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Hi everybody, I need some advice on some terminology. Before anyone shoots me for not googling my question first - I did. So, I'm interested in visiting a girl advertising on bp. She has "party chick" in her ad. According to google this can be either that she tolerates clients under the influence or that she herself will likely be high and sketchy. I am not interested in showing up and having a bad experience with a crack head. Any info on this in general would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

Personally I find the idea that sex can be an addiction rather ridiculous. Sex is THE basic drive of all life. Without reproduction life dies out. I think this the most hardwired of all the instincts. There is this myth that reason should be more powerful than our biological urges. Children cost money, deny us much of our personal time and re-orient our priorities from ourselves to someone else. From a purely selfish point of view, they make no sense. Only birth control frees us to indulge ourselves without creating herds of children in the process. There is a spectrum of people with differing strengths of sex drive. Some have more desire for sex than others and some have a more of a desire for variety in partners than others. From the male perspective this makes sense from a biological standpoint. There should at some level be a drive to impregnate as many females as possible. Now some (or many) of you will say that we're not mindless animals rutting because of uncontrolled biological imperatives. To a certain degree, I will agree with you. However, there is a portion of the mind that is called the subconscious. As it's name suggests, it operates beneath our conscious selves and in it will mix things like instinct, drives, social pressures, etc. It is my opinion that society imposes a view of what is morally right upon all of us. As has been shown over and over (see gay rights as a case in point) one set of rules or values cannot fit the entirety of the sexual spectrum. As a result of this long winded tirade about the social prejudice against my philandering ways. I will just say, accept and enjoy who you are while leaving society's guilt out. SEX is normal and healthy (providing one takes the necessary precautions)

Thanks for the feedback everybody. I can't believe how slow I was to pick up on who she is. When it dawned on me I got pretty panicky. I knew intellectually that no one wants to be outed, but it's hard to think clearly in the moment. You've been very reassuring, thanks.

Hi everyone, I think I've just done something stupid. I recently met an SP that I think I might know in real life. She looked vaguely familiar when I met her and seemed nervous. During the intro she told me her name which was different than the one in her ad. I thought she got her working name wrong and continued with the encounter. It's only a while after leaving that it hit me that she's the wife or ex-wife (I'm not too sure) of a contractor I use regularly. Intellectually I would assume that she would be discreet, but I'm worried anyway. I've been invited to their family's BBQ in the past and might be again. Any comments on this from people who have had something similar happen to them would be appreciated. Thank you

I was around twenty at the time and had just spent a bit of time in the barefax chatting with and then getting a couple dances from a wonderful woman. There was real chemistry for once. She said she was near the end of her shift and we decided to go out and share a "cigarette". We walked together for a while until we were along the canal by the NAC. She leaned up against the rail looking out at the canal. She looks over her shoulder, says this is a good spot and winks. I'm a little slow on the uptake, so she flips up her skirt and says Well? Even I can't miss that kind of invite, so I opened my pants and put myself in her. We made slow sensual love in the moonlight at the side of the canal. It was the best, most spontaneous and intense sex I've ever had.

Gegefatale posted a hot list of positions for us in a recent thread- Thank you! I've included it here for you all to see. The idea is to find out what position the ladies would find the most pleasurable out of the four. If you want to share any great experiences I know many of us would love to hear about them. PS: I made this poll multiple choice, so If you choose "All of the Above" please select a favourite as well. Riding the North Face Click this bar to view the full image. Riding the South Face Click this bar to view the full image. Eve's Ecstasy Click this bar to view the full image. Under the Sink Click this bar to view the full image.

I considered facesitting and read the urban vocabulary definition. The key word is "sitting". Throughout the definition it describes different ways of sitting while applying varying degrees of pressure. It's a static activity. I agree with many of your comments that this is heavenly fun, I'm trying to know how to ask for this without a long winded explanation. If I ask for facesitting or smothering I won't be getting a woman bringing herself to orgasm on my face I'll just have her sitting there. If I ask for oral she won't dare let loose in the way I want. By the way, the submarining was pretty funny. Kind of feels like that.

I'm looking for a word to describe a certain activity. I've tried googling and the urban vocabulary website and just can't find the right word. So I'm asking the folks here if they know one. The activity in question is: It starts with a woman straddling the givers face from above and receiving oral sex. When she is sufficiently warmed up, she proceeds to orgasm by fucking the givers face. There is much strong rubbing of her pussy on the face as well as thrusting. This is, I think, different from cunnilingus since the woman is doing all the "work" at this point and the giver's tongue is of little use since the whole face is slick with her juices. It's not facesitting because she's moving around quite a bit. It's not face fucking because it's a woman doing the fucking with her pussy (as opposed to a cock or strap on). Oral sex is just a little vague. So is there a word for this?

My 2 cents, I think you have the correct idea here and it will almost always serve you well. However, you might choose to explore outside of the "safe zone" of well reviewed ladies. When/if you do, most of the time things will be quite normal. On those (very rare) occations when they're not: you might find yourself in a situation that feels wrong (boyfriend/pimp present, drugs, etc.....) Try to leave, if this proves to be difficult remember that money is of no concern if you're unsafe, abandon it and and leave. In my opinion the key to not worrying is to have an idea of what the worst case scenario is and to have accepted and evaluated the risk before comiting to a course of action. I'm not trying to scare you, it's really quite rare. That being said there's lots of fun to be had, welcome to the hobby!

LOL! So true!

Hmm, I think unecessary surgery is not something I'm into. I'd rather develop the necessary stamina naturally by practicing lots and lots, but thanks for the input.

Thanks for the input folks, it was reassuring to find that I wasn't alone in experiencing this. After a few days of rest, I find that I'm all healed up and reray for action. I'll take your advice and practice more... much more lol.

I recently had a wonderful encounter with a lady on this site. During our time together, I ate her out pretty thoroughly. So far so good. Only thing is that it feels like I sprained or over exerted my tongue. Has any one else ever experienced this?

I find it interesting that we have had completely oposite experiences. I have had three duos with SPs. I found that while many advertise "fully interactive duos" in reality they would hardly touch each other and when they did I got a "I guess we have to, so lets get this done already" vibe. At first I thought maybe it was just bad luck in my choice of SPs, so I tried again with the same result. I firgured third time's the charm and was again disapointed. Now I've given up on fulfilling this fantasy. After reading your post I'm again inspired to try this again with a duo that has genuine chemistry.

Well Guys, Before getting into the reco per se, I wanted to point out that Vestakia is NOT an escort; she is a Dom. With that in mind, here is my reco: I recently arranged to meet Vestakia at an incall location she made available for an extra charge (this was not a surprise, I knew about this at the time I made the appointment). The location was clean, quiet and central. Vestakia looks exactly like the pictures in her add posted here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=358133#post358133. She greeted me in a beautiful red dress and guided me down to the bedroom where we discussed the upcomming session. At first I was worried that her limited selection of toys would have a negative impact on the session. Boy was I wrong! Once she got me where she wanted, she dispayed lots of energy in implementing some great ideas! This girl is not shy at all, will respect boundaries, and will get right into the scene. I was sad to see the hour end, but plan to repeat ASAP! During my visit she told me she was here just for the summer. So guys if you like the reco, you should see her while she's here.

Nice reco 50strait! That sounded like you had a good time, good luck with your double trouble duo - I think it'll be intense.

Thank you for the tip, but I would be looking for an age range of 25-40 as I'm in the middle of that range myself.

I read on the toronto review board that Pink Kitty and others had a problem with the Lord Elgin as they hire a security guard on weekends and restrict access at night. I havn't heard of any other hotels making things difficult.

I would be intrerested in finding a dom that's also a sp for intimate body worship. Any tips would be appreciated.

I ended up following a PM reco which I found to be quite satisfactory. Thanks to everyone for the advice.

Thanks everybody! It's officially time to clear cut the jungle ;) Out of curiosity: what are people's prefferences for male pubic styling?

Thanks for the info. I'm easily embarassed about asking for these sorts of things, so I wondering if you could suggest some spas where this would be a routine request?

I'm looking for a place where a man can get his pubic hair trimmed and/or waxed (including genitals and but area). Every time I shave the hardware I manage to cut myself and I still do a very average job. Is this a mainstream service I can get from a spa or is it something I will have to get from a provider?

Hmmmm, reading between the lines.... Yup got it! Thanks Cowboy, I look forward to reading updates on your blog ;)

You're right, it's a nice picture. Good luck if you decide to TFTT and please let us know how it goes.