SmartnSexy

Damnit, I was sure that I had checked before posting. Oh well, thanks WIT, lots of good info in that thread.

Hey, So we've all seen the threads about who prefers shaved vs. unshaved and I think that's a debate that's going to go on forever, really comes down to preference. Personally, I'm shaved, I started shaving downstairs a few years ago just to see how it felt. The initial feeling was great, once the experiment was over I figured might as well let it grow back. I have no SO, so no real reason to maintain it. Then, not too long after I let it grow back it became uncomfortable. My hair grows back shortly so it was basically stuck in that awkward phase for a while. I told myself, might as well just stay shaved and with the random exception of a 3 month period over a year ago, I've been shaved ever since. The point of this post is while I've been shaving for a while I do notice some irritation the day after, and subsequent day or two after that, of irritation. I was hoping that I could get input from other shavers and find out what works for them. Does anyone know of any particularly good razors, shaving creams for the shave? Any good after-care products that help keep the skin nice and smooth? Any input someone can share, I'm sure, would be appreciated by more that just me. Thanks in advance, SnS

What an unfortunate situation. I hope you're ok Tess.

Amelia your positiveness about our city is refreshing! However to scott's point, there's a reason why we don't have as many traveling SPs come to Moncton as other cities, say Halifax, or Fredericton. You would do us a great service if you were to share your positive experiences with other service providers who ask about Moncton, as the general feel that I've gotten from speaking with various SPs and Agency people is that something was wrong with Moncton. This has caused me with great concern as we mostly depend on traveling SPs for our SP needs and if ladies just start skipping over Moncton all together that would make me (and likely many other Moncton men) very sad. While I don't want to project a bad image, I think it's equally damaging to just ignore a potential problem. I'd call Scott's post something more akin to risk management 8)

I'm sorry, but this makes no sense to me. Maybe I'm interpreting this incorrectly, but from what I've just read, in your mind, it is absolutely ok for an SP to cancel on a client with no reason given or forewarning. I'm not sure about you, but I was taught that when you make a commitment you need to honor it, or at least provide a valid reason (or any reason) why you can't. Regardless of whether or not the service is great when the SP does actually try, if she doesn't try half the time what's the point? To answer the question, the purpose of the thread MO was describing is not to "get back" at the SP. It's to advise potential clients of the situation the experienced, if enough of these threads arise then clients will start wondering if they should really book with the SP. Is abuse possible? Absolutely, but no one should be dissuaded by one client who had a bad experience. Now if dozens of people started "abusing" with regards to one SP I'd start wondering what she did to upset these people. However, to WIT's point this is CERB, when we signed up here as potential clients to the ladies here we committed to not talk trash or say bad things. Again to WIT's point, this has tradeoffs, but in my opinion provides a better atmosphere here on board. With regards to the OP, I think he was just looking for input on his situation and commend him for not naming names. It's unfortunate the SP responded in such a threatening tone. I think that it would have been better if this were settled in PMs.

I literally cry every time I see someone post this. The short answer is no, not really. At least none that are active on this board. The longer answer is basically that there is one known provider, becky, who frequents this board, although she is not GFE and I believe she is currently traveling for the summer, so I guess it depends on what you're looking for. We are however lucky enough to sometimes get visits from ladies who travel, notably emilyintoronto (she's the only one I've seen make regular visits to our fair city, however I've only been on here for a few months, so take my comment for what it is). I'm really not sure what's wrong with Moncton and why ladies seem to avoid it like the plague, but it is often very disheartening.

That's a hard question and I'm not sure any view on this is 100% wrong. I really do believe that it's a perceptions game. A gentleman will treat a lady like a lady regardless of whether or not he's paying for her time, yes, there is an underlying understanding that the time is for sex, but as you vaguely pointed out it's entirely possible for a lady to refuse you her services on whatever grounds she feels are reasonable. You do make an excellent point, one which I've often thought of, and that is, how much money do you actually spend on a steady girlfriend (or even some just the slew of random bar chicks you're trying to pick up)? I'm not sure any studies or surveys for this have ever been conducted, or even conceived of for that matter. But I'd be curious to hear the results and then make a comparison to visits with SPs. I don't think you should be weary about whether or not your opinion offends someone. You have a right to possess your opinion and express it. I realize that this might seem to go against the "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" policy, but I believe that we can have an adult discussion regarding this and all maintain a level of civility. My own opinion is that yes, I'm paying the lady, but first and foremost, before getting off, I'm looking for that sensual connection, the closeness with another human being. The climax is just a super awesome bonus! I think Sara was right, if I'm happy and she's happy, then what does it matter?

Yay for exceptions!

Oh here we go. This is one of those cases where I know I should just leave well enough alone, but something compels me to respond. Maybe because reserved vocabulary is a pet peeve of mine. :( Please don't think I'm being rude, I'm really not trying to be. But I don't see it as fair when we use a word, but disallow others from using it. If you want to use whore, then that's fine, there's an actual valid historical basis for using it. Sure it's been twisted and turned over the centuries, but it's original meaning still holds firm. So basically, in my opinion, it's up to the individual to determine whether it's an "ok" word for them. Personally, I don't use it, matter of preference I guess. But I don't think a person should be ok with themselves using the word, but for that same person to consider it to be rude coming from others. A word is a word, it's ok, or it's not. I don't think it should ever be ok for some to use but not others. In my opinion it's the intent behind the word that makes or breaks whether or not someone is being rude. You can say just about anything and make it sound dirty, or offensive, or nice! It's all in the attitude. I hope I didn't upset anyone too much, and I didn't mean to target you Erin, I just needed a reference to quote. I'm also curious to know what others think about this subject.

Am I the only person who thought we were talking about something entirely different? Check the acronym reference if you're wondering what I'm talking about.

I think it has to do with posting an actual reco, not just posting in a reco thread. I'm reasonably certain that Emma saw my reco in Atlantic thread, saw my post count and put 2 and 2 together. I did in fact try to create a new thread, just to see what it looked like, never having created one myself. When that didn't work I just posted in an already existing thread on that particular SP. When I posted the option for ratings came up and I did so and ensured the checkbox was in the state that would show the ratings (I can't remember if it was checked or unchecked, it's late, give me a break :)) and when the post was approved it still showed up as a normal non-rated post. So I believe MOD's changes are working fine, it's just that you can still post a basic reply in a reco thread instead of a "reco" reply.

I'm what you could call a prime product of the tech generation, I grew up playing video games and using computers. I had a natural aptitude for it and so went into Computer Sciences. So it's fair to say that I'd qualify as one of the people that AngelofOttawa is speaking of. I'd like to point out that, at least in my opinion, it has nothing to do with how many gadgets you had when growing up. It has to something to do with how you were, in fact, brought up. I know it's easy to blame the parents, but I can tell you, regardless of what gizmo I was using at the time, my parents always made sure I put it away for dinner, always said my pleases and thank yous and so on... At the time I thought it was useless but I am now very thankful that they made that effort. I am a normal (well... is anyone really normal?:razz:) person who will treat others with kindness, respect and politeness. Maybe it has something to do with empathy. A big part of teaching respect to others is just getting them to understand what the effects of their actions are. If everyone sat down and thought their actions through I think there would be a lot less conflict. In your case 777flyer the 'blustery' Texan should have thought, what were the other options? Fly through the storm and risk everyone's lives just to be on time (and even then not really since you'd be delayed regardless if you're going through a storm)? My only caveat is, was he aware of the circumstances for the delay? I doubt you need someone to say this 777flyer, but you obviously did the right thing, your first responsibility is unquestionably to the safety of your passengers. Anything else is secondary, by far, and I'd like to thank you for taking the right course of action and potentially saving the man who berated you later on for doing just that. The world still has a fair amount of good people in it, they just rarely speak up. Which is unfortunate.

Yes, hopefully we all show Emma and other potential ladies (my apologies for the misnomer in my last post, I certainly intended to say ladies and not girls) who are thinking of visiting that we are worth their time! I think the only way we can improve our situation, gentlemen of Moncton (and the surrounding areas), is to book the ladies who interest us when they come to town and keep the appointments, show them respect and appreciation for visiting us! Once they all see how great we can be I'm sure word will spread and we all get more :bddog:! I can only see this as win/win!

Agreed halifaxguy, it is unfortunate, however we are blessed with reasonably regular traveling girls, which makes the pain bearable.

Gentlemen, I will preface this by stating that this was my first encounter with an SP. Regardless of that, I'm having a hard time seeing how I did not just hit the motherload or perhaps the Lost City of Eldorado of SPs. Lucky me, first time out and I get to experience it with such a fantastic woman... yeah that's right, woman. Emily is by no means a simple girl looking to make a quick buck, she is a fantastically warm and caring person who makes it her mission to ensure you are comfortable and at ease so that you can both enjoy your time together. Again, a True Woman, I cannot help but consider myself incredibly lucky to have met and spent time with her. I started my day excited, but incredibly nervous, this being my first time out, how could I not be. Finally the time came and I manned up and got in my car and starting driving to her hotel. Next thing I know, traffic AND constuction... I'm going to be late. Not a good start, is this a sign to turn back? NO, continue on, I tell myself, you've gone this far, go all the way. After I call her telling her I'm going to be late, for which she was incredibly understanding and thankful, I finally take a breath, I'm sure I hadn't breathed in at least 5 minutes, and steel my resolve. I get to the hotel, call her, she gives me the room number, I go up and knock on the door. See, I told you, good choice to go all the way! Gentlemen, there is little I can say about Emily's physical appearance that hasn't already been said, but suffice it to say, wow, just wow. We sat down and talked for a while, and before I knew it, just about all of the nervousness I had been experiencing was gone. I then go to the bathroom, wash my hands, come out and... well, that's between me and her :twisted:. The downside to Emily is that she is so addictive that if she spends much more time in the maritimes, I will easily go broke... not such a bad way to go imo.

Thanks to Mod for his latest reply. This is, indeed, my first post. As a general rule I don't generally post a lot, regardless of the message board I'm on. I try to limit myself to thorough posts that I feel are an actual contribution. One of the reasons why I'm particularly careful on this board is discretion. Unfortunately my career would most likely suffer if details of my hobbying came to light. Mod's post does go a long way towards encouraging me to post more. Not to derail the thread, but I was hoping that someone could provide me more information regarding the legal aspects of prostitution in Canada.