TGirl-Kay

Neibours who quarrel in the street at 4 am and wake me up :(

This morning I ate breakfast with a man who is a marathon swimmer, we talked about following dreams and dedicateing time to good causes. I'm glad to have had the chance to meet him.

To relax I like to fly my model plane or play with my parrot. Some times I'll offer my partner a massage because I can free my thoughts while I'm working on someone elses body, it can be deeply meditative.

Today I had a day entirely free, one of my partners and I drove out to Pinhey's Point historic area and toured round the house and grounds, then we drove to Quyon and took the ferry across the river and wandered around Norway Bay and then the old Bristol mine site. We drove back to Ottawa and had a late lunch and then shopped for motorcycles. We met up with my other partner and all had dinner together and ate ice cream cones while watching the sun set. I spent time with the two people that I love the most today and it was easy and relaxed. I'm happy to my core, it was a good day.

I'm a story teller and yesterday I found out that one of my stories was told in Spanish in Argentina 4 times last week by a teller who heard me tell it here in Ottawa. It's not even written down and that was only the second time that I'd told it. :D

Been there and done that :p every one should have to spend a few days as the opposite sex, the world would be a very diFferent place. I don't think most guys have any idea how tough women are and what we deal with day to day. I also think that women would be surprised at how careing and complex the world of men can be. If I could swap bodies for a couple of days, I'd be a crow and play with the wind and the gender wouldn't matter.

Hello loves, Are there any Ham Radio opperators here on CERB? I'm looking for an Elmer in the Ottawa area, who can offer advice. I'm interested in CW mostly and hope to become licensed this winter. I've been DXing for years and it's time to start talking back. Any one want to geek about radio with me? Kay

Billybob, trans women can and do compete in womens sporting events. Typically you have to have been on hormone replacment therapy for a set lenght of time and have had gender reasignment surgery. When I transitioned I lost about 35% of my upper body strength due to hormone therapy, I'm no stronger now than any other woman of my height weight and fitness level. I've played on female only teams and don't seem to have any special advantage. I'm not crazy about beauty contests, but I do think that it stinks that this young woman was kicked out for haveing been born trans. Honestly a woman is a woman regardless of her history. Kay, who's a woman with a past.

This is an interesting thread. I don't think that there is a sure fire way to prevent getting caught, though a lot of good advice has been offered that I'm sure will reduce the risk of it happening. I'm left wondering that given the support for the decriminalization of sex work that seems to be building here in Canada that perhaps folks might be more open to their partners visiting sex workers than people think. Now I'm not sugesting that this is something that would work for everyone but considering the number of men and women who step out side their primary relationships for intimacy a little more open comunication might, in some cases relieve the need to hide a hobby and work in favor of both parties.

Pretty good article from the Peterborough Examimer not at all what I was expecting.

This thread caught my attention, sounds like it could be a tonne of fun.

Hmmmm why does the grocery store charge me a nickle for a plastic bag and say it's for the environment while still wrapping coconuts in plastic so that the bar code sticker will stay glued on. :confused0024:

My gods, imagen what you could get with it today considering inflation. Posted via Mobile Device

We've lit the candles on the alters, cleansed the house and had a wonderfull dinner of winter veggies, chestnuts and champaign. I'm looking forward to the return of the sun. May the comeing year be filled with love, health and happiness. Posted via Mobile Device

Loopie, I'll post a note on the main board the next time one is coming up.

I used to play in the Ottawa Roller Derby League untill I tore tendons in my knee. I still skate at the roller discos though, because there is nothing quite like danceing on roller skates :)

I was once tied to a chair and then shaved with a straight razor, talk about haveing some one hold your full attention. Not an option any more though as they've been cut off entierly. The life of a Tgirl.

Sunday November 20th is Trans Day Of Rememberance a day to remeber the many trans people who have lost their lives to violence or suicide dureing the past year. Many of the murdered are sex workers. Please join POWER for the vigil on Sunday evening 7pm at the human rights monument on Elgin St and show your support. http://www.transgenderdor.org/ This Tgirl will be glad to see you, Kay

lol if you've got enough to cover my hourly, I'll take it on par.

That's just what I'm looking for :) I've hurt my knee and can't do massage on the bed for a bit. Thanks so much.

Thanks for the tip I'll check it out :)

Hey loves, I'm looking for a massage table, do any of you out there know of any good deals here in the Ottawa area or have a used one gathering dust in the basement you would be willing to part with? Thanks in advance, Kay

Is the Dr in?

Hi Mrnice, I enjoyed The Ethical Slut and found it to be a good romp through polly thinking. I would have to say though that I did find it a little one sided toward the writers point of view. Have you read Opening Up? It's not quite as fun a read as The Ethical Slut but it does offer a more gentle view of polly. Both of these books complement each other well. Cheers Kay

Haveing the sales woman call me sir while I'm paying for my lingerie. :ablow: