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I have had this experience with three girls in my life and each time was amazingly intense. For some (myself included) it is very hot. It does take some skill (technique, really) but once it happens, it's amazing. All three women had orgasms, interestingly though, during the withdrawal process. I highly doubt there will be many SPs interested, because there is so much technique at play. You don't just push it in.... It's all about angles and patience...

I currently go to a men's spa for this but would consider it. I've never had a waxing with a happy ending! LOL

I love the term rubinesque...

This guy is a troll. "don't feed the trolls". Please.... Ignore this thread... Resist the temptation to respond....

I once had to cancel at the last minute due to poison ivy. It was terrible. And another time because I did cut my balls shaving and considered it a health risk. Both times I was able to rebook (separate women) and I gave an extra special tip in good faith (50% of the date cost). That seemed to have been appreciate and sufficient to prove my honesty...

When you sign a work email with your CERB handle. (happened today!!!)

Wow. I guess i am the only metric fan. LOL

I would be honored to have someone like you be at my funeral. Funerals are about the living, not the dead. I have been to dozens of funerals and I have never been asked who I am or why I am there unless I have gone through the family line-up. So, for all the ladies I've seen - please come when I die. :-)

I like roamingguy because he's 100% real.

Great list Angela. Of late, I've been listening to a lot of Metric. Not everyone's cup of tea, but great driving music.

I came to the board at the beginning because I realized that I needed some guidance entering into the world of escorts and massages. I learned a lot and tended to focus on Ottawa posts. Then I started reading the board through the 'latest posts' filter and found out there was a ton of wonderful discussion happening. And then I was really hooked. I read, post, and have come to see this board as a real resource to me. A family, even. I have never met anyone from the board in person other than SPs and MAs, but have come to consider some people here as friends. I know I may be limiting myself, but I won't see anyone that hasn't been well-reviewed by at least one of the 'veterans' here - I have come to know who's preferences and perspectives align well with mine. Thanks to all who have made and will continue to make this such a great resource for us.

Samantha, As I read you post, all I can say is that I only hope that when I pass, someone out there shares the same feelings as you have. I'm sorry for our loss.

Such a sweet post Luxie. We're blessed in Ottawa to have so many amazing women in the business.

Alexandra - first off, being called an angry feminist is not an insult... If I was a woman, i'd be an angry feminist too. As you so aptly point out, in many areas of life, women are not treated equally. Decrim, for me, would be major step in the right direction. As a man, I am allowed to sell my body - to lift, lug, carry, show up.... Sex should be no different. Consenting adults should be able to identify their marketable assets and charge for them. If I was a good looking man with a hot body I'd be a male escort in a heartbeat. And I believe that political views as worthless, if not expressed and exercised. Not a criticism to SA as he made it clear he would express in other ways. But I do think that those who chose to stay home and bury their heads in the sand get the society they deserve... Or secretly want. Sigh - ok. Time to stop. I'm gonna make enemies and there's been enough drama on this board this week... :-)

Interesting question. I used to not really like the 'slutty' look but I love it now... If.... And here's the if.... It is under more conservative dress. I just love meeting a woman who looks conservative on the outside but who's wearing something wild and hot beneath. I went on a date with a woman once who was dressed like she just stopped work at a government office. When the clothes came off, my breath was taken away. It revealed to me what she must have been thinking of as she got dressed that day. Not sure if I'm making sense. I guess I was just really turned on by the contrast. And yes, they were crotchless panties. But somehow, it worked. :-)

I, for one, don't think that this is all that fair. I don't think that asking questions relating to a woman's body means that the questioner is equating the woman to a "sperm socket". Let's not forget that this board is an escort review board - not strictly a social board. While not all clients have preferences, many do. And that's ok. There's a way to ask questions in a respectful manner - for certain. And for many of us, myself included, time with a provider is an honor, not a privilege. Still, it's entirely fair for a client to want to know certain things before entering into a commercial relationship. And asking should be ok. This is, in the end, a board about matching clients with providers. For many of us, it's more, but in essence, that is it's main function. Some guys use the term "kitty", others care if the "kitty" is shaved. Who are we to judge. As long as there is respect shown, even in the eye of the beholder, I don't think we should chastise. We're all different. In the end, we're all here to have fun. Sexual and sensual fun. I would hate to see this place so sanitized that we can't be open with our desires, our questions, our preferences, and our fantasies. Sorry if this is out of line - but this thread hit a nerve. I have always loved CERB partly because I can be me here... Even if "me" isn't perfect.

Meg - could not agree more. With age comes wisdom, I think. I can remember my first few times "fingering" and I shudder. :-)

Ahhhh.... Memories of screech.... I, for one, love digits.... I'm older and wise enough to understand the need for impeccable cleanliness, trimmed nails, and gentle moves... No jackhammering for me.... But I am good with my hands and love to feel myself in there.... "no digits' is a deal breaker for me for an encounter with an SP. That being said, I totally understand the restriction. Moreover, I wouldn't enjoy it at all if I knew the woman I was with was reluctant. Which is why I firmly believe that pre-appointment communication is so critical. And, while I know many of us on CERB get it, it is worth repeating. None of us guys are entitled to anything. Money or not. A session is a privilege and is always defined by the rules/limits of a provider. It's our choice whether or not to proceed once we get the 'rules', but it's always a privilege. Thanks ladies.

Fawlty towers kills me. I love it!

I have considered such a trip before but decided it was just too risky. There are so many things that can happen. Once, I was in Jamaica and bumped into friends of ours... One never really knows who one might see. And then there are all the other things that can happen - illness, accidents, etc... I'm a bit of a control freak to begin with, and obviously from my response, a worrier. While the prospect of spending a few days with a beautiful woman in a tropical paradise was a fantasy, I wasn't prepared to take the risk. If you do end up doing it, I would agree that keeping it simple is the way. I assume your SO doesn't know anyone you work with... That was another of my problems... Mine does, so I couldn't say it was a work thing in case she ever mentioned the trip to them.. Good luck sir - let us know how it goes!

CERB for sure, and for many of the reasons already mentioned. It's odd to feel one has all of these friends I do not know and will likely never meet. Surreal, almost. Sometimes even sad. I find that there are so many people on here that I wish I really knew and could spend time with. I can't be alone in that reflection, can I?

On the boardroom table at my office on a Sunday morning.

For me, the color is irrelevant. What matters is how a woman feels in her own skin (or hair). It's all about loving oneself. :-)

I like Cato because he's always willing to help.

I always find this discussion interesting. While I agree that age is not the determining factor for a good session, part of this adventure for me is being with/meeting younger women. It's just not something that would otherwise happen - it takes this particular arrangement. I have been with some ladies closer to my age, but I tend to go for the 20-30 age range. It's a large range, but still younger than I.