in age (as alluded in above posts) when seeing or interacting with 19 to 24 year olds. I am cognizant of age difference but to be honest I really enjoy the exuberance of youth found in younger escorts/MAs/dancers. I take pleasure in their un-jaded views of the world, bubbly disposition, energy and general sense of optimism associated with being young and looking to the future. This exuberance rubs off on me, I find it stimulating and it can, many times, define the session. Also, perhaps presumptuous of me, I also enjoy taking my time and giving younger providers a good pleasing experience based on my years and personal approach. I find conversation, respect and taking the time with "foreplay" pays dividends and guarantees a return date that often is better than the first. Having said all this, I see booking more "mature" SPs in the future. Its all good.

I enjoyed the Redux version too. It slows the movie down a bit but the extra scenes add a different dynamic and expands some of the character traits. "An extended version of Francis Ford Coppola's 1979 classic, with nearly an hour of 'new' footage filling out the story of Captain Willard and his crew as they voyage towards the compound of Colonel Kurtz."