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    I am with Megan on this too, I am not sure of the point here.LOL, I feel silly. But What i do know is that in a discussion there is a proper way to state an argument that is not offensive. In philosophy 101, you learn how to form a proper argument, with at least 2 premises to back up your statement. Never does it involve insulting the other perspective. A discussion is ment for all to voice opinion and to learn other perspective's. I sometimes do enjoy being tested and to partake in a friendly argument, so long as all parties are respected. I think it gives us a chance to re-affirm out belief's, perspectives, and challenges us to either stick to what we belief or allows us to become more open-minded to another's way of thinking. personally I think it would be a bore if we all agreed all the time.lol.
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    What I have read has put tears in my eyes! Listen to the ladies that have responded here, I think they have nailed it on the nose for you. Sometimes we do not find "family" within our bloodlines but threw our friends. If anyone is toxic to my life, I will let them go. It will be a burden that she will carry in her conscience and in her soul if she chooses to cut you out. Do not let her bring you down. Rise above this, and feel proud of the mother you have become! My heart goes out to you, and will wish all good things for you!
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    Thanks Pistolpete and Suburb1, I appreciate your information for sure! I always offer hand sanitizer before and after I am with someone, it is just good practice! You cant avoid getting sick all the time either, it is how we build resistance. This discussion was brought to the board to express my disapproval with people who are arriving at my door sick. Thank fully I have been taking my vitamin c, and have echinacea ( immune support) and when I thought that I was coming down with something I would take it. It did work for me, but then I got a terrible flu. I felt it come on like a ton of bricks. A few days later I was speaking to someone whom I has spent time with just the day before, and without them noticing they admitted that they had the flu just a few day's ago! I told him how inconsiderate this was, and did he not know you are contagious for up to 4days! We have a responsibility to each other to control the spread of these awful virus's and to look after our health.
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    http://askville.amazon.com/flu-virus-transmitted-sexual-intercourse-present-body-fluids/AnswerViewer.do?requestId=742093 This is a link I found, that will clear up a lot of confusion pertaining to Flu virus's and sexual activity. Hope this helps?
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    After reading these responses, and after careful consideration. I think the way to go about this for me, is to not offer kissing to just anyone. I may decide to do it on a case by case approach. There have been times when I have stated that I offer kissing, then they arrive and have noticed once I got close that they have not freshly brushed their teeth, or chewed gum etc...I need a clean mouth to kiss. But where as I have already stated that I offer it as a part of my GFE, feel obligated to do so. I think my responds to the question " do you kiss" will be....." If the connection is there, and I feel you have properly taken care of your oral hygiene. That way I hope it will not stir up an uncomfortable position for the 2 of us. Also, I have not had a flu shot, so now, Yes I think I will have to do that. and one more question to put out there, does antibacterial mouthwash cut your risk down during the flu season?
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    I have always taken good care of my health. Eat well, take vitamins,practice safe sex,and try to stay active. I have been a service provider for a few years, but this is the first year I have offered GFE service( which does include kissing). Truthfully a few years ago if you ask me to kiss you I simply just would say no. And when I was asked why I would respond "cause I dont want to catch every cold, flu, and cold sore's that are going around" I am starting to feel the same way, now, I love to kiss as well. But I seem to paying the price now. Every darn flu/cold that comes in town I seem to catch! I am worried about getting cold sore's as well, never had one, and don't want it! So what is the solution? Do I stop kissing?:( I would like to think in this day and age we would have respect and the common knowledge to cancel appointments when we may have been in contact with a flu virus/colds/cold sore's. Even if someone in your household is sick, that is still risky. Also let's consider other people in my own personal life, such as my own mother.If she were to come in contact with some of these viruses it could kill her. This also applies to the ladies in the industry. We can not work when we are sick! We also have to consider our clients families health. I have even had some instances of me being sick and would need to cancel my appt and would get a response," Oh, well are you really that sick, cant you just...." Well this is very stupid! Cause even if I can make it threw the appointment, you are still bringing the virus home to your family! I want to know how are you feeling about this scenario? SP and hobbyist alike. How can we make this a healthier community? Does anyone else have concerns about this? And also, perhaps someone can shed some light on the facts of flu virus's and sexual activity?Thanks for taking the time to read this, looking forward to your input.
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    Ahhhh, well said Scotthecunuck! If we all could be so understanding! You have stated all the same thoughts that I had. And Cathy, you are so right, we cant run like a circus! For the same reasons as you, I tend to stick to my homebase. I am planning my trip to Ottawa for first time. I have advertised for 3 weeks, so hope not to come up with the same "excuses" as I encounter when traveling within NB. Any ladies needing info on visiting NB, or specifically Fredericton, I would be more than happy to help you!
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    I like the way you think Cathy. It is nice to see this level of respect between us ladies, especially when traveling! I am most often here in Fredericton, and when here I do tend to charge less then as when I am traveling. Only makes sense. I find I will be requested to visit in Moncton, and then I get there and only a couple will end up meeting me. Then I will come home I will have these same people saying " oh I missed you, when will you be back?" The same happens in Saint John. So sometimes I wounder if traveling is the way to go? But of course I will still travel, it keeps things interesting. So I am very interested in the hearing the outcome of this poll, it will help us to know how we all can make this work for everyone!
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    Nope, no respect! You should find better roommates, or move out. It is not worth the stress. It is so hard to find good roommates! I know that I do much better on my own, good luck!
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    Yes Blue Nuit was the first for me, but I also was "playing" with neighborhood girls in the long grass of a feild. I was about 8-9 then, lol.
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    This has happened on a number of occasions to me as well. Sometimes, I am the one who forgets as well! I never worry about it when it happens. There have been times they would leave and either of us even notices till they are long gone down the road. I have never had anyone on purpose do this to me, thankfully! I trust my clientel, I have them visit me at home. Perhaps the chemistry was just so good, the gift had slipped our mind, and that is a good thing! I simply e-mail, or PM and remind them. But yes, it is uncomfortable to have to ask for it. Also uncomfortable for them too I would Imagine. But we are only human and mistakes happen.
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    Thank you so much for such a thoughtful letter. I most definitely remain as a solid shoulder for her to lean on. I hope that she will reach out in return and use me for support. In this life, we really only have a few true friends, and I plan to be that friend! thanks, xoxo
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    Oh Great! Thank you all for clearing that up! I thought so, just wanted conformation before making the mistake. Thanks Megan for the suggestion to keep the PM for the future disputes about it.
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    I just joined your Group! Thanks, and hope to meet all of you great ladies and gents!
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    I am always asked by people to "let me know when I am in town" But is this allowed as we are not suppose to use PM for advertising? Is this allowed or not?
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    Thank you Roaminguy! I enjoyed this essay very much. Your observation is so true!
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    Wow! Thank you! That is so sweet! You are wonderful for posting this, xoxo
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    Does it matter really what you call it? The important thing is you had a good time! Hehehe
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    It is not a deal breaker for me if you do not have a phone, but, should you get held up on your way to see me, I have a 15min window for you to be late, then your appt goes to the next one in line. We require perfect timing when scheduling appt.So that we can insure discretion. Cant have ppl showing up late and expect me to not have the next one arrive to fill your time slot. I would suggest having a cell, yes.
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    Is there an editor?
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    I recently had an experience with my best GF. She was faced with decision. In her situation, having a child would not be good for her future. Her Birth control failed and she became pregnant with a guy she only dated 3 times! She has not yet finished her education, the guy took off, her parents are not a source of financial support, and is currently living on social income. When she asked what should she do, for me this was a no brainer! I offered to her to bring her to the clinic, I would even pay for it. Then she went to her family, they have convinced her to give the baby up for adoption. Which I am not sure that she will be able to. I was upset with her family, because my friend suffers from a very sever depression. She became so sad, she could not even get up for a shower! So sick, could not keep food down.All the while I was taking care of her. I spoke to her family and voiced my concern for her and said " I don't think a girl with this much depression was in any shape to make this decision to carry a child then give it up." I was asking myself " where is her family now?" As she sits there not able to eat, shower or even hurts to smile? When I asked her one more time if she wanted my help, she said " she doesn't have the conscience to abort it" I respect that, but, how can you have the conscience to bring this child here with no way to raise it? And What about YOU, the one that is here now, living! So yes, I am pro-choice! I feel sad for those girls that feel pressured to keep the child! On the flip side, I do not agree with abortion being a form of birth control either.
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    Studio 110 by Sophia commented on Carley Chase's gallery image in Converted Albums

    This is my favorite! very nice work!xoxo
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    Depends, what is fun for you?
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    Should we have a new discussion on who has dogs? I have meet others too! Too cool! I am so thankful for such support from Ottawa in such a short time! See ladies, this is how we do it! Thanks. Additional Comments: Thank you Ottawa! Was not expecting to receive reply so quickly! So looks like I have narrowed it down to 2. Let you all know in about a week, again Thanks, xoxo
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    Trip canceled to Saint John. Sorry fella's but I have come down with a flu. Amelia will no longer be available, she was only here a short time. So, for those who have met us thank you truly! I should be in fine form by Friday. xoxo
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