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Me too. I have never went to one of these, but its sounds like something worth a try.

Yes I see what your saying. I'm pretty sure having 2 jobs going at the same time, being a sp, and a mom is hard to do. For what it's worth, looking back on it she tried as hard as she could, at the time. I'm sure I would not think of every discreet measure to take. It's life and things will happen. Nobody was hurt, and we move on.

Hmm I always thought that this might hurt a lady, giving me ideas to try out thanks.

Like I am seeing this from the point of the kid. If he walked in not knowing now, but remembered later in life, it could create some problems. Anyway thanks for that I feel much better and there are a lot of different takes on this subject.

again, I might have different morals then some people but I think it was the thought of getting her personal life mixed up in her work life. I know I did not do anything wrong and sorry for the confusion but I would not want to be the person if the door was not locked and the babysitter walked right in a few mins later, what might have happened.

But I gave a few dollars to a homeless person, and they thanked me with a smile.

no man. It's more like I was asking what I should have done. I think it was just a feeling of guilt, like I mentioned before I do not know why I felt that way. It was just a ethical question really.

To start this off, this happened a little while ago, this is not anything negative, and she is not on on cerb. But I went to visit a sp, who worked out of her locale. She was a single mother. Anyways told me to come up to her room. So I got there, met her and we sat down and began talking. But about after 5 mins of that there was a knock at the door. The babysitter came, with the little kid, about age 4, who wanted to get some of the kid's toys. At that point I felt bad, I do not know why. She introduced me to her son as a friend. She was very nice about everything. The babysitter and son left after a few minutes. But we continued on like it never happened. But I'm not sure if I did the right thing. Would you have suggested something different.

hello I must not have been on for a while because the site has been changed around, and it's great. Anyways, HRM I have found also has a lot more sp's that I never knew about. Had seen one of them the other day, and wow. 2011 came in with a bang for sure.

I'm glad I am not the only one. I guess I am just easy to please with any show I watch. Probably end up watching 5 hrs of the shopping network.....

Well, to start off I am not a big TV watcher. But there have been a few nights where I have been up watching shows that have been showing in a marathon. Well in this case it was crimin.al minds, but has been different shows on other occasions. I should have been sleeping, but once I started watching it was hard to stop. Has anyone else had a experience like this?

Ya I have also wanted to see her for a while but I'm busy the times she is available. Looking for new sp's to meet and I hope to see her soon.

I also saw this. Not that it is needed I just liked it for intrests sake.

Umm no not on the receiving end. Thanks for the advice I just did not want to do something totally wrong.

Well this idea stemed from another thread I had read. Well for the longest time now I have been wanting to try Greek. But basically I am not sure if I am ready. What were your thoughts on this before you tried this.(I hope I'm not the only one) If you don't want to post you can just PM me.

Well it was a little bit graphic. Anyways I have still to try greek. I have always wanted but never tried. Not that I don't want to but I am a little bit unsure if it's for me. I find many sp's do not offer greek. Anyways maybe pm'ing a sp would help.

umm I'd like to make more friends on cerb. I'd like to try learning a new language, and this time stick with it. The biggest thing would be going to bed earlier, seeing the time now that I am writing this post.

8-)I was hoping more people would come to cerb...... did not know that they would come by the boat full.

Well I saw her ads on a different site months ago, where she was visiting from ontario. But now it looks like she has moved here. I am also wondering. Hmm maybe a reco is in order.:-)

Have not really been in this hobby for the last little bit, and this thread showed me how looking for sp's is going to change. Anyway I'm back and always looking for writing more reco's, that will help you with questions like these.:-D

Thanks, I never visted a SP who needed reco's from another SP, but now I know what to do. But as stated before you sort of fall into your own pre visit procedures like showering. I'm sure all this will let you have a amazing time with the SP or your choice. The SP's that are in, and visit Halifax are amazing and I have a few good ones you may want to see. PM me. Have fun!

Personally I never had anyone cancel on me. But as I see it some people like relish on their hotdogs and some people don't. It's one of those cases that you could be looking for something, that others might not of. I think this this is what the reviews are made of. You will not see something bad about a SP, only what the person liked. But maybe the SP might have not met those certain things that you were looking for in your appointment.

I think if this was any other profession their would be some sort of legal action to this. But again I don't know what it's like to be a SP, so I don't really know what it feels like. I'm sorry this happened to you. Never happened to me but I think leaving a phone or something while you go to get the money is a great idea. I have actually had the opposite experience I was once with a SP, left more money then I thought I gave her and she told me about it. I was shocked, and that's when I relized the trust that you can build up with a SP is so important.