SmartnSexy

Understood. Thanks mod!

I don't know why, I find it hilarious (in a good non sarcastic way) that out of all the cities on the board, you picked Moncton for this statement. Thanks for the updated rules mod, you're right, we should be able to live without them as we're all adults, but sometimes things need to be spelled out for some people. For threadjacking, I had a question as to how tolerant you will be of this. Sometimes (I've been guilty of this myself) someone will post something and someone else will reply with something somewhat related, but that takes the thread in a new direction. Is this acceptable?

Personally I don't think we're there yet. I myself have spoken to at least two and heard of other escorts that have had issue with some of our cities. To be clear, it's not with the cities themselves, but with the gentlemen booking (or trying to book). Things like no shows, frequent cancels and even arguing with the lady about her pricing structure. I was really perplexed by that last one and just let out a big "WTF" when I heard it. Moncton to be specific. While this has been discussed in the past (see scotthecanuck's Open Letter to Moncton thread) I will admit that lately it seems we're doing better, this is evidenced by what seems to be return visits or stated intent of return visits. As a side note, I really am having a hard time understanding this business sometimes. During the summer you'd see quite a few threads about how business was slowing down and the ladies weren't getting many customers, but visits to cities that don't have the selection of some of the larger metropolitan areas were either many weeks apart or all bunched up together. Now that things seemed to have picked up we're getting more visits at semi reasonable intervals. Color me confused :confused:, but hey it sure isn't the first time and probably won't be the last. Now, I tend to agree with you Loki, we do seem to be doing better. But we can't let up, what really needs to be taken away from all of this are the following points: 1. When contacting a lady inquire about a web site, if she doesn't have one make sure you get the information for her donations up front so that there are no surprises. 2. If you don't like something don't make the rest of us look bad and argue with the lady. I've never heard of a lady changing her prices because someone argued with her. However, if that were ever to happen and get out there would be pandemonium! My guess is that any price breaks you get are because you know the lady, have been a gentleman, she likes you, trusts you to keep your mouth shut and wants to keep your business. 3. If you book be sure that there is an over 95% likelihood that you can make the appointment. If you can't make the appointment let her know as soon as is possible. I've personally only had to cancel once, something came up relating to family and I gave 3 days notice. Every girl has an established minimum for remaining in good standing, but whether you're way in advance "plenty of time to tell her" or you're passed the deadline "I'm screwed anyways, why bother?", let her know ASAP. 4. And lastly the most important point: Don't pull a no-show. This is possibly the worst thing you could do to yourself, the lady, the gentleman that could have booked her time instead and the rest of the guys who are in the area. I'd really love some input on the ladies for this as the last time we asked the answers were perplexing. I've formed a hypothesis based on the available data, unfortunately it's probably only valid for Moncton. I'm not going to share it (maybe in PMs) because it's just a theory that's yet to be tested with actual data and regardless of it's accuracy the myth hurts more than the fact so it would probably just hurt all the progress we've been making. One thing I do know for a fact is that Moncton and the rest of NB has a number of stand up gentleman who want to improve the reputation of the area and make it a standard stop for everyone who's thinking of coming east! Ok, so that was a lot more than I expected to write, sorry Loki for hijacking the thread, but you're post kind of inspired my thoughts (or at the very least triggered to be transferred from thought to the screen). SnS

I saw Carley a few weeks ago now, unfortunately I became busy very suddenly and haven't had time to post a rec until now. I opted for Carley's PSE option and must say I wasn't disappointed. I walked in and we exchanged pleasantries and what was probably like 3 minutes later we were on each other like a pair of horny teenagers. Carley's body is very nice and her smooth skin makes her a delight to touch and caress. Her breasts are the right size for her spinner like body type. Her eyes convey a sincerity and loving like quality that is difficult to describe. I think this was mentioned before, but it bears repeating, Carley was very "into it" when we were together. She was so into it that I got carried away and popped much earlier than I had anticipated for my first pop... thank goodness for MSOG right? ;) One thing that stood out for me about Carley was that she seemed incredibly enthusiastic about being with you, before, during and after the session. I'm not sure if she's naturally like that or if it's part of the "Carley Experience", but honestly, I believed it, so it doesn't really matter if she really does or not. Overall I was quite happy with our time together and I would certainly repeat... possibly with her friend who she sometimes duos with... we'll see I guess!

It seems that since the Great City/Province Split of 2010 that the New-Brunswick section seems to have lost its recommendation for Emily. Shockingly enough no one's written a new one since then. In an effort to rectify this I will once again, attempt to provide a recommendation without too much in the way of details. This was my second time seeing Emily. I saw Emily recently, in fact it was only a few days ago as she was visiting Moncton. I had been anticipating seeing her for quite some time now as scheduling just didn't work out the last time she was in town. However, the more the day drew near the more tired and stressed I had become (nothing relating to her, just the normal terrible work week). Sometimes you just have one of those weeks where at the end you just don't want to do anything except go home and pass out. I can tell you, I'm glad I did not do that and instead went to see Emily as we had arranged, there are very few things I find more relaxing than holding a woman in my arms and just talking. Emily seemed to almost sense this (and my obvious exhaustion) and within minutes of us sitting down on the couch was in my arms talking to me about anything ranging from the semi-serious to the downright silly. This gentlemen is GFE in its purest form. Yes we eventually left the couch to move on to other more "vibrant" activities, and they were most certainly fantastic on their own merits. But upon reflection of my time with her, the fact that she recognized my mental state and moved to make me feel better on an emotional level is really what GFE is all about in my mind, and that's what sticks with me about Emily. Clearly I won't detail what happened after we left the couch, but suffice it to say that if you treat Emily right she will do what she can to make sure that you're a happy man. She's very skilled and a joy to be with in and out of bed.

The situation as described by Meg confuses the hell out of me. Why would someone completely ignore a beautiful woman right after he came? Holding a woman, smelling her, appreciating the warmth that she can provide, her laugh, her smile, etc, etc... is in large part why I hobby. Regardless of what we do during the session (could be sensual GFE to wild PSE), I still hope for a chance to hold the woman I'm with to just relax with her in my arms. If you leave right after you cum and ignore the woman completely then you're probably just better off masturbating. It's a lot cheaper and you won't make the SP feel so used.

That being your first post since Nov 2008, perhaps a bit ironic? No?

I think it can be reasoned out. Given that the persons in question are following a certain logical thread of thought, it would all make perfect sense. Here's an example, I can't know for sure this is how they're thinking, but it's a reasoning exercise I perform sometimes that helps me understand people: "I want to talk to this SP, maybe even book her" "I can't just say hi, she'll think I'm just trying to waste her time" "Ok, what do SPs talk about with hobbyists?" "Oh right, donations and what she offers" "Ok, well I already know what she offers and what the donation is" "..." "I don't really have anything else to go with" "Alright, I'll give it a shot!" "Aww she didn't answer me, now I'm sad/angry/disappointed" I know that most people won't agree with or understand this kind of reasoning, but not everyone is as socially adept as your average cerbite (that's a joke btw :P). And just for fun, the jerk's thought process: "I'm the man" "I don't need to pay these girls for their time, they should be paying me" "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "Alright, how much is it?" "Screw websites, at the very least this girl should waste her time answering my questions, because I'm me and I'm better than all those other dudes she has to see so that she can see me" "Sending my awesome PM of "Yo, wat up bb, how much u chrg?"" "WTF she didn't answer! What a stuck up b*tch" "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "..." "damn" Additional Comments: Don't worry Amelia, it's a good question. And I don't honestly think that there's just one answer. I've offered one of many possible answers. Also, there's nothing wrong with being weird!

Hrm... In that case, other than the original explanations of maybe he's just got a case of the nerves or maybe he's a jerk. I can offer nothing else ;) Additional Comments: You're absolutely correct, I should have probably said something along the lines of "It's a catch 22 for all involved, excluding the jerks, they're just being jerks".

That's generally the approach I take. Usually something along the lines of "I saw you're visiting Moncton [this is usually how it goes as we don't have many ladies who call Moncton their home base] and wanted to know what kind of availabilities you have left". However, everyone is different, maybe some hobbyists aren't thinking about the possibility that you may react negatively. They probably aren't thinking that they are the 4847613341324th guy to approach you in this way and you have the details on your web site specifically so you don't have to answer those exact questions. While I always check out a ladies website I rarely specifically mention it in my first communications. I'm not sure the ladies should require a Litmus test of that degree. It's not my place to tell you how to run your business though, just seems kind of extreme that you won't talk to a guy unless he states he's visited your site. To be fair though. If I decide to book I make sure to confirm everything on the website with her ex: "I just wanted to confirm that your donation was X for our time together". It's also possible that they're just jerks :grin: Additional Comments: Problem with just opening with an email or a PM that say "Hi, how are you?". Is that a hobbyist will get accused of being a time waster. It's never happened to me, but I believe we've all read about it happening to gentlemen on and from this board. It's an unfortunate catch 22 situation for some guys really.

Interesting dilemma I can't say that I've done this myself, however if taken from the nervous hobbyist's perspective it might be that he's just looking for some way to open up a dialog between the two of you and has nothing else to open with. I know usually I enjoy speaking with a lady before hand to get a sense of what type of person she is and usually I get that with our PM/email conversations that precede me booking an appointment with her. However this is just really an educated guess... the best way, in my opinion, to find out why a guy asks you obvious questions that you've already addressed on your web page would be to ask him ;)

All I can say is: /jealous

Seriously? 1.8 minutes... even at 7.3 what are these people doing? Sticking their dicks in a Super-Hyper-Fembot 3000? I think someone needs to exercise their PC muscles!

I never understand these comments from people who argue the value of an SP with the SP herself. Logically (and I know some guys are going to be upset here but), an SP should be charging the maximum amount of money she can while still filling her schedule to whatever she's predetermined as a full schedule (this could be 1 gentleman a day or 7, depends on the SP's preferences). It's really a simple way to express the concept of supply and demand. So when a hobbyist starts arguing with the SP that she's not pricing her services correctly he just looks like an idiot. He can't possibly know how many gentlemen the SP sees or how many she wants to see. Usually it's just a sign that the guy is cheap and doesn't want to pay that much. I enjoyed the William Allen White quote Kyra. My interpretation of it (which is also how I try to live) is essentially that if people used more empathy we'd all be much better off.

Mind boggling doesn't begin to describe this weirdness. "I hope you're worth the money"... I mean seriously, did he expect that with that comment you'd try extra hard just to be sure, to be prove that you were "worth it"? I admit, I can say some pretty stupid things, but every time I read about some dumbass saying these types of comments it makes me think I'm a friking genius. I'm puzzled every time someone feels the need to repeat something that seems so obvious, however, it clearly needs to be done... :sad: It's probably better that you didn't go Emma, I hope it didn't affect you for too long, that type of comment can stay with you for a while. I also hope the next guy didn't suffer for that douche's comment! lol Ok, sorry that last comment might have been out of line. :-|

Very VERY difficult decision, however, I'm going to have to go with Samantha, just because of the shower photo shoot... she's all... wet... and... ok, sorry I have to go attend to something

Just a reminder, CK's diary is Ottawa only (unless I'm mistaken). The rest of Canada is on it's own.

Thanks for looking into this mod. I realize you probably have bigger priorities, but if you could keep us apprised of the situation that would be greatly appreciated.

Hey, I'm actually quite embarrassed to be asking this question as I generally think of myself as a techie, but I've really tried hard and I can't figure this out without maybe doing something irreversible. I want to know how to post a picture in the top left corner slot of a recommendation. This would also be the picture that is displayed when viewing the list of recommendations for a region. Basically looking to replace this thing: Any help on this would be appreciated. Thanks!

Ahhh Keissy, what can I say about this woman that hasn't already been said, she comes HIGHLY recommended by many, and for good reason, see: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=18841&highlight=keissy As I knocked on the door for our encounter I was incredibly nervous (as I usually am :oops:). She opened the door and her warm inviting smile just melted my heart. Keissy's face (for those of you who have those concerns) is great, very cute and always smilling (more on that later). Her body is clearly quite incredible. I'll spare the details, but suffice it to say that Keissy is quite open about sex in general, this is made clear by what she offers (it'd be easier to list what she doesn't do to be honest), but also by how comfortable she is with herself and the way she talks. This combination makes for an incredibly fun time for everyone involved as we were both smiling the whole time (well most of the time ;)). I unfortunately don't have the poetic touch to say it better than GO SEE THIS GIRL! I can't imagine anyone being dissatisfied after an encounter with Keissy.

I think what Speedstick was riled up about was that he feels that young guys are all being put in the same bucket. A very unsavory bucket. You had a bad experience with a younger guy, I'm sorry for that. But judging all from the actions of one is just plain unfair. To be honest I think the reason why you'll see things like a young guy calling an SP a bitch is that that's what he's seen in the pornos and so he thinks that's what women will like. That error though is more likely due to his own inexperience rather than him being rude. Did you tell him that you didn't like that? If so, how did he react? As a general rule a man's "performance measure" should be how satisfied he left the woman once he walks out the door. Admittedly I'm a younger guy, and I'm doing my best to not to take any of this personally, but someone has to speak up. We're not all douche bag clients who think we're god's gift to women. On the contrary, I'd like to think I'm a very respectful guy who enjoys the company of women (a lot ;)), but that's really just my thoughts on how I act, you'd have to speak to the SPs I've been with to know for sure. As Carrie pointed out, age is not exactly a determining factor in whether or not someone is going to be a jerk or not. Sometimes it just happens.

Good sir! I hope you have a great birthday!

This posting reminds me of something an internet troll group would post, ex: Anonymous. Generally the idea is to post something incredibly outrageous while maintaining character throughout the post and watch as people react in disgust/shock/horror as if this were something that was actually true. And then laugh. Some people get their kicks in the weirdest ways ;)... :bddog::bjs::boobeyes::boobies::jackoff:

I think at this point enough has been said, by everyone. As you pointed out, right now it seems a lot more like a desire for attention. The more people keep this sub-topic alive the more he wins. Best strategy for internet trolls is to just let them flame out or become contributing members to the community (I've seen it happen I swear!). On to the drunk horndogs!:roll:

Here's an amalgamation of the information I've been able to accumulate, this relates only to shaving, for the purposes of clarity, I've left everything else out. Razor: "Bikini Razor" "Four Bladed Razor" Shaving Product: "Hair Conditioner" "Polysporin" After Shave Product: "Vaseline Intensive Care Lotion" "PFB Vanish" "Some kind of exfoliant" "salicylic acid" "Cocoa Butter" The standard seems to be a four bladed razor and hair conditioner. Does anyone have any suggestions for what kind of hair conditioner? Do you just apply it over the pubic area and shave? Or do you lather it up (as much as conditioner can be lathered) and leave there for a bit and then shave? Has anyone tried the new 5 bladed razor from Schick? I believe it's called the hydro 5 or something similar. I'm going to try it for my face shortly and depending on the results may get a second one for the pubic area. With regard to after care products, there seems to be a lot of variance here. Razor burn or ingrown hairs are clearly something to avoid, so I'm wondering if there's anything close to a consensus on this. Clearly not everyone needs to agree, but is there a product that most people generally used and is recognized as being able to keep your skin smooth and bump free?