tallOttawaMan

If they are members, what are their forum names? Maybe it is me, but I can't seem to find them.

While it is true you have to show her that you are worth kissing, I am not sure if being sure/shy is the issue (at least in a SC). Being attractive and looking clean certainly does help, but I susspect more important is how much money it looks like you have. The dancer isn't there to find a boyfriend, but instead to make money, so she wants to make sure that her time with you is worth while.

Apology accepted. And I apologize if what I wrote was insulting. It was not intended that way. Gabriella Laurence described it best: part joking around and part wishful thinking.

Nothing was assumed (I did provide two interpretations). It was written in tongue-in-cheek (no pun intended ;) ). It was not intended as an insult. Besides, is it insulting to think that a woman (regardless of her profession) might want to receive pleasure without being paid?

Are you suggesting that he hire a personal trainer for his tounge, or are you volunteering to have him train for free? The former may break the bank. After all, strength training should be done 2-4 times a week. ;) If you are volunteering to let him train for free, I would also take you up on your offer. ;)

True enough. Any time you are happy with a service, a tip is expected. Having said that, there was no expected minimum tip nor was there a menu to select from. Additional Comments: Additional Comments: I tend to disagree. The combined price may end up being the same as a premium SP, but you may not be getting a premium SP.

I hate the way most MPs charge a door fee and then the attnedant expects you to pay for an extra in the room. Years ago I went to a place on Baseline near Woodroffe that didn't offer any extras but would give you a nice massage and give you the option of a release at the end. You could even touch her a bit with her clothes on, all for one reasonable fee (about the same or slightly more than the door fee of other parlours). I went several times and saw several ladies and they all offered the same thing. I know some indi's will offer an all incllusive rate, but are there any parlours that are similar to this?

While on the history lesson, I gather the Silver Dollar used to be a pancake house with the same name (Silver Dollar Pancakes). It changed to a strip club sometime in the 80s.

Can you get a haircut in the privacy of the massage section?

Very true. Also, every lady has things she is particularly good at (you can't be good at everything). The key is focus on those things during the encounter and if BJ isn't one of them, you may have an amazing time without even having one.

For me the most important thing is CIM (or would it be CIC for CBJ?). It loses something if she has to stop just before the end. The best is when she doesn't even miss a beat and keeps going until you stop.

I don't go very often anymore, but when I do, I typically have a total spending cap of $100 or less (inlcuding cover and drinks). I figure if I am spending more than that, I would be better off using it towards a MA or SP. As for how I spend it within the club, if I get lucky and find the perfect dancer right away (combination of nice, natural breasts and easy going), I will spend it all on her. However, if after one or two dances I get the feeling that she isn't what I am looking for, I will quickly abort and try someone else. Sometimes I will run out of money before I find what I am looking for, or will find her, but can't get as many dances from her as I would like.

But if you leave without having received a haircut...

Would be tempting to say it as it is and tell her that she was too agressive and besides the other girl has nicer tits. ;)

Never even heard of it. What is/was it like?

I think the club you are talking about is in Carlsbad Springs at the corners of Boundary and Russel Rds (backing onto the train tracks). Not sure if it still exists or not. I haven't been there for years.

If that is true, what a waste. Why would a woman with naturally large breasts wreck them with implants?

Do you know if they were they natural or augmented?

I agree. The Playmate is certainly a good option this side of the river IMHO.

He said the review was flattering, but said she offered services he knew she didn't and she was getting unwanted attention as a result.

If it is an isolated case, she will likely get over it and as others say, leaving it up there could create an unplesant/dangerous situation for her. Not all guys are gentalmen and will feel they "deserve" the extras that they thought they paid for. Sad but true. :(

Unfortunately things got busy and I never got a chance to see her. Any other reccomendations?

I have a couple pet peeves: 1. Dancers trying to talk to you while you are obviously watching (and enjoying) the stage show. Show some respect and wait for the show to end. Same goes with the waitresses, but I understand it a bit more with them. 2. Bad BO. I once had a dance with a dancer who was hot and was giving great milage, but she smealled like vomit. Huge turnoff!

I was in the playmate the other day and this one dancer saw me looking at her, came up to me and gave me a big kiss. I then took her into the Champaign Room where we made out while waiting for the dance to start. I can't remember her name, but she had large fake tits and a foreign accent.

If that is the one right off the 40, it closed several years ago. There is another one off of the 20 though (unless it also closed as I haven't been there in several years).