theoldguy

Oh no worries there. Having been going to this club purely hoping for dances with this girl and another I mentionned in another thread and having so little luck actually getting their attention I've actually been saving money.

I only go during evenings as a general rule and thats when I've seen her.

That is definitely her. Additional Comments: Apparently the edit function wont let you change a thread title to modify a name.

(Not to be confused with exotic annessa at the playmate, despite their common half asian descent) She's been mentionned in the pigales dancers thread but figured she deserves one of her own. Been at Pigales way too often lately for my own good but one good thing came of it, I got to partake in some dances with this beautiful lady. Contrarely to most girls at this club who'll come up to you, grab your balls under the table and ask if you want some dances, Annessa actually oozes class in comparison. She's actually great to talk to and doesnt seem in a rush to bring you downstairs.(This may have something to do with the fact that contrarely to the other girls who are scrambling for clients, she has guys lining up to see her and I've never seen her turned down by a guy she's approached.) Her dances are fantastic and she has quite the bag of tricks to turn you on. She also does a great job of seeming to really get into it, with tons of dirty talk. Having been going to these clubs since I got my first fake id when I was 16 decades ago, I can easily say this is the first time I would classify a dancer as offering a gfe. She makes you feel like there's no one else in her world while you spend time with her. I'd strongly recommend every guy who enjoys strippers and/or asians line up for her now!

Stopped in tonight for a quick beer and was reminded of why I avoid this place fron thursday to saturday. In 20 minutes I was approached by 9 girls from out of town that mostly all got snarky when I explained I didnt have time for dances. Not relaxing at all, and 7 of those were not particularly attractive. The place is much better from Sunday to wednesday.

I do appreciate everyone's input and I hope talking it out like this will eventually end up helping. For now though I am definitely staying away.

Lots of new girls from montreal were in this week. Many I had never seen before. Another addition worth noting was a tiny asian girl from quebec city that seemed very friendly in the cr, but I wouldnt reccomend her for english clients...

I think alot of what I said has been misconstrued. I am not fantasizing about a pretty woman scenario. I've done enough of this to realize the impossibility of such a thing. Nor is she shy, I'd say she's currently the girl with the most traffic in gatineau's highest volume strip club. I'd be happy seeing her there on a regular basis and that would be that, no harm no foul no psychological damage. I think the obsession stems from what I would describe as her almost hot and cold demeanour; almost ignoring me in the one place where I want to see her and very friendly in the other. Watching her go for dances with every other guy there and very seldom myself wouldnt be so hard without the other aspect of it where she is so approachable. Its almost like a stripper playing hard to get; not the nost standard modus operandi in their line of work. The things she says in the other place probably arent helping either, like saying she's out every night after work because she doesnt have a boyfriend just sent shivers down my spine, but I could reason that away as very shrewd business sense IF she was milking for all I am worth. She isnt, and if I was being honest with myself I'd admit thats probably the key to the problem. Her behaviour doesnt match what I'velearned to identify affer dealing with girls in the industry since I turned 16 and first discovered this fascinating world 2 decades ago. The time she saw me affer work and asked what I thought of her outfits that night when I was certain she hadnt seen me in the 3 hours I sat there left me questionnibg myself for days!

Alot of what has been said here makes sense, and I initially thought the intrigue would be gone after a few dances. Sadly it got worse. And I cant help but wonder if she is deliberately avoiding me at her workplace because I did something awkward without realizing it. On one slow night every single (not even an exageration) other girl working there approached me except her. And you know you are at a strip club too often when the coat check girl knows you by name and wont even issue you a check ticket as she knows your coat. As far as this obsession becoming costly, if it werent for my inherent ability to turn down every other girl due to shyness, there would be no cost beyond the 5$ cover charges and a few beers. Never saw this pitfall of hobbying coming.

Here's an interesting story to share with the rest of you. This should be prefaced by saying that despite my lack of posts, I have been reading these forums and partaking of the various aspects of the hobby for years, usually not seeing a provider/dancer more than once as for me this has always been about variety. About a year ago I started noticing a remarkably beautiful girl in a public setting (not her workplace) that we both seemed to frequent regularly. I'd engaged in idle chatter as the setting allowed and found her company rather pleasant but did not think much of it beyond a fun way to pass the time. She was that clearly out of my league. I'd see her every so often and that was that. Skip to a few months ago when I went to a local strip xlub with some friends and realized she works there. She saw me and said hi, gave me a quick hug and walked away. Later that night I saw her in the usual public place after she was done (no creepy stalker stuff I had been planning to head there anyway.) and chatted with her like usual. Since then I've pretty much lost all appetite for the hobby except for her. I frequent her club whenever I can, and she's always quick to come say hi, but has only offered dances a few times. Typically she's just friendly but doesnt seem to view me as a client. (probably a good thing for my finances) Problem is she is on my mind 24 hours a day. All I can think about is when my next opportunity to go see her will come. Now mylogical mind knows the best solution is just to avoid her workplace and the other place I keep running into her. As an employee in the other place once joked with her "I bet you break alot of hearts." and she answered "you dont know the half of it." Guess I should avoid the hobby for a long while and find something else to do. Maybe knitting.