a rookie here. I'd appreciate your thoughts. Haven't adventured with SP yet so not sure what to expect in terms of keeping confidentiality, possibility of being blackmailed, etc...
privacy is paramount, so in your experience what is more discreet? an incall or outcall at the hotel? The hotel ends up with your ID one way or another. That doesn't seem good.
The incall makes you more vulnerable because you lack control over the environment. Doesn't take too much imagination to think up potential ways of being discovered in that process.
what's your take?