Phaedrus

I have a vague recollection that Peachy mentioned she either had or was getting one. Not sure though... I should drop her a PM and see.

Nothing in your post is inappropriate for the FS section :) As for actual ideas... you'll be looking at SPs offering FS, so massage may not be their specialty. And I'm going to assume that cumswap wouldn't be a big deal for anyone who offers duos and also offers CIM, but I may be wrong on that. And CIM/swallow are very much YMMV things.... However... Cleo was a MA for a bit, she seems to do lots of duos, and I think she offers pretty much everything you're after except swallowing. I think Emily J offers everything you're after, but I don't recall ever seeing advertize a duo. Finally, read this. I obviously can't promise anything on anyone else's behalf, but I assume you can follow my train of though from here... :)

Well? Are you? Lee put a lot of effort into that costume, you know...

Well, I tend to get on best with people around my own age, give or take a decade. There are exceptions though. Quite apart from personal taste, there's another significant issue here: staying away from the people advertizing as being only just legal gives you more of a buffer against meeting up with someone who's underage. This isn't an issue if you're fairly conservative about who you see and stick to ladies who are recommended by others or advertize in forums that verify the age of their advertisers, but I'd imaging it's far more of a risk if you're inclined to constantly seek out the new arrivals in the industry. And getting it wrong just doesn't bear thinking about.

Yes... but the point is that you have agency because of attributes entirely unrelated to the fact that you've chosen to be involved in this industry. You'd have as much agency if you did something else. There are some gifted individuals who can do almost anything they set their minds to, and there are some who are doomed to perpetual failure. And in between, there's almost everybody else, who are better at some things than others and who have some choice over what to do with our lives, but not a completely free choice...

OOI, does anyone have a good source for the stats on how many trafficked people end up in the sex industry, as opposed to others where they commonly go (like construction, agriculture, domestic work, etc)? Just wondering, and too lazy to put any effort into research right now.

Congratulations, Emily!

It depends. Am I driving a police cruiser?

So you have to go and look for everything, and while you're doing that you have to walk past many other tempting treats that you'll hopefully put in your cart. FWIW they put the things that you ALWAYS need to buy on every trip as far from each other as they can (and milk is always in the back corner, as far from the entrance as possible) for the same reason - it means you always have to visit the entire store. How come I know random useless crap like that off the top of my head anyway?

Just voting with the majority here. This is not a business for germaphobes. Neither is it a business for someone who's so dependent on the TV that they can't turn it off when she has a guest. Neither of these things is your fault, Maotouying. I should just chalk that one down to experience and find someone better.

Absolutely. I'm pretty sure this is already mentioned in the FAQ or rules or somewhere, but I'm too lazy to check right now. The thing is, Mod probably can't really police this as he already has way too much on his plate and keeping an eye on every post in a reco thread is probably just too much work. However... there's no reason why we can't do it and flag chatter in reco threads for Mod to remove. I'm assuming that removing an individual post from a thread isn't a big deal, provided it's not the first one in the thread. But I'm also assuming that Mod would agree with us on this... I've dropped him a PM about it, so hopefully he'll tell us.

I should hope not. If you're parked in my drive you'd damn well better be visiting ME!

Congratulations, Miquelon!

Well, it's just more... personal :) I'd have thought both. Everything you mention is relevant, and there are probably other variables on each side we could add. I have no doubt that the SP's mood is a factor. But then again, so is the client's... and the two feed off each other... A bit, perhaps, but not as much as the difference between clients for the same SP, or SPs for the same client. Some fundamental things won't change from visit to visit, and some things (like hygiene) should be pretty consistent, but some things - like whether you've just had a shitty day, or you're tired, or whatever - may be different each time.