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Hi Emily I am from nova scotia and originally from Ontario and I can tell you that I love pei. I find the people there warm and welcoming. Like small town Ontario where I lived or anywhere else there are alot if young guys with too much time on their hands and very little imagination. Angel is a smart girl and she is probably correct in her assessment. I think you will be missing out if you pass because of a few lowlife hicks. And for those who have not been your comments are pointless just move on.

Wow Alex good choice leaving this jerk. Come on man no one is buying your gentleman routine. It might work on women you play mind games with but not the rest of us. Ladies steer clear of this one and Alex stay strong.

I don't buy into the self esteem excuse. Some people get off on control and humiliation and they leave damaged people in their wake. No matter what he says or does and how much he begs he is playing for another chance to degrade you, don't let him. You are a person not an amusement park for a freak. Your clients should be good people too.

He is playing a game and not very well he wins when you lose your self worth. Be strong and toss the fool if women dont accept his abuse he might have to learn how to be a man. Dont play his game Hun. I wouldn't meet him again thought I wouldnt mind an introduction to the loser.

God bless you ;) I had one sp run me out after 20 min of an hour even cuddle time was not an option. Then she asked where her tip was lol.

So can I claim my donations on my taxes under health related expenses :) Interesting article thanks.

Lol I have too and it is usually a pretty good laugh. I have also had ladies say ummm I don't really want to say and after a while they tell me. Either approach is cool with me.

Well said I wouldn't want that job I would be bleeding out my ears. I have a hard enough job policing myself.

Ummmm no.... what goes on inside their head lends more to the experience than the physical attributes. The outsides are a great start but I have had great and poor experiences with people who have similar backgrounds. But then again I am stimulated by the intellectual so maybe that is my bias ....

Respect would dictate that if a lady is not comfortable with a topic move on to another. It is not that hard to find common ground. Just because we provide payment does not mean that we can enter any aspect of a woman's life we desire. It does not remove their right to make choices. It does not mean we always get our way. If we take our time and allow a lady to become comfortable with us then in most cases we will have a richer experience. And as far as if you don't want to say just lie.... I don't see how that builds chemistry. Stand strong ladies because to strong men that is kinda hot ;) lol

This is two attacks this week some other .... Took a shot at her for a joke she posted. She is probably tired of getting offended here.

Never surrender the high ground

I don't see any problem with people offering an alternative approach for the OP to find the best experience possible. What was said by the ladies offering a different approach is that if you just blindly follow an ad or someones rec then you might be disappointed because the services one person receives may not be offered to another. So another approach is to find a sp who is recommended contact them and discuss the services requested. Then enjoy. I have noticed when lady makes this kind of suggestion some feel the need to fire back as if the suggestion is somehow an attack or inappropriate. This is the only reason I say some of us don't listen. If that is wrong sorry. I have tried just going by ads and rec and have been disappointed. When I have exchanged a few pm's first I have had better experiences. These discussions are good as in most cases debate leads to the best answers. Thanks for the suggestions ladies and gentlemen.

This does not surprise me at all. I am a business analyst and you would be shocked at how often this kind of manipulation happens. It is something many businesses struggle with. You ladies do cash upfront I give advice and invoice on 30 day terms. I have had clients contract me have me solve their problems and said well all we really did us talk so we will only pay half. Thank god for collections :). The problem is this is not open to you but what a letter for someones wife to find lol. As far as discounts go I can only see one reason. If someone is a regular and you enjoy their company you might be able to increase your share of their total business with a slight discount. They will not book a slot and leave you hanging and you know they are safe. In all business there is less risk in getting more business from existing clients than getting new ones.

Thanks you have put some thoughts in my head. I love to cook as a hobby why do I not cook at a soup kitchen..... Thanks

I have to wonder why us guys have such a hard time listening to the ladies here. They give great advice. Look at the recommendations contact the lady in question and see what her limits are. I guess men don't like doing homework but it works. Before I started on CERB and took the advice of fine ladies like Megan my experiences were hit and miss. Adverts that were warm and open only to meet a woman that didn't want to do anything that was advertised. Now I read the reviews then pm the lady in question have a bit of a conversation and if there is a click. I also read the posts of the ladies and wow charming and funny. It works :). Thanks ladies. If you are interested in a particular service find interesting ladies as them about the service and see if they provide. If you take the time and find the right ladies you will get more than you expected not less. This has been my experience.

Over the hood of my gf's car in a hiking trail parking lot at high noon lol

Of course it existed no one said it didn't however that does not mean that cl is a positive thing for the business. Honestly I think that the CERB approach where we can get a feel for who we (both ladies and men) are meeting makes it much more difficult for women to be exploited. Ease of advertisement or variety of women are not strong positives when you think if the negatives. Of course the narrow minded and judgmental would shut CERB down. I think that as hobbyists we should be very careful in our use of cl. Not just for our own protection but to ensure that no action we are taking puts another human-being at risk. My short list of self imposed rules are: 1) I only see independents 2) I only see ladies who I can establish a conversation with before hand to get a feel for their comfort level. 3) I have a Cerb first policy. I will see ladies from CERB before anyone not on Cerb. 4) If I find someone from cl at some point that I decide to see I will try to get her to join cerb. 5) I do not see escorts who cannot communicate well in English. Communication is the only way I can screen. I think that as hobbyists we have a responsibility to ensure we do not contribute to the dark sides of this business and the less of that there is the easier it will be for the business as a whole.

I am more concerned about cl being used to enable the abuse of women. As a hobbyist I enjoy the company of ladies but assume they are willing participants. I will only see independent ladies and try to ensure they are willing. How can we ensure we are not doing harm in finding pleasure. Comments?

I am in the process of doing the same. I have free incoming calls and free after 6 and added unlimited ld for 15 bucks. I have not used my land line in a month. One more month and it comes out and saves me a bundle.

Ok a new one for me pumpkin pie made with real pumpkin.... Little chunks of pumpkin and fresh ground spices not even fair

Pete that is what a white knight is, anyone can act when the outcome is known but to put yourself in a position where you are in harms way to protect another, hats off to you my friend. I had to get between three Jamaican farm workers and my 16 year old niece so I know scared shitless. However I had a little inanimate semi legal backup lol. The reason abuse is so common is people won't stand up. Then the cycle continues.

Hi Alexis Thanks for sharing. The most important part of your post is the part I quoted. You are who you are not what you do. Having said that there are many who can hold their head high and state their profession who do a lot of damage while you, a person who if you are like the ladies I have visited, brings a lot of pleasure to others at a cost to yourself. The lawyer who over bills the mother trying to get custody of her child, the accountant who pads his bill to cover the loan for computer equipment he never bought, the politician who does not stand for what is right, the teacher who will not help the struggling students. All of these people can proudly announce their careers while causing tremendous damage. All true stories btw. If you are loved by those around you, if you do your business with honor and do good for those you interact with I would be proud to call you friend. There are many people who have great careers who would never gain my respect but I know ladies in your profession I would be honored to call friend. That is what truly counts.

I totally agree. When my mom was sick my family tried the religious thing only to find an undercurrent of hate and fear. The purest of motives were shown but under it all was a desire to control and punish nonconformists. The whole wolf in sheeps clothes thang described the religious right. Sad really because they don't want solutions to social problems they want to use them to forward their agenda. The sad thing is we all fund this through massive tax breaks to all religious organizations.