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I read Angel's post and had what they call a moment of clarity. I, too, am an alcoholic. I had well over 10 years of sobriety until I relapsed a few years ago. Since then, my life has transformed into something I never imagined I would be living. Tonight I will drag my sorry ass back to AA. Pride and ego have kept me away - it's hard to admit to failure. But my life now depends on it. Thank you, Angel, for giving me the courage to take what I hope will be a first step back into the world of the living.

Thanks for sharing your story. I can imagine it's not easy admitting you've been had, even though you did nothing wrong. Sharing the story here is a service to us all and is appreciated. This is a tricky business. I can only venture to say that I suspect more women in the business get ripped off than men... There are nasty people on both sides of the transaction. It's a world of illusion - it's why we love it. Sometimes I forget that part. And in the heat of the moment, it's easy to do things we wouldn't do were out heads clear. Again, thanks for taking the time to post the story.

I've been in this scenario before as well and it was great. It does require a high comfort level - both with yourself and the other 2 parties. One of the things I enjoyed about it was watching my friend and her interact. Live porn! The whole double penetration thing didn't work out and I suspect is more of a fantasy thing than a really amazing experience. There were moments when we were both inside her that were quite intense. But the woman involved needs to call the shots at all times otherwise it's just not fun. For me, it's about 2 men providing pleasure to a woman, not a woman pleasuring two guys. But perhaps that's just me.

I use melatonin when crossing time zones and it is amazing. I travel a lot and never get jetlagged.

Oh Angel. You're about to embark on such an amazing journey. Be good to yourself, be patient, and watch the world unfold again in front of your eyes. It's not going to be easy, but nothing worth doing ever is.

I agree with RG. I totally agree with the posts in this thread about safety.... But the thread did take a bit of a turn... The OP was asking what "no restrictions" means and this morphed into a discussion of BBfS. I, for one, tend to assume that it means no restrictions within the usual parameters. There are many SPs with restrictions such as no kissing, no DATY, no digits, etc. When I read no restrictions, I read that these things are in. I also think many ladies use the term to mean Greek is on the menu. Perhaps I am being naive, but I hope I'm right. For everyone's sake.

I shave mine. Waxing doesn't really work because the skin is not tight enough to provide resistance when the wax is pulled.

You have clearly misunderstood my post. What I meant was not that we, as clients, should not understand the dangers.... But that we don't need to know the strategies providers use to mitigate these dangers. If ladies discuss how they protect themselves here, on a public board, they place themselves at greater risk. Clients need not know what measures you take, where you may (or may not) hide protective devices, etc.... Providers have the right to keep these issues confidential. Anyone who knows me knows well that I am first and foremost an advocate for providers and their right to work in a safe environment.

Can I get a hug with no restrictions? :-)

Just a reminder... if you're a particular fan of teeny tiny boobies, there is a great social group called the Itty Bitty Titty Committee... As president, I invite you all to come by, browse, and post... some of the pics in there are absolutely amazing! OA

I could not agree more - there are some elements of the profession us clients have no business knowing about and I think this may well be one of them.

I use tapatalk on my iPhone to browse this group but I've never figured out how to browse profiles. Is it possible?

I'm fully ambidextrous and really enjoy the flexibility it provides. When flying solo I tend to be a rightie but every so often I go left, and like they say, it feels like someone else! When with a partner, it allows for a bit more spontaneity... But there is always a dominant hand. Often not one of mine... :-)

Yikes. Dare I? I feel completely differently. What makes me and other decent people different from Olson is our ability to feel empathy. Sociopaths don't feel it. We do. I am not sad he is dying. At all. His cancer will provide the justice our justice system did not. But I take no pleasure in his pain. None. I am a firm believer in the death penalty. But it needs to be painless. I may not be consistent, but these are my thoughts. And I certainly don't begrudge others of theirs.

I'd have to say false. I can't imagine they'd allow that. I spent a year having sex with two sisters. The older one knew I was sleeping with her younger sister but the younger sister had no idea.

I always have a hard time ordering a "smoothie"....

Other boards are not discussed here.

This thread has totally creeped me out.

Claire dumphee from modern family. Don't ask me why.

Awww.... I am a clown.

I find it pretty easy to see if chemistry will emerge by chatting, pm-ing, emailing and reading posts and websites. The physical element of chemistry is hard to anticipate (will she find me attractive) but that is only one element of chemistry. And while men seem to be more visual by nature, I have found that women here have the ability to create chemistry based on other factors. Let's face it, not all of us (perhaps most of us) are not drop-dead gorgeous. Hats off to the women here who find ways of seeing past that and finding the beauty in all of us.

I find it incredibly hot when it happens. I never expect it - there are so many variables. But when it does, it's insanely arousing. I have been with a half dozen of women who were able to do this with me - five could only do it with my hands or toys but one could do it while having intercourse. That's even crazier. Such a gift.

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This is an interesting thread. We live in a world where the female body has become so objectified... We hear all the time about women's challenges with body image, anorexia, bulimia, etc... All very real issues relating to a patriarchal society that places unrealistic expectations on women. BUT I think we often forget that these same issues also affect men. Now, before you flame me... I am not saying that it's the same issue, or of the same magnitude. But I am saying that it's an issue for men too. When I saw this thread originally, I didn't respond because I couldn't think of a single body part of mine that I love. I look in the mirror and see a ton of 'parts' that don't stand up to the standards I see everywhere. Hair where it shouldn't be, hair missing from where it should be... Extra pounds where I wish they weren't, inches missing from where I wish they were.... Wow - this is getting heavy. Sorry. Just wanted to share and remind people that body image issues are real for both genders. Ok. So my answer is that my favorite body parts are my hands. I get a manicure every two weeks and several women have told me I have sexy hands.

I was one of those lucky guys. When I was 12, there was a 15 year old girl whose family rented the cottage next to mine. That was an intense summer. We became friends and hung out all the time. One night, after a joint family bonfire, we went for a walk. We made out (my first time) and then made a tradition of going for a long walk every night. Although she was young, she was quite advanced for her age. Needless to say, it was a summer of many firsts. Many. The only problem was that after the summer ended, I had a taste for....well.... All of it. And nobody in my peer group was sexually active. It was several years before I became sexually active again (with another person)... Footnote: 25 years later, I was at a conference in Washington. In line at the buffet lunch line... I hear "hey - are you xxxxx?". I couldn't believe it. There's no way she could have recognized me, so I asked her how in the world she knew it was me. She said she saw my name on the delegates list and had actually asked several guys if they were me. We both laughed for a while. And then went up to room 209.