ottawaadventurer

Not sure I get the distinction. This is a review board.... So once one has determined that a provider is of interest (based on the criteria you mention), and that person has no reviews, then by definition, seeing them and writing a review is taking one for the team, no?

Do a search - this question has been asked several times.

This just seems like a no-brainer to me. you pay. Then you play. Why on earth would it be any different. You're not in a restaurant or a bar - you're privileged to be where you are, and your SP is taking far more risks than you are. If you're not willing to pay up front, this isn't the hobby for you.

This has been an interesting read... And I understand all of the responses. All of them. That being said, I also remember my first few posts... My first few questions. And this guy is asking for help/information/advice. Good for him. How many guys with herpes just say 'fuck it', see SPs, and never tell them. Lots. I am sure. So while I agree his choice of words is unfortunate, good for him for asking. So many guys with STIs or STDs never tell... One of the things I love about CERB is how forgiving people here are. We all blow it sometimes. Give him a break, and some good advice. Think of it as a teaching moment.

Each completely ready

I am a beer lover and have to say (please, take no offense) that most domestic, mass produced beers are not really beer.... Bud is made from rice (as oppose to wheat) and the rest just taste too generic for me. I like Beau's (Ottawa), Several Belgian imports, and in a pinch, Stella. In the end, all that matters is that you like it. I'm no beer snob - taste is individual. And life is short. Whatever your pleasure, enjoy it fully. BTW roamingguy..... I avoided alcohol for a long time and still drink the non-alcoholic Beck's often as a matter of choice. Good call - it's a delicious beverage.

Tried the other night but they appeared to be closed... not sure what their hours are; it was only around 7:00 pm...

While I totally sympathize with the OP, I must say that this post seems quite un-cerb-like. It's a "diss" and of an SP who's identified. The issue is one that may well merit discussion, but I have to say that one of the big things that sets this board apart from others is that it isn't a forum for negative reviews. There have been a few posts lately that seem to have gone under the radar. I could be wrong - and will happily admit so if it is the case. But I tend to feel that if a post makes me feel uncomfortable, there's usually a reason. Comments?

Now that's an idea! Sort of a research and development fund...

Went for my second visit and met Winnie - "as in, the poo" she said. Good massage, nice finish, charming girl. Couldn't use the back door to get it, but was offered the option for my exit. A good find.

I use tineye, but to be honest, I have found that the best strategy is to stick with the wonderful ladies of CERB to be sure. There are so many well-reviewed ladies here - so many that all kinds of preferences can be met. There's no need to take any risks at all... This place is amazing.

It's funny - I used to be the kind of guy that thought he didn't like perfume on a woman... Natural scent, etc... But a couple of years ago I was with a woman who was wearing something that drove me mad. In the morning I woke up and smelled her perfume on me and I was sent right back to our magical moment. I even bought a bottle of it so I could smell it again. Scent is such a powerful sense... It wires itself into the brain and creates very long-lasting memories. Just writing this sends me back to that day.

I have been shaving the boys for years. Just love the smooth feel. I have been shaved by others a few times, but have never been able to relax enough to really enjoy it. I agree that it can be very sensual and erotic, but for me, it's a bit too stressful.

I met Michelle at 217 Bank yesterday - a very positive experience. Nice, clean place, and service that actually had me forgetting I was paying... unique in terms of my experiences at many asian places. No clock watching, personal service, fun conversation, and a truly amazing finish.... Enjoy!

These are likely the same guys who post questions about rates, etc... right after MOD says not to... right in the same thread! It amazes me. If they're not on CERB to read and learn, what are they here for? Sigh. On behalf of everyone with a penis, I apologize...

Thanks for the response Sara. I think given that this is CERB, it would be a good home for this kind of thing. The SPs/MPs are quite well respected and have reputations that are solid. And in any arrangement, you'd have to receive your services before providing any. PERIOD. I understand the money thing, but in my experience, barter can lead to much higher value for some. This is particularly the case when people have more time than money. For some people, giving up a half a day, for example, might be easier than coming up with $250... KWIM?

Good morning everyone! I was driving to work this morning and started thinking about something. When I lived in Montreal, I belonged to a bartering network. Basically, people would log into the board and post a message with the skills/abilities they possessed and the kinds of services they were looking for. Individuals interested in setting up some form of exchange would then contact the other person and begin a discussion. So, for example, I would offer to do tax preparation, painting, small moving jobs, etc... and would contact people who offered plumbing, electrical, etc... Now, before people get all riled up... I am NOT suggesting that this type of arrangement is for everyone, nor am I advocating that SPs/MPs should do this... But I am wondering if there are any SPs/MPs that would find this sort of a thing useful... If so, a social group devoted to these kinds of discussions could be created. Just wondering - likely a non-starter, but I am interested in the responses I'll get. Again - pleas - this is by no means an effort to put pressure on anyone, nor is it intended to be disrespectful in any way. What made me think of it was that I remember seeing a post by a provider in the winter offering a discount if someone could come do some shoveling after a big snowfall... and I wondered how that panned out. I guess I have always believed that there are more currencies than cash... Thoughts, anyone?

I love this thread.... I have never been with a woman that was convincing with the dirty talk... in some ways, that's probably the highest on my fantasy list... i love the idea of hearing the woman I'm tasting or feeling talk really dirty...

yours make me happy too.... :-) But i wholeheartedly agree - they're all wonderful.

Yay! you're great.

Hey folks, 104 members now... but we need some pictures to share... If you're a member - please share... If you're not, join and share! And if you're a SP/MP, and you qualify as Itty Bitty - perhaps you can upload a pic of yourself? Just a thought! Have a great day folks

I have lived through this as well. Best thing to do with gossip is treat it like fire... starve it of oxygen. Ignore it. To do anything else is to give it more credence than it is worth.

I am fine if the request is phrased right.... "if you enjoyed my services, I'd be grateful for a CERB review".... and if they don't expect an answer "live"... If it was a good encounter, I'd write a review. If it wasn't great, I wouldn't... and wouldn't worry because it wouldn't be a repeat...

Many clinics actually have a governance body as well - there may well be a place to complain that does not imply going through the doctor. Ugh. Sorry you had to deal with that.

Brio is amazing... not so sweet and a great bite!