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I never had a problem with that personally. However I can see it being a problem. Especially if there was a prior relationship, through pms, or forums and they know who you are. Furthermore, maybe if they are well reviewed and the person reads what prior clients have experienced (true or false) they may want to "be the man" and perform or have a similar or better experience therefore they may psych themselves out. The feeling, of being in this hobby for me gets worse in general, because I am trying to leave the hobby. But is so darn tough because you ladies are so irrestible!! :) I just do not want to be desensitized to women and look at them as objects for sexual pleasure only. That feeling gets worse. But the sexual and personal expereince gets better, with time spent with a woman, an meeting new women and making friends, Personally I have a much better time with repeating. It is more to me than just sex. I respect and try to build a relationship with the woman. I get the most of that. Taking into account what I said above is the reason the nervousness does not continue when I repeat. It actually gets better and better because we are able to know each other better emotionally, personally and physically. Yes. For sure. The woman experience is very important to me. I want her to feel good and enjoy it. I would not want her to be uncomfortable and hate being with me. I know it is about the money for her..but I still have a heart. It I was nevous, it would make it easir for me because I could help her though it and vice versa. It makes her more personable in my eyes and that connection is what make it for me. No thank you! :)

I agree. Canada offers variety. I love the summer, the warmth, playing sports outside, long walks on a beach..lol. I also like the winter, i am a fan of winter sports and activities. Oh Canada, it is a great country. And the women are the most beautiful in the world. I can't complain.

What's a book? lol. Thanks for the review and the update. I definately will read this book!

Thanks for your hardwork Mod. I was getting the shakes....shakes.. ...cerb and women addict....

What do you find attractive in men? I'm not referring to clients, but a guy you'd meet in "civilian" life? What do you ladies consider to be the perfect man? How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do? Have you guys ever had a guy absolutely obsessed with you? Do you have a role model within the buisness past or present?

That was my fault. I started this all wrong. And the comments that ensued supported that. It is a good resource. However the questions and answers provided thus far have been very helpful. Thank you to all the great SPs helping an answering our questions!

What adivce would you give to a man on how to treat a woman?

I am so, so sorry for using the term 'hookers' it is my fault and my bad. I did not mean any disrespect. Please forgive me. This was a lesson learned for me and is a prime example of how useful a thread like this would be for everyone. It has been useful for me. I am sorry. I have editied my darn post and appologized. Please do not let my ignorance imped this thread and prohit anyone from asking questions in order to learn and respect the beautiful and wonderful ladies of cerb.

Cerb Women are the best. How about these: 1) What are you' biggest fear as escorts. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues? 2)What races do you prefer if any and why? 3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients? 4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you? 5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better? EDIT: I am so, sorry. These a questions that have come up amongst to populus. I did not mean any disrespect. I have learned my lesson. I was also trying to give examples to start the thread. The ladies are all wonderful.

Many of us have questions that we wish to have answered by SPs and MPAs, to make us better clients and to understand you and the buisness more. I was wondering if any SPs or MPAs would be willing to answer those questions possed by members here. The more the better. Thank you for your help. 1) What do you feel is the best part about being an Service provider?

I and I am sure the cerb populus understand. The poll is anonymous. Those ladies that are inclined please feel free to comment of course no pressure. I think I saw another thread on this done previously while searching to post uniquely. Found it, but the thread was called Do SPs ever fall for clients: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5476

Its all about equal rights! :) so, Exquisite Ottawa SPs: Have you ever fallen for a Client? Please share you thoughts, the experience and result if you are so inclined. :-D

Okay. I will leave it up in the Ottawa section. So Ottawa guys, have you ever fell in love with an SP?

Have you ever fell in love (not lust) with an SP? :grin:

OTTAWA STUDS! Have you ever fell in love (not lust) with an SP? Needs no further explanation. Please share your thoughts, experience if you are so inclined? And perhaps the SP? :) Thanks

I may be paying for sex technically, But the instant I hand over the envelope I forget I did hand it over and an even am paying for sex. It just becomes me and her and no one or thing else (unless it is a duo, toys and things lol). Life's Good - LG

Going back. I dabbled in the massage aspect of the hobby first. My first time there was exhilarating that being the thrill and anxiety of the unknown and the excitement of the whole thing. I remember making the transition to seeing SP. Thanks to cerb. And many thanks to Pretty Paige my first. I was very nervous but she was remarkable and took care of that and everything else. It as great. All the ladies are great. You never forget your first. ..and hope you never have a last. :)

Yes. SPs are human also. lol. They have emergencies and/or need to cancel for whatever the reason. Cancellation becomes more of an issue if their job is incongito, just as the client. I don't mind if the SP cancels even just before the appointment as I understand. yes it is a let down since hormones are at their all-time highest, but that's life. However, I cancel as soon as I know I can make it. I lastest I had cancelled was at least 24hours in advance.

Do women prefer shaved legs?

Well that does it! I am never staying in a hotel again. I'm buying myself a RV! Ladies, if I call you for an outcall, please don't be phased if its it an RV. It will be nice. I will put mints on the pillows and everything.

Cerb is definitely a valuable resource and one that should be respected, maintained and not abused. The members and community is unparalleled. I am just breaking out of my lurker shell to engage the masses. I understand the point of not allowing unfavorable reviews however it would be nice to get a complete picture from different perceptions. It is all subjective, good reviews and bad reviews and should be taken with a grain of salt. The only perception that is 100% is our own personal experience. This just promotes the use of PMs to get another side, or a side, to the experience and the hope that members share.

I prefer clean shaven also....women that is. Nice, silky, smooth. I always shave. It seems to garner the best reaction from the ladies.