ottawaadventurer

well folks, we're almost at 100 members... now we need some folks to share pics, recommendations, etc....

Mind you... i must admit... my favorite kid toy was not a toy at all, but a little (yes, little) appendage between my legs. Once I hit twelve, all the games in the world came second (pardon the pun).

I may be wrong about this... but in my experience, this phenomenon is not exactly something a woman can turn on and off.... it may happen, it may not. Listing it as a specific 'service' could well lead to disappointment for the client who is not able to make it happen, for whatever reason.... I have been with many women where this was a nice treat, but was by no means a sure thing. And then again, maybe it's just me that's not a sure thing. Sigh... :-)

L'Eau Bleue d'Issey for men... it's all I wear. Cologne, aftershave, soap - the whole deal. Amazing.

As I get older, and have slightly more money to play with, I tend to be far more interested in the character of the woman than anything else... Just go looking on the boards and websites - it's not all that hard to find a young lady just entering the business who is not charging a lot... but those encounters just don't do it for me anymore... As a few others have posted, at this point in my life, my adventures need to involve conversation, flirtation, and ultimately, respect. Not saying that this cannot happen with new ladies or young ones - just that the changes of me finding what I am looking for goes way up when I focus on well-reviewed veterans of the trade. And most of them charge a well deserved premium.

Coleco head to head baseball

Hey folks, There are now 89 lovers of itty bitty titties in the social group... let's make it 100 by the end of the day... Help us pay homage to all things small... ;-) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=51 ladies - please jump in if you have 'em - tell us why you love them, and let us know who you are. Gents - post some pics (usual social group rules apply)... Have a great Tuesday!

So... everyone's different... some guys take a long time to complete their release... others are quick.... i have to admit that after a massage and all of the anticipation, i tend to be rather quick... but i also know that this may not be the case for all men. So, my question for the ladies is... how do you know when to begin the release portion of a session? All of the sessions I have had seemed to be almost perfectly timed to allow about 5 minutes at the end for wind-down... How on earth do you do it? And the next question... because i tend to enjoy prolonging things a bit... how would one broach that topic... i.e. more time teasing and holding things back... would such a request be out of line? I don't recall seeing any posts about this rather sensitive topic before... I can't be the only guy who wonders about this, can I?

I am the typical middle-aged man... a little overweight but not fat, a little out of shape, but still quite active, a little bald, but not a ping pong ball.... I hate describing myself because I can only imagine the big *yawn* it will elicit... I find that words never really help, in fact. Pics do, of course, but I can't imagine sending a pic of myself to an SP before meeting her. There is a double standard here, but it comes with the provider/client dichotomy. The provider of a product or service will always have to provide more information than the customer. Not saying it's an ideal situation, but it's reality. It does make me realize that SPs and MPs are quite amazing people. It takes a special person to be willing to meet with a complete stranger and provide such an intimate experience that is mostly focused on providing pleasure to the client. I don't know how they do it. We are all humans, and many of us never get past the initial attraction/no attraction thing...

Hey folks, We're at 76 members... not bad.... but we can do better, no? the more members, the more pics.... and reviews... Come join: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=51

When I dipped my toe into this world for the first time, I, too, made the mistake of thinking that asking for less than FS would cost less. After all, a steak is more expensive than a hamburger! (how dumb i was)... I made a couple of inquiries and received a couple of curt, almost rude responses, basically telling me to buzz off. I didn't know then that this was something that happened often (men trying to bargain) and that it was quite offensive to the ladies in question. And then finally, one provider took the time to explain things to me.... that the requested donation levels were firm, that the donations were for time and not services, the concept of YMMV, etc... She was polite, caring, and really took the time to ensure that I understood why things were the way they were. Of course, once all had been explained, I was mortified at how I must have sounded and how disrespectful those ladies must have thought I was. I am not saying that an outright "buzz off" is not an option, or that the ladies have any responsibility to take the time to explain things to every guy that sends a text or email. But I did want to tell the story because this particular lady is the reason I was finally able to take the plunge and set up a date. Not everyone comes into this hobby with an enlightened mind... but that doesn't make them cavemen or idiots. CERB members are immersed (at least for a time) in this world and have come to know how things work. It's not every guy that gets it at first. I will always be grateful to the lady who was so patient with me and who took the time to teach me a bit about the etiquette of being a client.

Wasn't Jade Spa on the DNR list? I see it's not now, but I seem to recall that they were, perhaps until only recently? I have been there once and saw Coco - I was pleasantly surprised...

mmm

OMG that made me laugh. It's true though... there are so many other erotic rides to be had.... and, to be honest, I love those foreplay sessions... they can be quite intense.

I had the exact thing happen to me; I was teaching a graduate course and bumped into a table of my students. I thought nothing of it, since we were all adults, but it did cause some tension, particularly since it was obvious to them that several of the ladies knew me. As for the OPs point, I would never acknowledge an SP in public, both for my protection and hers. It's easy for guys to take it personally, but it's not personal. All of our encounters happen in a sort of suspended reality.

Nothing is new... and I am aware that there are cultures in which this has been done since the beginning of time. That was not the point of my post. My point was simply that arguing that whether a woman shaves or not is a reflection of how much she cares for her body is insulting. Let's accept it for what it is - a personal preference. And more importantly, let's create a space (on CERB and anywhere else) where women feel free to do with their bodies as they wish without feeling they are being judged.

Wow. It's funny - some people accuse me of loving teeny tiny titties because they think it has to do with age... trying to live out some sort of pedo-fantasy. totally ridiculous.

I was wondering how long it would take before somebody posted something along these lines. Let's be clear folks - this is a choice, and an one that ought to be based solely on PERSONAL preference. It is completely ridiculous (and offensive to those who do not shave) to say that shaving is an indication of "caring" for one's body... Pubic hair actually serves a purpose - it protects the vagina from bacteria and other impurities, and it also keeps things cooler down there (by creating some breathing room and wicking moisture away)... So, in fact, it can be (and is often) argued that in terms of sanitation, comfort, and freshness, public hair is helpful. But in the end, the only thing that matters is how a woman feels... about herself and her body. It's unfortunate that in our culture, women feel so obliged to keep up with the ever-changing male-imposed standards of what is right and what is wrong. Let's not forget that in our culture, removing all pubic hair is a relatively new phenomenon. I guess women just didn't care about their bodies until the 1990s... ridiculous. I was taking to a friend of mine who does Brazilians. She always asks the girls, in conversation, why they are doing it. She told me that about 75% say its because it's what their partners want. Only 25% tell her it's because they like it better. I am not saying that women shouldn't do it, or that for some, it really is a preference. But when people say things in forums like this that it is a sign of caring for their bodies, it sends the message to all of the women that this is the only acceptable standard. And before I get slammed for this post - I actually really enjoy a nice smoothie. That being said, I'd prefer to be with a woman who doesn't shave and loves her kitty than one who does reluctantly. OK. Rant over. Time for some coffee.

The beauty of a pregnant Woman... It's always been something I love. I know it's not everyone's thing but I am pretty sure there are others out there... In the world of SPs and MPs, one rarely funds them. For obvious and completely understandable reasons. But I have to admit that I often reflect on how hot a mutual massage session would be with a pregnant provider. Anyone else find that a hot scenario? Posted via Mobile Device

well done jafo!

Hey folks - the social group now has 59 members and some nice pictures... but we need more of both! Join the group if you love 'em teeny tiny... post pics... and perhaps reco's for ladies on CERB that fit the criteria.... :-)

My understanding from several other threads is that they are still operating, but from a new location.