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If you ever run into that problem again you can use your computer's zoom function which can be found by clicking the settings icon (those 3 lines) in the top right of your browser. Just zoom out to 75% or 50% or whatever brings the image to a viewable size to view the images and then go back to 100% when you're finished.

I can appreciate you guys wanting to be cautious and I guess I was a bit naive in my thinking. I am new to this whole thing so perhaps when I do meet some of the SPs I'll be able to attend the next one (if there is a next one). So since none of you know me, I'm obviously not on the invite list. I have my eye on a couple of you ladies so if we meet before your get together then maybe I'll get an invite, if not I hope to meet some of you one day soon. Hope you guys have fun though! :bddog:

Everything there sounds great to me! :motion:

I think communication is the most important thing because everyone's likes and dislikes can be different. I like kissing the back of a lady's neck, just behind the ear, as I gently cup her breasts from behind. Some may not like that. I also like lightly tickling her body by gently running my fingers up and down her sides, stomach, back. Some may not like that either. You might be afraid to tell a client something you think he may not want to hear, but perhaps he'll like you more if you tell him exactly what you like.

Although this avatar has another meaning, I think you all know what I had in mind when I decided to use it here. I love the "I Love New York" logo, and I didn't really know what to use for an avatar so I thought why not use this one. Even though I am new to this whole experience, I have a feeling I am going to really love the time I spend with the few or many SP's I do meet.

This sounds like a great idea and if I would have heard about it when you guys did yours I would have shown up. It's too bad there's probably not enough time to have it as a Christmas Party next month some time. I'll keep my eye on this thread to see if anyone comes up with something and if anyone out there is interested they should post in here just to show what kind of interest there is here.

I do find the light from candles as a certain sexy ambiance to the room. With regards to scents, I find it strange that I haven't ever been bothered by any candle scents, but I have been bothered by certain strong perfume scents. There are many people that do have sensitivities to certain scents though so that is definitely something SPs should keep in mind or inform their clients if certain scents bother them.

I am a new member here and new to the whole SP thing, I haven't been with an SP (YET), so I don't have any references with them nor do I think providing my cerb handle at this point in time would alleviate any concerns an SP may have until I become a regular poster here. I am nervous about meeting a prospective SP for the first time, so I can imagine what some of you SPs have to go through each time you meet with someone new for the first time. For the most part, as I've looked around the different ads, I see most SPs don't ask for a reference of any kind. I don't see a problem with the ones that do want a reference though. Perhaps they have had too many problems with first time clients.