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And my point was that he didn't ask for anything inappropriate to this section. All that he mentioned was a physical feature of the apparatus to be used. He said nothing about what might be done with it.

Jackie Gilcrest was a dancer (I think) and often does a lap-dance as part of an appointment. The only problem is that she's a MA, and you're asking in the escort section, so she may well not provide all the plusses you're looking for...

This is true, but not relevant to this thread. The OP was asking for a particular service, and Lyla is an entirely appropriate venue for that. There aren't many RMTs advertising here. Whether he should have asked in the massage section or the escort section depends on what he wants done with whatever happens to be dangling through the hole.

I like that https seems to work properly now :)

Seems odd. I'd be inclined to move on. But that's just my opinion...

So what's wrong with paying cash for a burner phone and using that?

Yep. But you can't hide your face when you cross the border... which is probably a good reason to keep it out of your work pics as facial recognition continues to improve.

I'd recommend EmJ https://www.lyla.ch/profile/173646-sweet-emily-j/

Why? A phone isn't any harder to get than an email address. I'd much rather email someone than send text messages, although maybe that just means I'm getting old...

Calling an escort with his wife within earshot? The guy deserves everything he gets just for sheer stupidity. Good on you for trying to minimize the damage, though. It can't have been much fun.

Yep. I haven't noticed it since the cutover to the new software.

I think the rules are no replies, no bumps, and you can only post once per day. But in most cities that's more than enough to keep you on the first page.

Is it because the URL is being changed from https to http? That happens quite a bit, especially on pages that involve a redirect (e.g. after you post, or search, or send a PM). You can just manually re-insert "https://" at the beginning of the URL when it happens if that's it... which is annoying, but not the end of the world.

I hate to be unsympathetic, but LL is running a business, not a charity. If they put their rates up and people keep paying, then that demonstrates that they made the right call, and they'll probably do it again. You only have two realistic choices: pay up for the service they provide, or go elsewhere. Complaining won't help if you keep giving them money. The only way prices will start coming down is if enough people do go elsewhere and they realize their high prices are starting to hurt the bottom line. Speaking of which, I really must go and see what alternative cellphone plans are out there...

Jafo, sorry to hear that happened to you. They don't really have much choice. Once a criminal has your credit card details there's nothing else they can do. As far as this goes... I don't think it makes dating websites bad in the same way that the presence of scammers on CL/BP/LL/etc for years makes those sites inherently bad. Scammers get everywhere, unfortunately. OOI, did you make a report about safedatingservices.com to the police? It may not do any good, but it probably won't do any harm... and if it does help get the site shut down that'd be a benefit to society.

You just have to wait until Mod gets to it... he's not on 24/7, and even when he is he has other things to do (like the technical stuff to keep the site running)

On selfies... I don't have strong feelings about it. Some people do, some don't. As has been noted a common compromise seems to be to use professional pics on a website and selfies in more informal contexts, e.g. social media. Really, it's a question of what you're comfortable with and what sort of an image you wish to project. Things like VPNs, TOR, etc are useful for getting around problems like this, if you feel inclined to use them.

A lot of Canadian sites went to .cc domains when c36 became law. I think all the *ERB sites did. LL may simply be doing the same. Not sure about the Euros though :)

...which is why sexual services aren't allowed to be specified in ads here, for anyone who was wondering :) Not really. Canadian laws apply in Canada, US laws apply in the US, and which apply to any given website depends on where the domain is registered, where it's hosted and who runs it - and all three of those may be in different countries.

Spas: Brass Club has some rooms with double-sized massage tables or beds. Paradise has a hot tub. ALO have a new venue called the Loft which I think has beds, and I've heard good things about it although I haven't been there myself. Indy MAs... probably variable - you'd have to ask. I think Jackie Gilcrest has a bed that she uses. These two are kinda similar... and it's really down to the individual MA. All I can really recommend is that you read some recommendations, and see who you think you might connect with. I've found that following people on Twitter is a good way to get a feel for what sort of person they are (for the ones with active accounts that do more than just post ads/availability, at least). What you're looking for is definitely out there, but it's also very dependent on intangible things like chemistry. You can always ask in advance, especially if you've worked out who you want to see and you can contact her before hand. Indy providers almost always have a flat fee. Some spas have a single fee (CMJ and Brass Club definitely do), some have separate door fee and "tip", but the total you pay is likely to be similar whether or not it's split. Again, this is where tracking down MAs on Twitter or advertising sites is useful - they often have ways to contact them directly. Nudity, manual release, no oral or penetration. Things like kissing and mutual touching are less predictable and more at the MA's discretion - if these are important to you then doing your research and asking the MA in advance is probably your best bet. Hope that helps! Have fun!

Are you using a VPN or something? It may be associated with spam or botnets or something. Your best bet is probably to drop Mod a PM and ask. If you broke a rule on the site you'd be given a warning or infraction, which will show up on your profile.

Whenever you've had enough. It doesn't matter if that's after two or twenty or two thousand... once you're fed up with it, stop!

But there's no restriction if you're just adding to an existing reco thread.

However, it is not universally popular...

It was Bill C-36 while it went through Parliament, and a lot of people still call it that. Now that it's law it revels in the glorious name of the Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act (S.C. 2014, c. 25).