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There are two "laws" at play here. Regarding taking a lady out and ending up at a drive-in, etc, where you go and what you do is up to you and the lady. What you discuss in "public" - including in the car - is a matter of criminal law. Then there is the "CERB Law". As you might gather, "car dates" is an extremely touchy subject. Make light of it if you will but your life will be simpler if you give the whole thing a wide berth. Feel free to describe another memories that exclude this and other topics listed in the FAQ and the "New to this" area. Enjoy!

Crap. Did you miss the memo again? I would forward my copy of it to you but as per directions, I deleted it. Take a look here: The Bro Code :)

I've reread most of this thread and I finally was able to put my finger on why it didn't quite make sense to me. The problem for me is that I don't accept the premise behind the OP's original issue of wondering if he should feel bad about not feeling bad. That premise translates to me that the status of feeling bad about partaking of this lifestyle should possibly be the norm - that we clients should feel bad about being clients. Further on, I sense the position raised that being a client is something one should "settle for" as being a poor alternative. Speaking only for myself and how I view the world, I don't make it a practice to do discretionary things I would expect to feel bad about. I don't see "hobbying" as being a poor second to anything. But then, I compartmentalize. For the most part, each experience I've had in this lifestyle has been a positive affirmation of the joy of being human. (Thank you, ladies :)) I've always felt that the companion I was sharing time with was there by choice. Were I to feel otherwise, I'd pay my money, we'd sit down and talk sports or cats or politics for a while and I'd leave. I feel it is presumptuous to think the SPs on Cerb continually advertise to do something they'd rather not be doing. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Anyway, that's my two bit's worth of contribution to the thread. It would be my two cents' worth but the penny officially phases out on the 4th.

I'm good for all of them but the two lingerie items. I've had a lot of time to work through that list. :)

As was recently discussed between a wonderful Cerb-ette and I during our most recent encounter, if you never run into pussy farts, you're not doing it right!

Greater love hath no man than this, that a man donate the present contents of his Pooning Fund towards the purchase of a new laptop for his daughter. She and her husband make modest incomes. Her old laptop died and her prospects for a replacement are dim. Food and mortgage before laptops. She is starting an at-home business this summer and is trying to work out how she will do the records and bookkeeping. She doesn't know she is getting this tomorrow. This is going to be fun! :) Plus Papa gets to learn how to set up Windows 8!

I'm thinking you might want to make sure you read this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=116788 It seems you are not alone. :)

One of the downsides of ED meds being regulated by prescription becomes apparent in the following exchange: Me: "I'm calling to renew my meds." Perky young lady at Pharmacy: "No problem. The regular meds?" Me: "Yes" Perky young lady: "And do you need the Cialis, too?" Me realizing I haven't scored 4 times in last month: "No, that's ok." Perky person: "Oh, ok then." Suddenly I feel much older, inadequate, and wonder why Miss Perky needs to know about my sex life. Sigh... But ultimately, this is a First World Problem and the pleasure enabled by the med is such that I would go through 20 Miss Perkys to get there!

So... let's review: A guy asking an SP to provide Viagra or any other prescription ED drug is asking her to break the law in a major way. Guys - don't do that. If you have any questions about ED pharmaceuticals, go back and reread SamanthaEvans' post. She did a very good job of succinctly covering the hows and whys of ED drugs. Regarding guys being shy about talking to their doctor about ED - hello? This guy just had his finger up your butt! He says he's checking your prostate. Uh huh. They all say that. And now you're going to get shy about telling him Willy sometimes dies out too soon? Tell him. Two reasons. One, like SamanthaEvans said, it may be a symptom of more that just getting older. Two, once you get your meds and figure out how to work them, life will be so much more fun. :) Full disclosure: I take them. The doc didn't bat an eye when I brought it up (no pun intended). I tried Viagra. It worked. Kinda, sorta.. I mentioned this to him the next time I saw him and he switched me to Cialis. It works much better for me. Oh yes it does. :) I get mine from the pharmacy down the street. We have an arrangement. They give me drugs but no BBBJs. My SP gives me excellent BBBJs but no drugs. That works pretty well for me.

With all due respect if I may give some advice, stop while you're ahead. You were doing pretty well after your apology. In this latest post, I see a couple or three things where you are projecting your ideas about someone else's reality. This can all be quite simple. Check around and find someone that interests you. Make contact and arrange a rendezvous. If you are lucky and respectful, you'all will get naked, wonderful things will occur, and you will leave with a great big smile. It is possible to over-think the process. As I said at the beginning, this is written with all due respect from the viewpoint of someone who has been too many places, done too many things, and owns an extensive collection of the t-shirts. :) Enjoy and happy pooning!

OK, a couple of times in this thread the idea has been put forward that one should infer the lack of recommendations of any given SP to mean there is a problem with her service. There are some SPs who specifically ask that recommendations not be written. I find that to be a bit odd, but then again, I find a lot of things to be a bit odd. Her game - her rules. But that means one's search for the perfect provider is not a simple math game. But I can help you a bit with that one. If you are intrigued by a specific lady and do your research about her, you may come across the request for non-recommendation and you will then understand why you do not see her listed in the recommendations.

Debating between taking the Portage or Champlain bridge to Hull, deciding to take the Portage and half-way along Tache, hearing there is a new accident on the Champlain. Sometimes, thing just work out. :)

Thick sliced french toast cut from a delicious loaf of country bread with lots of butter and maple syrup.

I assume everyone enjoying this thread is familiar with www orgasmanic com. If not... you should be. :)

I'm confused. From what I read, she understands that you wouldn't have a reference, this being your first time and all. Did she then proceed to decline to see you? That part's not clear in your message. If she did, keep looking... you will find someone wonderful. If she accepted... all is well?

More than 50 years ago a friend told me how to masturbate. A couple of days later I tried it. That was the only good advice I ever got from that friend. I've been following his instructions ever since - with wonderful variances. :) Group? Sure. Count me in!

Interesting article from Slate. Be sure to follow the Jimmyjane link! :) The Vibrator of the Future Is Already Here

Since I started this, I should tell a bit about mine. Some are internal, emotional scars. Those are the ones that came to mind when I saw the quote. Pretty much most of my physical scars are not readily apparent unless you look for them. The most noticeable one, were I to shave my head, is a huge horse-shoe shaped scar on the back of my head. A reminder of brain surgery. Another smallish one, hidden by my watch, is from an extremely dark time where I made a choice I might not have made now. The rest of them are for the most part from when I was "young, dumb, and full of cum" and could form the basis of a great story telling exercise.

"There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with." -Harry Crews, novelist and playwright (b. 1935) I ran across this quote and thought it would resonate with various folk.

... or the legal version of "I told you so". [URL="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/commentary/editorials/oppal-report-on-pickton-killings-signals-the-end-of-current-prostitution-laws/article6576429/"]http://www.theglobeandmail.com/commentary/editorials/oppal-report-on-pickton-killings-signals-the-end-of-current-prostitution-laws/article6576429/[/URL] [I]The Oppal report is a hair-raising examination of how marginalization undermines equality before the law, including the right to the lawâ??s protection. The report is a death knell for prostitution laws in their current form.[/I] A good editorial in so far as it goes. Unfortunately, the writer remains in favour of the "Communicating" law which is the one used most often against sex workers.

It is very nearly Christmas time. Each year I try to arrange an outstanding Christmas present for myself. This year, it was a return visit to see Malika. I tapped on her door. The opening door revealed a gently smiling person looking demurely sexy in black. As an aside, I want to warn you about her eyes. You can fall into them until a week from Tuesday. I stood there a moment, just enjoying seeing her again. She pulled me into the room and gave me a kiss like I had missed for so long. After more kissing, the unveiling began. For her, it was easy. For me, not so much. Wearing a suit and all the accoutrements of my profession complicate getting down to the essentials but we got there. I'd promised Malika two small surprises - changes that I'd made. She spotted one right away - my newly nearly hairless bits. A minute or so later she figured out the other one. I changed meds (what can I say - I'm an old guy!) and was now fully charged for the duration. As it happened, she was sitting on the corner of the bed. As I kissed my way down through an inventory of her charms, she demonstrated wonderful flexibility in getting her toes near her ears so I could devote my time to some serious DATY. To which she responded - oh so well. She pulled me to the centre of the bed, laid me down, and repaid my ministrations with talents of her own. To my amazement, she was able to continue said joys while she located and applied some restraints we had earlier discussed. I mentioned as she was doing this that having that done is a tremendous trust issue and I could not think of anyone I would have greater trust in than her. I think she excelled at ropes when she was a Girl Guide. More suckling and serious nipple biting ensued. After sliding on a condom, Malika started a wild and sensuous ride we both enjoyed. Eventually, she released my restraints and switched places. Toes and ears found themselves again and we finally found our releases, first her, then me. Snuggling and pillow talk-time helped me cool down to the point where I could get back into my clothes and go out in public without scaring small children. I cannot think of a better Christmas gift. I would whole-heartedly recommend that if you want to treat yourself, a PM to Malika is a great way to start.

Please let us know how this comes out. I am, for one, and I'm sure many others are, concerned about this character and wish you all the best.

How very odd. The username for the email, killerbee652, is also the username on Myspace of a girl who, three years ago, was in high school in Pittsfield, Massachusetts. I doubt there is any connection but I find it odd that the killerbee652 thing would randomly happen in two different places. Huh!

As noted in another thread, I've been keeping an eye out for Ontario BBBJ series plates. I've seen BBBX and BBBD and other BBB(something) plates but no BBBJ. I doubt Nova Scotia just got around to this. I suspect it just came up as a news story because of the woman's complaint.

And CERB does it again. Another satisfied customer. Isn't CERB great! :) Welcome aboard, Kippers30. Enjoy the ride.