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crazy cravings ...
barriei88 replied to Isabella Gia (Banned)'s topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Tacos - And don't even say Taco Bell. You should be ashamed! lol Dill Pickles (Pretty embarrassing to ask for extra pickles as a grown man! lol) St-Hubert Original Style Coleslaw... On it's own sometimes! And the one that drives me wild, is the prime rib cravings from the watermark restaurant on the 32nd floor of the hilton in Niagara. Been there about 10 times, and I can't get enough. Pretty expensive but worth every penny! -
Would you date me?
barriei88 replied to JuliasUndies's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Here's my take on it... I dated a service provider for about a year. We met and hooked up and things moved fast. We were definitely in love, and I was ok with that. It's not like I told all my friends how we met and what she did beforehand, but we were comfortable enough to let each other into our real lives and not the fantasy life that sometimes comes with the biz I guess. That being said, we broke up, because she had a lot of unresolved issues in her life. I can truly say that to me it doesn't make a difference, as long as the person you're with has their shit together. I think it takes a confident man, to be able to accept her past and not let it fuel jealousy in a relationship. I think it's easy for a guy who has jealousy issues to be even more possessive and jealous when it comes to dating someone who was in the business. I think it's important to set boundaries, rules and expectations about what each of you expect in the relationship from each other. In my case, I broke up with her not because of her past, but because of the present. Whether you're a provider or not you still have to have your shit together. I don't think in the end it matters how you met, but it really does matter how much you're legitimately connected while you're together. I'm not a jealous or suspicious guy, but I do have to admit that when my ex started to pursue me, I did have issues about how legitimate she was being at first because money was a huge part of all of our early encounters. So it makes you wonder what she is really looking for and if she is really interested, but eventually those barricades drop when you know the SP is being truly genuine. So... Yeah i think providers are A Ok in my book, as long as both partners are committed and on the same page. And seriously, if I'm gonna get judged by some kid's dad that you blew in a K-mart parking lot 8 years ago, lol who cares...? If you're the type of person who lives their life worrying about what others think, then you should re-evaluate. And besides, if he knows who you are and what you do, it's because he's probably had encounters in his life that he wouldn't be excited to talk about with everyone in his life either. -
Hey, New to this site, subscribed a while back but haven't really been on until now... Curious to get some feedback from some women and dudes. I'm 29, and in a wheelchair, from Ottawa Ontario. Super normal guy, super chill guy. Not weird or anything. Loaded money wise, but I just like to have fun, and go on with life like most people do. My sex life over the last year has been ridiculously bad. I broke up with my ex, because she was nuts, and I had surgery twice, which kind of killed my sex drive and will continue to do so for at least another couple of months. That being said, mentally it seems I'm always horny... Me and my ex bought a sybian while we were together, and she loved it. I loved using it on her, to watch her cum over and over and over... So.... being lonely lately, I figured I should try posting on craigslist, to see if I could arrange some play dates with some women who are interested in trying it out. And holy fuck, it seems, like I committed a crime. I've met 1 or 2 really great women who enjoyed their experience, and I've also met 4 or 5 women who scared me. Women who turned out not to look like what they described, women who seemed cracked out of their mind, or women who seem to have major problems in their life. Apart from those bad encounters, between the amount of spam I get from fake women, and dudes pretending to be ladies. I just don't get it... Yeah I get that I'm in a wheelchair, and that might weird people out and I totally understand that, but it's not like I look retarded or anything... lol Combine that with the fact that I'm not looking for sex right now, and looking to create an alternative experience, it seems the only women I attract are not the type of women anyone wants to be with for obvious reasons... lol I'm not looking for super models all the time, but I'm certainly looking for women with a head on their shoulders... Soooo I've mentioned all that to ask this. 1) Is craigslist even worth using these days? Or are there better options? 2) For the ladies, How likely are you to try some alternative experiences? 3) How many women have tried the sybian? Curious to get you're feedback... 4) I'm always very generous, but realistically, how much more do paid companions get when it comes to fetish scenarios like this? I know everyone is different, but realistically, I don't want to be taken advantage off... unless I ask for it... haha I'd love to get some feedback on some providers experiences, with fetish scenarios and so on. And also some dudes advice on avoiding some of the shall I say nicely "weirdos" lol Thanks Pals...