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I'm told I can't donate for many reasons one of them being that I ate beef in England in the 1980's. (Mad cow ) I agree with Meg that myth based screening is a bad Idea and am left wondering who it is that can donate given all the restrictions. I'm not sure that many of the people in my life would be able to.

Wiggle Wiggle Perhaps we should organize a wiggle off between the men of CERB.:motion:

Yay you remembered the Jains :) Happy Diwali every one.

Kitchenghost is mine

Check out HRMSexWorkers on twitter and also GlobalSexWork, Turnoffbl is a group in Ireland that's doing similar work as power.

My partner has no problem with my being a sex worker or haveing casual sex with people on the side for fun. Where we have to sit down and talk is when I form a new loveing intimate relationship with new people. It becomes a matter of the amount of time I have to share and still give her all that she needs from me. I'd date you, I'd still work as an SP, I'd probably want to see other people as well and it would be fine with me if you did too.

Thanks a lot Antlerman, An other option would be getting to know some of the Tgirls who are here on CERB and asking us when we are traveling to Nova Scotia next. Halifax is one of my favorite places in Canada. Cheers, November

Hey Berlin, Great question, given my history I thought I'd toss in a comment. I learnt what I consider to be sexually appropriate behaviour in the late 80's from my local leather community. Honour, Integrity and Loyalty top the list.

Phaedrus, 10 points for the Queen reference. :)

I'd keep working, because for it to be someone I could be serious with they would have to be open and accepting of who I am and what I do. Question could you see your self falling in love with a Transsexual?

I don't see SPs but I do have lovers, I tell my partner that I'm spending time with my lover and she says have fun. It's not easy but once you get an open relationship working well it's worth it's weight in gold. If I had to offer an excuses to some one, I'd probably sugest a monthly visit to a pyschologist for stress reduction ;)

Thanks for shareing this, I know some one who will be interested to read it and will pass it along to her.

You know you spend too much time on CERB when it's your home page.

I'd be trying to push it my self befor he was done asking for the billion in the first place and shouting "That was easy" :)

Hi Jafo, You might find the report that POWER put out to be an interesting read, if you haven't come across it yet here's a link to POWER's web site the report can be found there for down load. www.powerottawa.ca Cheers, November

We don't really call it anything at our house my Lover just grabs me by the hair and pulls me into the bed room.

You could get your self a copy of the Ethical Slut or Opening Up and use the time you have to create an open relationship, it would probably be way easyer. There's no such thing as a bomb proof cover up.

You know your old when your leather is older than your lover.

Hi loves, a friend of mine is interested in doing Cam work, She's a Domme and would be working for a production company doing pay per view internet stuff. If any of you out there know what folks in this line of work are being compensated would you PM me and let me know. I'm helping Her do some research to strengthen Her negotiation with Her future employer. Thanks for the help, November

Joan Jett's cover of Tush is a fave of mine. http://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DWa81LzGCgzU I've always though that this one might be fun as well. It's Tom Waits Pasties and A G string.

Please lets try and remember that this is this young mans first ever post here on CERB. How many of us had the understanding of the language and politics of sex work down pat from the get go? Please give this young man the same oppertunity to learn the ropes that we all had. I thought that his question was a valid one. As SPs we all get to decide what our personal risk tolerance is, some of us give BBBJ, some only covered. It's our personal choice, I'd rather have a client who was open and honest with me than one who had been shamed or driven by desperation to keeping health information a secret. November

Speaking as some one who was raised as the wrong gender and who attended school being expected to behave as if they where a gender that did not fit, I like the idea of giveing children a chance to grow into the people that they are and tell us what their gender is. Gender isn't just male and female, some of us are intersexed, some xxy masculien http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klinefelter's_syndrome and some are transsexual like me. Gender like every thing else has a large grey area between the end points. Forcing some one into a gender that doesn't fit them is a terribly unkind thing to do.

It's a sad day when a good god fearing person can't visit a working girl with out being moraly offended by her tarot cards. Hugs to you Malika,he sounds like a jerk. Please don't stop doing whats important to you or hide whats important to you, because of one bad apple.

The mods and art that I've had done to my body are a map of my life, a history that you can run your fingers over, remiders of people, places and intencity. There's a little ink and many cuttings most of which have fadded to almost nothing or are gone compleatly now. The cuttings are mostly done with a scalple by a dear freind of mine, she cuts flowers and poems and chakras into me. There are scars on my inner thighs and ribs left by a lovers nails 2 years ago dureing a tryst at a club. I wouldn't trade those for anything. The piercing between my eyes on the bridge of my nose tells whom ever I'm talking to volumes and there is no denying that it's there or covering it up because that's how I try to live my life, with out hideing. My friend with the scalple is working on a set of irons to brand some words into my back. We talked a lot about there meaning and how best to set them in my skin so that they would stay for a long time. I live in this body, I work with it and I love with it. One day when I'm old and can't speak for my self any more my skin is going to carry the story of a life well lived for me. Hope that helps Jabba

The Human Touch cordless massager is the best vibe that I've ever come across, It's got loads of power, it's quiet and the charge lasts plenty of time. It's about half the size of the Hitachi. My favorite toy is a rideing crop, though it has to be in capable hands. November