gqsleeman

This would absolutely be geared as a social exchange! Time and place for anything else ...and there are a number of hotels nearby if need be. Additional Comments: A number of hotels nearby ...yard is 6,000 sq ft but tents would prob not be a good idea lol

Good points. - I have two dogs that would take care of keeping the bedrooms off limits. (as well as a gate at the stairs) - There's a mailing list for my block in which I can let people know there will be a party. As long as it's moved into the house at a reasonable hour, no one typically has a problem. - Discretion, that's a tough one. You're right about eaves dropping ..I'm in a corner lot with a large backyard but it can echo at night!

Some folks have replied privately and suggested the same. That would also help in that I don't know many folks on here myself. ;-)

Good point ...but as long as it didn't break out into an orgy in my backyard, no one will care. It's a young neighborhood.

Hey all, I've got a big backyard project going on at the moment (deck, stone patio & bar) with an above ground pool and a killer natural gas grill. The idea of offering my pad up for a social event popped into my head. (I'm a young bachelor, parties are the norm at my place). That crazy/inappropriate suggestion? I've only attended one social at xmas and had a good time so I figure why not? Appreciate any feedback. Cheers, Sleeman

I'm sure every situation is different ...but I couldn't see myself asking a SP to turn her life upside down for me. You're basically asking for them to dismiss both their independence and livelihood. If I happened to connect with one in which the relationship moved beyond the boundaries of this service industry, I would have to accept what she does upfront. I'll admit, that would be a tough thing for me personally ...but I would either accept that reality or remain friends and move on. If at some point she were to establish her independence in some other fashion and decided it was right to move on, a whole other matter.

Will be there about 8'ish ...and ticket purchased already. )

Met Shay earlier this week. Yes, she is the bomb. Plus she's an Als fan ...bonus marks. ;-)

Sent you a PM. Couldn't help it, you're a fellow dog lover. :-)

Have a fair number of ladies shown interest? (no offence to my male compatriots on cerb but, well you know ;-) ) Sounds like fun!