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has anyone been by the playmate now that Montreal Road is fully open?

The thing with screening is that it is I think a catch 22. Most screening at this point in time comes from the service provider where she/he may ask to provide references and id checks. There in lies two problems. Not all service providers are comfortable being used as references in this industry; it all depends on their comfort level. Also like one the previous posts, what if SP used as reference flakes, ghosts or even blocks your number as they are uncomfortable knowing you are using another SP. The more SP's seen the more health risks are possible to each SP involved. Sometimes in this case, ignorance is bliss. That and what happens if the SP requesting the references are unhappy with the references as they don't know/trust/etc. the SP's referenced. Then what? Ask for more references? It's not like hobbyists keep a big list of references. Also SP contact information is very unreliable. SP's change their numbers all the time for all sorts of reasons. Then the second problem here is providing ID. Some people are in the hobby being completely anonymous. Providing valid ID immediately stops that. It is the same reason SP's almost never use their actual names for the services they are providing. If SP's don't need to provide valid ID, then why should the client. And there in lies the rub. What if the client wants the exact same screening level as the SP. Will the SP be willing to do that as well (i.e. providing valid ID, references). There is inherent risks involved from both sides of the hobbyist/SP relationship. The hobbyist looks at an ad and tries to pic a SP that they think will be a good possibility, someone that won't scam them of money they worked hard for and they can have a good service delivered. But every hobbyist knows and most likely has experienced being scammed by the SP. Stories of threats from friends, surprise pimps, boyfriends, and cops, forcing the hobbyist out after the SP has taken the money without any service is rampant; in some cases, the stories are so bad, that the hobbyist is happy losing the money cause they got out with losing their life. These types of encounters happen all the time because all the hobbyist has to make the decision is a simple ad; there is no confirmation of character before actually meeting for the first time. So okay, the hobbyist agrees and gives you the references and ID's to your satisfaction. What if the hobbyist says okay can you provide all the information I gave you for screening questions? Would you be willing to provide references from fellow SP's? What if the hobbyist has never heard of or even seen the SP's you have referenced? Would you provide others? Would you be willing to show your client your valid ID? Safety and healthiness is always going to be an issue in the SP/hobbyist relationship. In an ideal world, everyone would be 100% truthful and sincere. But everyone knows that is not going to happen. It all starts at the level of the name. SP's will make a name they can use that is different from their birth certificate names to keep what they do anonymous from their loved ones and families. Likewise the hobbyist, will likely be doing the same thing. Character judgement, is a two way street; as I said, all the hobbyist has to select an SP is the ad that the SP puts out. If the hobbyist provides an equivalent, is that sufficient for the SP as screening (most likely not). I don't know if there is a solution for this situation that is acceptable to both parties involved.. Looking forward to see what other think.

So you had slightly better luck than I did @r__d. The last time I went... there was about 30 guys and 1 brave tiny dancer. She was smoking hot slender and barely 5' 2, but she was never out of the private dance cubicles for more than a minute before guys came to see her. She probably made a killing though.

Around what time did you go @r__d? Last two times i went the selection was abysmal.

Has the playmate been open through this last lockdown?

Carmella is no longer club alpha roster.....

I think the fact thst barefax is open so damn late in the evening is helping the playmate get more customers.... also the last time i went..... masks were not on all the time.... hard to drink beer with your mask on..... can't say what mask status is the champagne room as i did not go for a dance with anyone...

I think the fact thst barefax is open so damn late in the evening is helping the playmate get more customers....

Dropped by the Barefax last week...i went slightly on the earlier side..... there were very few dancers... only 3 in fact.... 2 simply stayed at the bar talking to the bar tender... 1 sat in a corner eating dinner with one of the bouncers..... so it was dead..... so I left..... more annoying was they were charging $9 coat check fee.... is that normal for barefax..... seems quite high...

man... that is so late for an opening.... i like going in the day times.

Carmella working at Club Alpha must be a new thing.... and it looks like her hours at Alpha are co-ordinated with the hours when Barefax is open.

Sucks to here that happened.... and thanks for the warning.... but dude... never carry your SIN card anywhere.... memorize the number. With your SIN Card, you can go to Service Canada and replace all you ID cards (Drivers License, Health Card and more critically your passport) pretty much no questions asked... and since SIN cards do not have a photo there is little scrutinization.... leave your SIN card at home.... if anyone needs to see the actual card (which is unlikely) make a special trip to with the card to there person that needs to see it... and make sure it never leaves your line of sight...

which girls are available at nuden these days.... i haven't seen anyone post any names recently....

NEVER PAY UP FRONT BEFORE HOBBYING..... THAT IS ONE OF THE TOP 5 RULES.....

I've only ever been to Barefax about 5 times... of those 5 times... only 2 times did any of the girls actively approach me.... and then of those 2 times, one just came up and said "you've been here a while... let's go upstairs"..... I said no thanks and got up and left after that one and have not returned since.... I like to have a girl sit and talk to me a bit... get to know them... see if we click... before taking them "upstairs".... Also on those 5 visits, 2 of those visits, the bartender, waitresses and the shooter girl did not approach me.... I had always thought that it almost mandatory to not have a drink of some at all times during a stay at a strip club.... but apparently not the case at Barefax...