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Not sure if the question was meant only for the ladies.... But I must say I enjoy a little discipline...

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I haven't been here all that long. Bu I did get my first infraction for creating an album in the wrong place. LOL I love it here. I take time each day to read, learn, laugh, sometimes cry, post, learn some more. I think more than anything else, CERB has taught me how to be a gentleman. I know it sounds silly, but the wise women of CERB, through their patient posts, thick skins, and sometimes direct posts, have taught me how to give myself permission to want pleasure and how to do so while respecting providers of all kinds. I came here to find women, but I stay here for entirely different reasons.

I think there is a real place for cameltoe. It's not the office. It's not the bus. It's not the mall. But in the more intimate spaces.... Mmmmm. Nothing drives me crazier that a nice woman in a pair of tight boyshorts with that amazing cameltoe.... Sigh.

Yeah, as I said... Communication. My problem is I'm standing at attention before I get out of my car! So, believe me... The MP needs to be careful if they want to part of the release :-) I once got to "finish" while on all 4s. That was intense.

LOL... I figured as much. I had a hard time imagining that you'd start your clients on their backs... your style seems much more seductive and erotic than that!

Janzar - best to read the posts at the top of the forum that say "sticky". You'll see the one here up top from the Moderator is pretty clear - the title even says not to post the ladies rates.... There aren't a ton of rules here - but there are two very important ones.... if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything... and... don't post the ladies' rates...

they start on their back?

It's interesting.... I have now been for more than a few massages, and while each and every one is different, I have come to anticipate and enjoy that ever-so-short time when I am on my front and the teasing begins... MPs all have their own way of managing that moment - but for me, it's what it's all about. I almost always leave a massage wishing that there was more time dedicated to that part. For me, once the flip has happened, something happens in my brain (and elsewhere) that seems to dull the excitement. I am not sure I am expressing it correctly.. but the heart rate goes down and I seem to be preparing for the ending... but for that time when I am on my front and the lady's hands are doing a little gentle (or not so gentle) exploring... that's when I am the most aroused. And that time always seems to be too short. I could lie there and enjoy that element forever. It's kind of a mood killer to walk in to an MPs studio/spa/whatever and ask that that particular element of the massage be extended... Each MP has their 'system' it seems (and they've all been great for me, BTW).. and I hate to sound like I am telling them how to do their job. As in so many threads here, I know it's all about communication.... Anyone else share the thoughts in my ramblings...?

toine - this is a great pic... thanks!

The point of my original post really had to do with all of the people who come here and moan that they can't post negative "reviews", or find them here. I respect that people see value in those other boards - but the rules here are clear and nobody is forcing anyone to be here. What I was musing about what the fact that these folks continue to log in to CERB and then moan. Why log in at all if its not what you're looking for? It's like going to a buffet restaurant and complaining to the management that you prefer table service. If a buffet isn't what you want, don't go to one. In the end though, I was trying to make a positive point - that when all is said and done, CERB is clearly a useful resource and a fun place to be for many.

Very well said, wise man.

Ever wonder why people who post complaints about CERB and the policies of the board keep coming back, reiterating their gripes in threads.... Why do they come back? Because it's a good board. They get something from being here. If that weren't the case, why would they log in, read threads, disrupt and moan... Far be it from me to say that these people are anything less than intelligent or reasonable... They just have different opinions. My point is not to insult them at all - simply to point out that even despite their opinions, they're here... A lot. Assuming they're sane, it's because they get value from logging in, reading, etc. So clearly, CERB is doing something right. Right?

I think that the recommendations here are more useful in terms of helping us avoid bad encounters than ensuring good ones. A good encounter is a function of 2 people, not one. There are so many variables. But the reco's here do help us ensure things like accuracy of pics, that many CERB members have had good experiences, etc... Not sure I'm making sense. ;-)

I, too, have been fixated on lips of late. Not sure what it is. They can be very sexy. Women who I would not normally be attracted to manage to mesmerize me with their lips. I think this is one case of hard-wiring (pardon the pun).... Healthy, sexy lips must be an indication of some biological trait men are programmed to be attracted to... At least that's my 2 cents worth. Although... Social norms have undone some of those biological imperatives... Look at the models of today - many would be considered unhealthy according to the typical cues humans have used historically to find mates. Perhaps another thread....

I also use dealticker. Great buys.

wow.... amazing... I love this group!

Forgive me if I'm wrong, but i am pretty sure discussing prices here is frowned upon....

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I would do a search on RMT and also receipts. You'll find several threads - all saying the same thing - while this may exist, you will not find it here. The risks for an RMT providing any extra services are simply too high - they would lose their license if discovered. An even if someone here did have access to an RMT who did offer extras, they would not share that info here. If you want a massage with extras, pay for it out of your money and don't expect your insurance company to pay for it. For a wide range of reasons. There are many ladies here who offer RMT-quality massages with the ending you're looking for. Good luck.

Phaedrus - as someone working in the area, I couldn't have said it better. You got it bang on.

I suspect the silence will be deafening on this thread.... First, I doubt many providers wound entertain this option.... And those that might are not at all likely to say so. I can't imagine a more YMMV scenario.

So many touching posts. When I lose perspective, I look into the eyes of my two children. They love me. Unconditionally. They see in me the things i often forget I have. And I see in them the beauty of honest love.

I like some of the special drinks but their plain old coffee doesn't do it for me. It's over-roasted in my opinion. Bridgehead is my choice in Ottawa.