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1. I'm confused. Are you always the one paying for dinner. Are you always the one asking them out ? Do you never get asked out yourself. Anyhow the less attractive you are ( and looks are only part of it ) The more the comparison becomes valid. 2 pof, or whatever leads to a Long term relationship eventually leads to sex without condoms and lasts more than a perfunctory discrete extremely limited time. Are you kidding me ? Posted via Mobile Device

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Truthfully I dont mind the cancellation at all. Never did. I agree shit happens and it is at least honest. I wouldnt want her there if she really didnt want to be there and so I harbor no resentment whatsoever. I have had to cancel people or be late. It would be bad karma to be upset with it happening once. Moreover, in all likelihood the fact that i was raring to go compromised my judgment and had me with a hair trigger to pull. The sp I saw however just wasnt all that into it. At all. The advantage to CERB is that you can read the posts and get a sense of the sps. I am a reluctant hobbyist for a few reasons. One of them is that there is always the nagging fear echoing the standard complaints that sps are doing it for reasons other than a clear headed decision (History, circumstance, etc.). Reading sp comments on CERB you see the obvious intelligence and purpose and it makes you feel more secure and alright in a decision to see someone. The unrated agency sp does not offer that advantage. Not getting a sense of person before hand also makes it harder Having an experience where the person is going through the moves monotonously brings a harsher reality home.

Id be happy to toftt and write a negative one but cant

had my first experience in ottawa with an sp. Had taken my time and selected someone well reviewed who I thought would be excellent. No doubt she will be, but today cancelled at the last minute. And so, in the frenzy of having waited all day for it - I called an agency - and saw a girl with great recommendations from them. Not so much. Literally had my coat in her hand at the door when finished washing up from a lackluster less than vanilla service. It could be me - but thats unlikely - I am extremely lovable (Oh yeah - I also gave a tip up front). Anyways - lesson learned. There are many sps in agencies who are not reviewed - and now I am thinking its for a reason. My guess is that if an sp had been working in the area for a while and not been reviewed. its because negative reviews are nt allowed. Maybe the cowboy needs to report on this, not quite a b&S but not what advertised either.

interested - tight looking - for real? Good?

3 basic facts 1. Its not all about hiv - other stds can be very damaging - esp. if there are unknowing partners involved 2. Any mucosa - mucosa contact is risky for std's (including daty), if someone has brushed their teeth before - risks increase 3. One has to assume that everyone is infected. its called universal precautions and is a standard practice in medicine. In many ways the practice, even if the sp is offering is unfair to all sps. As it generates pressure on those sps who dont want to. Whenever offered, I decline and women will often tell me that they feel it really helps business and so even if they aren't really comfortable with it - they need the business and they know someone else will and it is not as risky as other things. receiving cim even a swallow is actually not as dangerous to the woman (unless the load is huge) as having the member in for the duration of the bj

http://jama.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/abstract/296/8/964‏ as you can see by the link posted above - when you combine herpes type 1 (more often oral) and herpes type 2 (traditionally genital the infection rate increase toward the 80 % side. BBBJ means both are in play, since we know there can be cross contamination. Finally, the shedding of virus responsible for transmission through skin is more likely to occur during fs (and you are right there is still a risk of transmission when covered). the whole skin contact thing is much different during a bj and so the risk is greater with fs than we realize and the difference between cbj and bbbj is also significant. Many with herpes have the virus but never express it in the form of cold sores (oral or genital). Again there are slightly different risks between giver and receiver on either of these issues. It seems hard to make any argument that bbbj is not a whole lot riskier than a cbj. A CBJ is almost risk free.

its paying for sex. sex does not have to be intercourse sometimes its changing diapers (just saw that on here and thought I love it when peoples fetishes make mine seem tame) and sometimes its cuddling. You are both there for the same reason - the money. She would not be there if you werent paying her and you would not be there if you could get whatever she is offering for free. You are completely deluding yourself if you think that you are paying for her to visit you but she is only doing the fs because you are a great guy. For sure the finances of an sp make sense if you compare the 2-3 dates at nice restaurants to get into someone's pants but its not a date. You know whats going to happen because of the verbal/implied contract. And I completely agree with Meg in that there can be no double standard in being here in any fashion and implying that there is anything wrong with paying for the service. If only the rest of my life were this simple.

It has long been bizarre to me that BBFS is considered so verbotten while bbbj is routine. Although the threat of HIV infection is reduced with bbbj it is not nil, in particular if the sp has has brushed or flossed before. SImilarly, there need not be ANY sign of infection for herpes to be transmitted. Herpes has been reported to be in the population in anywhere from 50-85 % level. For HObbyiests - Even if it doesnt express itself. If you are involved with a significant other and you are getting a bbbj you are playing the same russian roulette with your relationship. For SP's think about this, has any one of your hobbyiests ever once admitted to having herpes before a bbbJ? ever? Exactly. No one does but its out there. Alot. And even if he is a long standing regular - who is the sweetest guy and you have the best connection - he WILL lie. ANy time I have been with a service provider I have had this convo and they have all said that so many more hobbyiests asked for that and they need/want the business. I tell them to offer facials (with your eyes closed), it adds kick and is much much healthier for both parties. I have never had a bbbj and while the sensation may be diminished, I never ever wake up wondering if the guy three dudes ago had something and most sps are so talented its still better than anything out there. Anyways just my two cents.

Most conventional media suggests that most sp's are doing this because they have to - not because they want to. And rather than being empowered, as a potential hobbyist, I would only be taking advantage of the sp. I havent been often to sp's and not for a long time, frankly its something that has kept me away. But here (CERB) there, seems like a nice community and the sps I see here seem to be bright, aware women...... can someone help me with this?

Any info? advertises heavily but I see no reviews. AHs anyone been with her.Are her pictures and services real? thanks

is there anyone who offers this in ottawa

I ma new to this - would not want to be caught is there a real risk?