I guess I owe you all an apology especially the ladies. So I must apologize as it was not my intent to go behind anyone?s back but I can definitely see and understand why you wouldn?t want someone asking these questions to someone other then your self. I guess I was just hoping to find a lady that would be willing to deal with my situation but I realize now I should be asking the ladies specifically. So again I apologize to every one but I do appreciate the advice.