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BarrhavenWoody

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  1. It seems like maybe it's not the minority opinion. I also like the emotional part and the hugging, kissing and cuddling. I like chatting and getting to know each other and making a connection. Without this connection, I leave feeling empty and disappointed, no matter how good the sex was physically.
  2. This is a great thread. I've always been a little uncomfortable "admitting" that I have visited other ladies. I have had several experiences in SC's where the dancers have been VERY possessive and don't like to share. In some cases I had to go to other clubs if I wanted some variety. This always seemed blow up in my face when the ladies changed clubs and I was confronted by 2 of my regulars at the same time. :-?
  3. Sometimes when a lady sits down, I have stated right away that I don't want any dances or that I am waiting for someone else. This is out of concern for her. I don't want her to waste her time. Occasionally they have snapped back that I don't have to be so blunt - that it wouldn't hurt to chat a little. Other times, with this in mind, I have chatted briefly (just a minute or 2) and then politely said that I am waiting for someone else. Occasionally the lady has rudely replied that I wasted her time and should have said so right away! aaaargh! I can't win! I am always polite and respectful, but honestly don't know the best way to deal with this as each dancer responds differently. I should add that these problems have only happened a few times. Most of the ladies are wonderful.
  4. Beautiful eyes, beautiful hair, great breasts
  5. BarrhavenWoody

    angel1

    A very sultry look :)
  6. BarrhavenWoody

    Beautiful! Love the red bikini :)
  7. Yeah I love the smell of a woman and/or her perfume. I used to do a lot of laundry to get the smell out of my clothes before it was detected by the wife. I always took one last sniff before dropping my clothes into the machine....mmmm...good memories :)
  8. These are all good answers. I think I've used them all over the years. Most of the time this works really well, but I've had a couple of occassions where it didn't. I've told the anxious lady that I just arrived and wanted to get a drink and relax for a little while before having any dances. Then she keeps checking back with me every 20 minutes or so to see if I'm ready yet. It gets a little uncomfortable as the more persistent she becomes, the less interested I am. But I feel badly because I know from her perspective she is just trying to earn a living and it has probably been a slow day.
  9. BarrhavenWoody

    OMG absolutely stunning!
  10. Even in my younger and more flexible days I couldn't. (and yes, I tried!) Dogs are lucky! I guess if I could do that AND make a fist, I'd never do anything else with my life.
  11. Yeah, like we couldn't tell from your pics Carrie! You are definitely all woman!! :boobeyes: Okay I finally put in some details for myself. Not much yet, but it's a start.
  12. It's all fixed now. Thanks MOD. All the English and Geography teachers can breathe easier now.
  13. I suspect there is a big difference between visiting the US for a vacation vs. moving there. I can't imagine this becoming an issue unless you were planning to emigrate to the states. Even then, it seems like a long shot.
  14. My first SC in Ottawa was the place in Manotick about 25 years ago. Had my first table dance with a gorgeous blond. She had on a white bikini. It still brings a smile to my face. :)
  15. A dancer once asked me what my wife and I liked to do together...besides sex. I couldn't think of anything (including the sex). It kinda got me thinking. A few years later we split up. :icon_confused:
  16. I think the new rule will help with situations like this. The ladies are now allowed to PM directly in response to specific requests if they offer this service. Guys can now ask a specific question and get a direct answer. No more beating around the bush. woohoo! :)
  17. Great idea Isabella. You continue to amaze me. I have joined. We all need a friend to lean on or someone to vent to every once in a while
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    Absolutely gorgeous!
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