LuxeMulvari

My regs take care of me, I would NEVER treat them in such a disrespectful manner.

Sounds like fun..........

hmmm might have to make a trip down :)

I used to have these when I was a dancing.....I got them in Niagara Falls :) Additional Comments: these ones :)

interesting thread...

Sad: I LOVE this video, it shows behind the scenes of a strip club, very accurate : "its not the right place to let your daughters visits, 'cause there's some freaks up in here and its all explicit" Personal Fave ! : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jakLyWA32wE Beautiful, but sad:

She's my hero!

Well hello there:)

Cat's list is bang on

Oh by no means was that directed to you in a negative way, lol! I was just merely commenting on how cultural differences set the standards for what is the "norm" or "acceptable". Each city has their own pros and cons, i was simply pointing out how something that is strange or uncommon in one place, is perfectly acceptable or even everyday practice in another. Thats what makes the world so great, our differences! Problems come into play when people judge others simply on their outside appearance or they how they choose to adorn themselves.

@ PistolPete: I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents. What a great way to honour their memory by getting inked:) I think it depends on where you're getting tattoed. In Ottawa, i could see a policy like this being in place because it's very conservative white collar governmental town, tattoos aren't really part of the everyday accepted culture or accepted in the work place. The style of dress, cars, clothing and subculture is very "beige", very safe and no one likes to stand out. In Windsor/Detroit, we are blue collar auto workers. We are the home of Motown and everyone knows Detroit Rock city. We as people and our culture are quite flamboyant and creative, as reflected in our music, speech and dress. Tattoos are culturally part of the norm there, its quite common to have numerous tattoos before your twenties, whereas here its not very common to be tatooed at all, and if you are they are in places that are easily hidden. I've never seen facial tattoos here, and hand tattoos are rare ( i have a hand tattoo myself).I think it has to with what is culturally accepted as the "norm" or "beautiful". No one ever had an issue with my tattoo's back home or in places like Toronto or Niagara Falls, it was only when i arrived in Ottawa that some potential clients had an issue with them. It's just what you are used to i guess. I figure, if my tattoo's are a bother to a potential client , then we probably wont get along anyways, i'm wayyyy to openminded and free spirited to get along with "cookie cutters" who judge people on their differences and outside appearance,and i don't mesh well with people who think everyone should be in a nice little box and all look the same. Life is art, and its should be expressed. What is the point of having thoughts and creativity if we cannot express it? Maybe I'm just a product of my environment, but give me colour, light, noise and freedom of expression anyday!!!!

Welcome! Enjoy your stay!

I managed to avoid getting our "Cult" tattoo as we call it back home, the Detroit "D". Everyone has it back home, everyone gets it, it is sort of a right of passage there. Eminem and Kid Rock are 2 examples: (on his forearm) on his forearm as well.... Porcelain Black (man shes fun to drink with :P) I love her tattoos, her pic is actually in my signature, her hands say " Detroit Rock City". as well as a few others: I have been with many friends on numerous occasions when they got theirs done, so many I've lost count . I was back home in May for Labour Day weekend ( the weekend after Victoria Day weekend here in Canada), and i was sitting on the porch with a few friends talking about tatt's. One asked when I'm going to get my "D" done,since I'm kinda old not to have mine yet (we usually get it done sometime in highschool) and if I wanted he'd take me right now to get it. All my friends (that have had theirs forever) chimed in that they'd pay for it....I convinced them we should go to belle isle and party instead but i guess I'll have to suck it up and get mine sooner or later lol :P

I love my tattoos. They all have meaning, and whenever i look at them i remember that period in my life, I can look back and smile. The one i have that takes up my whole left thigh is my fave, it was birthday present from a very close friend who drew it and tatooed it just for me. I represents me and my story; my life and who i am. I know no one will ever have that tattoo, its mine and mine alone. It is a life changing experience getting one, it changes you as you now have a marker in time, i.e. before this tattoo and after. Its almost like taking a photograph to me, freezing a moment in time. I have 8, i will always remember who i was with and what i was doing at that time in my life when i got them . I look at them its like looking back fondly over a scrapbook of my life, mementos that are always with me. To me,they symbolize something important to the wearer, something they want to express to the world. I always loved tattoos, I come from a place where almost everyone has quite a few, full bodies even. I'm done getting new tattoos, i might add to my existing ones, but at this time i think im done, except for my father's tattoo's. I think my love affair with ink started as a young child looking at his arms, i was fascinated with their beauty and begged for one ever since i can remember. I was with him when i got my first one, it was a great day i will always remember and cherish , it's truly one of my best memories. I always told him when he passes i will get his tattoos, maybe even in the same places as a tribute to the greatest man i have ever known :) To me thats what tattoos are a tribute on your body to someone or something that's eternal. To love/cherish something that much is true beauty.

I LOVE stockings.......thigh high sheers.....they always seem to enhance the sensuality.........

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you, a ladies phone should never be on during appts. Stick to reputable providers here on cerb with an established presence and lots of good reviews, us professional ladies know how to conduct ourselves in a way that is pleasurable and respectful to our clients:) Sorry to all the clients that still have to deal with this nonsense, turning your phone off is pretty basic, "escorting 101". These "providers" that still operate like this give the rest of us who try our best a bad name, and for that I am truly sorry.

I LOVE the heat :) I rarely run my a/c, but I do have one :) Being from the south, I grew up in a hot climate, where I'm from temps are similar to southern California. I grew up wearing shorts 70% of the time, and I am not a big fan of clothing.I was born in the summer during record high temps, so i started my life in the heat :) I am a sun baby for sure! My first winter here in Ottawa, i though i was going to die, my bones felt like they were freezing. That being said, i don't need to cool down much, but for those looking to escape the heat, a lovely mutual shower usually does the trick.......although things seem to heat up again quite quickly afterwards..........

Thank you for the wondeful suggestion of nursing. I have been in school since 2009, i have a degree in Aboriginal studies, and am going to complete my second degree in Business this year (2012-2013). I realize how serious of a commiment this is, i have spoken to many people, i realize i'm looking at 10 plus years of school. Being in my early 20's, time is on my side. I stated in my original post that i realize what a commitment this is, thats why after speaking to numerous doctors, i still want opinions to get the facts, hence this thread. I'm no stranger to education, i was in gifted classes when i was younger. The reason I didn't follow a more "traditional" road in my life is I do not like to conform to society, it bores me quite simply.Traditional 9-5 hum drum life is my idea of hell, it really never suited me, I get bored easily and i am a free spirit; I roam as I please. That's why I'm an escort. Being a doctor will allow me to work anywhere in the world, but I'd like to work with sp's as in street help and general practice, since many health care providers discriminate against us. ER would be good too, since I like working under pressure. If I'm going to pursue this, (I've been toying with the idea for about 6 months), I'm going to go all the way, because as anyone that knows me will tell you, I do nothing half asked, and when i decide I'm doing something, there's no stopping me. There was a lady I was told about when i was going to shoot for Score Magazine back in 2010, Sharon Mitchell, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sharon_Mitchell a former pornstar who is now a doctor, who invented a system called AIM testing, which all porn actors/actresses have to get. I had to go to Detroit to get this testing done, it's not performed in Canada,only the U.S. and it's quite expensive. Regular testing can take up to 6 months to show HIV infection. I guess she figured out that once you have HIV, it alters your DNA, meaning its visible by testing the DNA, and she figured this out and subsequently, how to test to show infection within 10 days of the subject being infected. With AIM testing, You also get special papers where you are indentified by either your passport # or driver's license #, that way on set each actor/actress can see the papers and know they are working safe, you cannot lie, because you have to show each other the corresponding I.D. along with your AIM papers. This is now the standard in the porn industry, you cannot work if you do not have AIM testing, period. So if a former porn star can do all that, I think this SP can be an MD.

Hi everyone, I was wondering if anyone in the medical profession could help me on this one. I'm about to finish my degree in business, this coming school year i will be finished. I come from a family where nursing is quite prevalant, my grandmother was a nurse since 14 and a have 3 cousins in nursing. In my hometown Windsor, a border city, i have alot of American friend with no insurance, and have done stitches and popped arms back into sockets before. Now i know it's not the same, but i really like to help people, and i really like school. I like to fix people. Blood doesnt scare me either, and I think with my degree being over, i would like to continue my education in the medical field. I realize you you have to go to school for a very long time, but I'm willing to make the effort. I've been looking into schools, asking around. Ultimately, I'd like to work in emergency, i work best under pressure with a time frame. My science marks are good, math is ok, but not above average( i understand algebra and the like, but math isn't my favourite). My highest marks are in languages. I would really like to hear some opinions, to help guide me to the right people. Just wondering if anyone had any thoughts? thank you for your time :)

Glad there's a group for us tattoed ladies

All the ladies i can think of are already mentioned...except for myself lol :)

I saw this video......made me think of my parents......one is white the other is brown....dating in the 60's was a very different time for mixed race couples my parent went through alot to be together...........told me alot of stories.I'm glad they didnt care or listen to what people said though, i wouldnt be here if they weren't so brave...i hope my generation can end this, we are all the same inside. Was just reading and came across this thread again and thought i'd post:)

Exactly my point. Kissing, digits, and daty do not involve my interaction with semen, so the risk of catching an std from those three are minimal to none, there has never been a reported case of women catching HIV from DATY, ever. There are, however, reported cases of women, and photos if anyone cares to google, of women with std's from bbbj. This is proven medical fact. The disease is in the semen. No semen, no HIV. Very simple. My point was this, very simply, if you will put an unprotected member into one hole in your body, why is it any different in another? Your body is all connected, one unit. You mouth and your cookie aren't separate, the all belong to one organism, you. That's like saying, "oh ill inject heroin into my arm, but not into my foot." It's all connected, so I'm just trying to understand the reasoning/logic behind this thought process, of why one orifice is "safe" but another is not. I used to get mad about girls who did bbbj when i first started, I used to blame them when clients would call me, book an appointment, we're all set to go, and then they ask " oh btw, you do do bbbj right?" My response, as many can attest to, is always "as my health and safety, as well as the health and safety of my clients is my #1 priority, I do not engage in any unprotected services." and some would cancel on me. I do not hide that I'm a safe gfe, it's on my website in black and white. Some really respect me because of this. I had more than a few they tell me they're terrified of bringing something home, and I'm one of the few they can truly relax with, my business practices put their mind at ease. Some don't care either way. Others cancel on me. Why do I say all this? Because my perception has changed over the last my few years in my time in this industry. I realized getting mad at the ladies who do BBBJ is irrelevant, it will not change the fact that ladies will still offer it, and men will still ask for it. If you want to take risks like that, that your perogative. Just as I no longer get upset at the ladies who BBFS. There was at time when bbbj was taboo, someone told me they got in trouble working for an agency for a letting a guy cum on her chest. Now, fast forward 10 years, BBBJ is now the norm. In the U.S. SAFE GFE is norm, as well as Australia. Why did it change here? Because the ladies offer it, quite simply. If ladies didn't offer it, then no one could buy it. I remember one lady said "Back in the 90's, no guys had problem cumming with a condom on." Somewhere along the line, someone started offering, more guys asked for it, more ladies offered it. Us safe gfe's are few and far between, I am one of the last of a dying breed. So I wonder, why should BBFS be any different? Now, someone offers it, so now it's being purchased.I don't understand how can you get upset at guys for asking for BBFS when BBBJ's are the norm. It's just a natural progression. I think the logic is "if she does it unprotected in one orifice, she might let me in another." Dangerous logic, but logic none the less. For the sp, the risk factors for both are pretty high, you are the receiver of ejaculatory fluids, no matter which orrifice you get it in.The roads may be different, but they all lead to the same place. Being angry is pointless. I'm not knocking anyone's business practice, like i stated it's your body your choice. I honestly don't care what another lady does, its her life she can with it as she pleases. My point is, you can't get mad at guys asking for BBFS or ladies providing it anymore than us SAFE GFE's can get mad at ladies for providing BBBJ's. If we want to change guys asking for BBFS, the only way to do so is to stop the ladies that offer it, much like the only way to stop people from asking for bBBJ's is to stop offering them.Good luck with that. The ladies in countries like Cambodia do BBFS, so people ask for it and it's rampant. However, in countries like australia where SAFE GFE is the norm, unprotected services are frowned upon, and the ladies that do offer it (much like the ladies who offer BBFS here) are shunned. Whats the difference? The ladies in Cambodia are willing to do BBFS, the ladies in Australia are not. So really at the end of the day, what is asked of us by our client base is a direct reflection of what we are willing to offer. So we cannot get mad a them, the guys asking or the sp's that provide. We as sp's are the ones to blame.

Yes, i realize that, but from my understanding, you can catch HIV from open lines to your bloodstream. Everyone has microscopic cuts in their mouth and gums, from food, or brushing/flossing too hard. Even if the guy doesn't ejaculate, the pre cum still carries the infection. If that gets into these little cuts, which are to small to see or even feel, and he's infected, guess what? game over.