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It's really too bad that you will never see her again considering the excellent service you received. It's too bad because if she gave you such fantastic service, this is the place to share that with.. Sharing is caring! For Paradise Spa and Tanning for instance, "win win" Winning! Winning for clients to know la creme de la creme, winning for Spas like Paradise to know who to hire and winning for girls to know who they work with. I have to say, there are two sides to this.. There are times when the clients tells you "This is the best massage I have ever had, I can't thank you enough" Some go on about the fantastic service, how great I am ect.. some mention CERB, like the place we met ON A REVIEW BOARD!!! Sooo Apex, what I'm trying to say is, if this is what happened, before she asked you for the review.. Well, then that should have been expected. I think in that case, the case when a client tells me I am his new favorite, best hands ever.. ect.. I may say something along the lines of "spread the word", No, I haven't.. but I can see this. Try not to be to harsh, she sounds like she did a great job and is worth repeating..and even though you have held back her name, you have indeed given her a review, knowing it or not

I think that dressing provocatively or "big" is a way of getting attention and have people ask questions, get's attention and a point across. The bigger the better, stand out and have fun. When we have gay pride "parade", tonnes of people dress up, but every gay person I know doesn't dress like this, but will have fun for prides sake

ORGASMA! Or Orgasma Girl! Giving explosive orgasims one by one! In the heat of the moment you would yell "OH ORGASMA GIRL YES YES YES"! :milleunenuit:

This is the Capital of Canada, we will SlutWalk, proudly! On a side note, it really is too bad that some don't feel the relevance in SlutWalk Ottawa. I am going to try my best to stay positive and see that side as well, and as much as this is a forum of opinions and reviews we share..Some are up for discussion and some like this one should be supported in a positive light and left at that. SlutWalk, is a serious and meaningful event for everyone. See you there

Just in case you didn't see the Toronto Slutwalk post I copied this from Facebook Can't get to SlutWalk Toronto? Me either! Still want to SlutWalk? Me, too! So let's meet at the Women's Monument in Minto Park, a week after our fellow SlutWalkers in Toronto, at the same time as our Solidarity SlutWalkers in London, and tell the people of Ottawa, WE'VE HAD ENOUGH! It's time to reclaim the word "slut" and end "slut-shaming". No one should never be ashamed of their sexuality and desire for sexual contact, either fo...r pleasure or for work. NO MORE VICTIM BLAMING! No one asks for sexual assault. Never, ever is there any justification for unwanted sexual attention or contact by another human being. A person's sexual history is not justification for sexual assault, and it should never be used to try and get a sexual predator off the hook. NO MORE SEXUAL ASSAULT! 1:30 PM - meet at the Women's Monument in Minto Park. We will be writing letters and making posters to leave for community members and those entering or exiting the court house to see. There will be some fabulous speakers to inspire our solutions to end sexual assault. CALLING-OUT INJUSTICE! SlutWalk Ottawa is excited to open up space to address the injustices carried out by all aspects of our "justice" system. We invite community members to bring attention to the ways in which the police, the courts, media, and our elected officials propagate violence and fail to appropriately recognize their complicity in systems of oppression. 2:00 PM - walk to the Provincial Courts on Elgin Street and let our judges, juries, lawyers, everyone know we will want more convictions and harsher punishments for rapists and sexual predators! After we finish our walk, we invite all participants to come mingle at the Bridgehead at 282 Elgin Street to share experiences and network. You can find the original event, SlutWalk Toronto, here: http://www.facebook.com/SlutWalkToronto?ref=ts But remember, even if you can't make it,Slutwalk proudly everyday

Oh my gosh! I'm so so sorry to hear this. I feel for the family of this girl. This is so tragic. I'm so so sorry

Social Life? Still WINNING!!!

Not many people like me because of it, to be honest. Some hear rumors about me and never talk to me again. But hey, I'm so glad these people are out of my life, it's like a filter. I don't want people like that in my life, people that judge me or will only like me because of status, education, work.. I had too much of that being a single teenage Mom-

How did I get into the business..Here we go. I love this business.. My brief story may sound sad-ish, but turns out great! I had a bad boyfriend when I was a teenager, I was trapped. He would have sex with me. A year and a half later, at Cheo, I was getting tests for Cancer and such(long story), they found a baby, I was pregnant. My father was supportive of the pregnancy and told me to keep the child because this is what God planned for me. My parents promised me a easy life, I would never have to worry and everything would be taken care of, as long as I raise this child as my own and welcome him into the family. When my son was born, my parents supported me. They let me pick where I wanted to live, paid for everything. I was taught to accept this gift I was given, from God, and to be happy. My dad died when I was 18. I did the only thing I could do, go to school and carry on. My mother was a mess. One day she called me and told me she was no longer going to support me, she was tired, and that she was leaving the Country the next day to live her life and I was on my own. It was then, that second that I realized all the love I was being taught and given from my parents, I never learned to take care of myself or even how to do groceries. Love wasn't enough. Between my living expenses from my kick ass Condo, food, transportation, school costs and a baby.. I wouldn't be able to survive two weeks without my Mom's help. I was swimming in the basement of my building with a girl that lived there when her "boss" stopped in to talk to her. I got a phone call that night from the girl I was swimming with, she told me her boss said I should come in to work for her, she liked me. She explained what she did for a living..that massage wasn't just massage. I never even knew anything about this industry other than Bluenuit on TV late at night. I had little to no experience with boys let alone men and still hadn't given my first blow job. I still remember my first massage, when I took off my shirt, I had on my Saint Theresa necklace (made of cloth and two pictures), he touched it and asked what it was and I remember telling him that if I die, as long as I am wearing it I will go straight to heaven. This industry taught me how to live and to survive. I have so much fun. If it wasn't for this industry I have no clue where I would be or where my son would be. I have met my soul mate( a client) and lasting friendships that never judge me. I have done drugs and had lot's of fun doing them, but I wasn't influenced by the industry to do them. I'm glad for this industry. I found something along the line, I found myself. I survived. Oh I just remembered something about stereotypes - when I was about 15, I asked my parents for a cell phone, they told me no, that only pimps and drug dealers have them- a year later they got me a pager, I still have it.

These are great replies. It's amazing what some can share with others close to them. It's nice to hear that someone would love you no matter what choices one makes. When it comes to acquaintances, if they found out, I could care less, I don't go out of my way to hide what I do for them because it is a part of me and a part of who I am as an individual. I couldn't tell my family. My snob-ish family lol. They would disown me. I guess that's why I question "family values + loyalty" at what point can I consider family members as humans. Seriously, I myself would never be apart of something that I would feel I had to hide who I am and what I do, I do not strive for the acceptance of others and do not fear the loss of companionship because of my choices and such, but when it comes to family, it just seems like I have to follow the code. Funny though how it kinda contradicts itself sometimes. For instance, "Love your family, and put them first" but really it's "Love your family and put them first, be like us, do as we say, and shut up" Silly random thought now.. I really feel like telling my family, like I have nothing to loose except the acceptance of far then perfect people themselves being someone/something they aren't. If I am cast out, I should probably consider myself lucky if you know what I mean. Another random thought, my kitty is in heat- Dammit!, she's annoying..good thing she's cute.

OMG! Yes, I totally know that feeling, now I wonder how many girls have had clients approach them in public and call them by their work name or just talking to them at all?? I don't mind a brief encounter saying hi (if we are both alone) but, it's when they don't realize I have someone with me or when a very public place like a Timmies, in line, asking to book an appointment! I do know this.. Almost EVERYWHERE I go, there is a client..Out with my kids, at the park, pool.., restaurants, bars, movies..my kids Catholic school plays, doctors office, hospital...It's alright, I'm used to seeing everyone and besides it's part of the fun of having a secret world..But I still can't get the hang of when clients cross that line into my life in another way like being the parents of my kids friends or a teacher or my HUSBANDS UNCLE!!!!

So droll [vague hand wave] LIKE

After all your awesome replies to my situation with my mother, and thank you by the way... I thought about something while reading them that made me really curious... I want to know if your parents know what you do for a living? Or if you are a client, same thing, do they know what you do in your spare time? Have you told them, if so how? Did you get busted someway? Have any clients been busted by their woman? So Curious. Myself, I have never admitted to anything. My dad died before I started and I'm sure my Mom probably knows..One time she said "What am I supposed to tell people, my daughter works in a massage parlor?" Once, I was grocery shopping with my Mom, and a Client saw me..true story, he actually came up to me and started hugging me and kissing my face and wouldn't let me go. My Mom came up and I "introduced" them (OMG!!) He told her that she has a lovely beautiful daughter and that he loves me, and kept squeezing me (OMG!!OMG!!) That's the closest I've come to getting busted, oh ya and then he asked me to come by his place that night!!!! You? :)

I am going to add to it and write more, I think we should do it. Men don't get enough credit. They can be sweet and sensitive, actually, it wasn't until I started in this industry that I found respect for men that I lacked before. If any ladies want to review the MAN (Client), we should, it'll be fun and I think it could be popular. I know I would read them.

Thank you thanks you for all your impute, it means a lot to me. And for once, I am out of words. :)

My Mother told me yesterday that she has excluded me from her will. Apparently, I haven't become that doctor she wanted me to. I really don't understand this. I am a parent, as many of us are. I will raise my children as best as I can and guide them to do the best they can, know right from wrong and be good people. I want them to be them. I will be proud of them of who they are, not what they are. Make no mistake, this has nothing to do with money. This woman has already planned to cut me off after death because I haven't become what she has wanted me to become. I chose motherhood instead. She even added that in a few years she can change her will but that depends on me. Now, is it really that bad of me to want nothing to do with her? Family may be family, but to what extent should my loyalty be? Should I accept this and carry on with Sunday night dinners with someone that I feel doesn't even like me because I feel I wouldn't have any respect for myself. Does anyone else have troubles with their parents? Do I just cut her off and never call her again?

I would walk in stark naked with a straight face and ask my roommate" Is this tonight's starlet? When are you going to be done, I'd like my turn soon." Or..One I've done on my friend that invited me over and disappeared to the bedroom, making obvious sex noises, so I grabbed a camera, walked right in and took some pictures, and another time, same girl, different guy.. I walked in, he had her on the edge of the bed and his back was turned to me, I sneaked up, grabbed his hips yelled "oh baby, yes, this is what I'm talking about" and proceeded to dry hump his ass as if I was doing him doggy style. They got a little miffed, but in my defense I said "If you want to have loud over zealous sex (knowing I can hear you), you'd go to his place or obviously you were inviting me".

Thanks guys! I'm blushing.. I will make sure to add more very soon!

Thanks Winnipegcub. That's an awesome idea about a guy advertising, like a client advertising that he is a good client? LOL, I totally would if i were a client. :)

Oh the great ancient art of squirting . If only I could master this one, AND be allergic to diamonds, then and only then would I be the perfect woman.