Studio 110 by Sophia

No MOD's were working on things. Not sure what, but they did say this in shout box a few times.

These are so excellent and hope others are enjoying reading an learning a bit of what it takes to become an established and safe provider:) Thanks ladies! I am going to add this... when it comes to endless txt-athons, simply ask them to voice call you. If they actually voice call from unblocked number, chances are they are looking for real companionship. If not, they tend to either be too nervous or not feeling ready to book or they are just WOT ( waste of time ) People who wont call usually are hiding behind a txt/email.

Hmmmm, can you share your recipe, or at least what goes into this dish? Sounds interesting and I am tired of regular pork!

I hope this is the right section for this thread. Maybe should be in new to this section? I want to start this thread for new and upcoming ladies to the industry. With this community being an excellent source of information, us providers who are experienced and have learned the hard way we can share our words of wisdom to those who are just beginning their business:) So post what you have learned over the years and let's help our lady friends get started in right direction:) I will begin with this word: Investments for ads. The cheapest investment is your effort and time you put in on your advertisements. You may not have much cash in the beginning to invest in expensive ads, photo's and search engines. But, by putting a real effort into making your ads well written ( IE: Do not use "i" use the proper "I"), fun and enticing is a good start. Make it interesting with theme, but still be yourself. What is that makes you amazing? Learn the tools that are available. Maybe write yourself a few good ads that you can copy paste, add or subtract from. Put time into building your own site. This will eliminate the need of hiring or bartering off for skills. There are so many web site builders are easy to use. Also for posting your ads, find reliable places such as CERB, EC, etc...Make sure the site you use reflects your standards. If using a paid classified ad such as BP and you only have a small budget, post them on the pay days or buy a month package. Read, watch and learn from other ladies. See what is it that YOU like about them, BUT do not copy them! Just ask yourself, why do I like this ad? This photo? Then see if it is within your means. Also more sites you use, the easier it is to find you in google searches. Hope other ladies will add to this? What is the next major step for new business ladies should consider?

Hey there!! Hope you make yourself comfortable in our community! Have fun, looking forward to getting to know you more:)

Justice Banks is a fun and super lady! She also has her profile here. I worked many duo's and 4 hand massage with her. She doesn't put on an act, she is herself in every session. Inked Goddess I call her, lol...she has beautiful ink work that only she could pull off! She has not been here very long, so no reco's have been made yet. I suggest to make contact with her, I am sure she will answer any questions you may have:)

So from time to time I find myself saying something that just completely turns out to be dirty! Like.... I like my meat with the bone in! or at the mechanics.... Is that all inclusive? What have you said lately that makes you laugh on the inside while no one knows why?

I am cheating on my usual gourmet style of cooking... chicken breast (bone in skin on) in " so juicy" in a bag:) wow....did that somehow sound sexy???

I think there is a reco for them, have you read it? Perhaps PM the Gent who wrote the reco?

Ok I am not arguing with you but need to point this statement out..... In the example I gave, and have many more like it.... In MY example, the lady is white, but had a Black BF, therefore did not want to make herself available to others in the community who may know her and her BF??? So how is SHE raciest for stating " no black men please?" Your statement is suggesting that any lady who decides to not see a particular race is hiding behind " I am not racist but..." Well what about the lady who IS east Indian, Arabic or Black? Are they too raciest against their own???? And I agree, this is a dead horse!

I wanted to bring this thread back up as I see much improvement in how much easier it has been! I have noticed that many more potential friends have actually been reading sites and making it so much easier to book your special time together! Have other ladies noticed this? It has taken out the unnecessary banter back and forth on endless texting:) And keeping you informed without risking any issues for details:)

Ok I was going to stay away from this thread, but after reading this I feel I need to speak up. At the end of the day no matter what the reason, if a provider is not comfortable with a particular race ( at times even age groups ) then there is no point to booking with that client as it will make for a very uncomfortable experience and resulting in an awkward session for both parties. Do we all not want to have connection and chemistry?? Do you not want A genuine interest, not forced and faked? Also, if a provider chooses not to see a particular race or age group and by putting it on her web site or ads, then it is eliminating the time wasted and being rejected on your enquiry. I would say these are preferences and not racism. As shown in the example below.... I know a lady who LOVES to be with black men personally, but as for working NO. This is because we are in a very small town and for her to accept black clients it is increasing her chances of "outing" herself to their own group of friends. SHE IS NO WAY raciest.

WOW, that would have been scary! Another fine example of how this new law is going to give hobbyist the short end of the stick:( More ladies will be able to use "cop calling" as a scare tactic. Gent's may want to start asking for a reference for a new lady by an established provider as a safety measure.

Happy Birthday handsome! Another year old, another year sexier! xoox

Never be shy to txt :) xoxoxo

ON CERB!! hehehhee, So, I just looked at my join date, 10-28-2010. Now thinking back wow a lot has happened in that time. I have meet so many Ladies and Gent's that you all make my life so much richer then otherwise. I love my community of friends and lovers. The other day, CERB was down for a day, and it made me notice how much CERB means to my daily life. Not just in a marketing way, but knowing there are friends out there near and far that can really pick my spirit up when I need it. Also keeping me "in check" when naughty lol.. Special thanks to MOD's for all their hard work too! The time they spend on this site must be endless! Anyways, feeling nostalgic today lol...and just wanted to say Thank you to everyone who has made these 4 years fly by:) xoxo

Slow cooker Chicken, in hoisin sauce, white rice and broccoli") Smells so yummy!

Yes I feel it is a glitch too, as I did try again with my original email that I used in my beginning days here and still didn't work. Perhaps PM MOD and attach these 2 threads to your PM? If you need to have a new profile, ask them to merg it and just add an extra character like..02...or ONT...or whatever suits you? And Then never forget your password, lol..till this issue is resolved? I dunno, best of luck!

I had the same issue!! Here is a link to what took place. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=195001

Exactly!!! Case in point for me was a weird occasion, I am very diligent on my phone charging etc....BUT....there are times like this where it was out my control . On an ordinary day if my battery failed me would only be a few min difference I would have txt you saying " oopsy call back" But if You call to confirm, and still no answer in about 20 min from that time, best not to just show up as you may not know what you are walking into. Like the scenarios I gave as examples:( In that case best to wait till she reaches you again with an explanation. Now that provider, if she is professional will have had contacted you VIA PM or whatever with an explanation.

My list mainly is nicknames, but do have Mike's, Bob's and Dan's. Whether or not that is their real name, I would not know. But that is the name they give me so I go with that. Even if it is their real name, no worries because our txt or email history is " hello are you free at noon today" No way of knowing what that means... free for a dog grooming( my other job), or free for a coffee, etc.. Obviously these are my regulars so not many notes are needed to remember the what and who's. For new clients, I only use a nick name after I have spent time with them, that way I know they have visited me at least once and do not need to screen them all over again. Nicknames will contain certain details, much like we have already read here in this thread " guy with beard" " nice guy, see again!" ..." very bad breath, no kiss but nice" lol But when screening a new client, I do have certain questions that need to be answered first, for my safety. Besides, doesn't make you feel more appreciated when we remember the fine details?

What??? My booking protocols always has been one hour ( or 30 min )before arriving to call to make sure nothing has gone wrong. Getting a blown out tire is not something I could control, as well as my phone going dead while waiting for my tow truck. I didn't BLAM him for anything, and HE certainly agrees that the one hour confirmation is wise as this case in point shows! YES when a person books 1-2 weeks in advanced, I also like to touch base again before the day, especially if traveling. That way he knows he still going to be in the clear and that nothing went wrong in my travels. He did not have to pay a deposit, so that is not a concern. But if he had, then I would send him his deposit back! Plus I sent him a PM as soon as I got home. He was concerned for me, and was worried as he knew I never normally do that. He was happy that I never got hurt or in accident. Frankly, I feel you have no need to put me down the way you have in your post. I think your anger is misplaced. As for your outrageous break down of my confirmation methods, my dentist, hair salon, eye doctors and all other professional business will confirm with me the day before when the appointment has been made weeks in advanced...hmmmm, seems like a good idea! Lots can change in 2 weeks or a months time. Just an added thought: without his final confirmation being answered, and taking the chance to just arrive, who knows what he is walking into? There could have been an ambulance call, or I had to make a call to police ...or anything. Would you want to arrive into a situation like that?

BUT... I do not mind talking about sexier details with someone. But yet wont offer a menu, as maybe not everyone will get the exact services and do not want to commit to an agreement if they arrive less then ..hmmm desirable ( as in hygiene, manners, etc) Also so endless amount of txt for sexy chats, well that is a whole other issue , lol What you may think is prudish, others think are safe for you as a person enquiring...... and us a lady who is booking you. We have a certain level of discretion for both our benefits. So for particulars, I do agree some certain things should be discussed such as what each other like/dislike in an encounter. But for both peoples piece of mind, perhaps you should voice call and in a new lady in business situation, wait till you visit?

Prime Roast beef! YUM cant wait, it is warming on my counter....love my meat! hahaha