Sensual Erin

Congrats Vanessa. Please do keep them coming! :)

On further thought as all definitions become grey when over analyzed in my tired brain right now. Definitions have always been misunderstood in every industry. How can we define spending time with an MA or SP that truly cares for their guests? If we start to speculate about services offered, we very much take on a menu oriented mentality and have lost the purpose of an SP's passion. GFE, PSE, MA,MP.... as long as the provider is clear and upfront in what services she does offer, the time spent together is of companionship between two consenting adults that have taken the time to understand what takes place. I do agree this is confusing to someone new perhaps in the advertising area, but a little homework and getting to know each other a little and the expectations, can clear up much of the confusion. I take my time to answer all questions and like to have a mutual understanding before we even meet, to be clear and not have any misunderstandings in person.

I do agree Fortunateone. Body slides and eroticism are part of a sensual massage. The true art of erotic massage has been lost within these grey zones and should be made clear.

If I may add further to the term "GFE" in advertising. I'm of the opinion as well that the term has been saturated. However, to mislead a client to think otherwise is wrong. I don't think the massage area was separated from the SP area because of these advertisers claiming to be a GFE and with intentions to deceive. To put that thought out there is unfair to the providers that are honest and would not like being put in the same basket., I'm under the impression that with the commercial spa's and now paid advertising, it made it more simplified to separate the two areas. I do not personally advertise a GFE massage, but the term is fair in regards to the provider being enthusiastic, caring and sensual. I think of the term in that way and as non mechanical. To define anything always has a grey area whether within an MA or SP encounter.

Thanks to everyone for the advice and suggestions. I have decided to stay independent, and offer sessions from my in call of an hour and over. The only changes I will have to make are the shorter ones to keep my numbers low. This board is great for the support everyone shows towards each other and has helped me come to a decision. I very much appreciate it. Cheers!

Thanks Jabba. I'm getting the same feedback from a few from friends so far I have seen as an independent. So far the feedback is "I will see you when you're ready at your new location." I have saved to take this time off but do miss working. It's too bad as my sessions will not change and I do not have a "next" attitude. I can't stand revolving doors and am not a robot. I like to take my time and pamper my guests. My location does not change this.

Hello Ladies and Gents, I've just relocated from my popular west end location to a more private place that requires a reduction in my daily volume. I've always been a low volume provider, but tightening it up even more so now. I will be off for the next few weeks as I prepare my new home for guests and will most likely be renting a space for the next few months. It looks like I will no longer be an Independent for the time being, but do reassure you that my attention to detail and quality will not be changing, no matter where I operate from. Now my question is, how do you feel about visiting a commercial space versus independent? This is completely new to me again since I became independent three years ago after I established myself at a commercial location. I'm now looking at going back to where I started. That's all I have for now as I figure out my next journey and seeking opinions? Many thanks to those that have enjoyed my former location with me. I already miss it and am eager to start working again. E Additional Comments: I found a thread that answered many questions. :) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=81572&highlight=independent

My happy song and fitting for this time of year. California Dreamin.

Daty should never be expected in a sensual massage experience. A GFE massage should be interpreted as a non mechanical encounter within a sensual setting. I suppose it may vary from one masseuse to another,but should not be expected as it ventures into the grey area between an MA and Sp. It's up to the lady and should remain private between two consenting adults.

I would like to add and define that a GFE massage is enthusiastic and non mechanical. It's about the tone of the session. It is not rushed and usually a slow sensual ride to a seamless and natural feeling ending. You feel cared about and pampered. These kind of encounters can lead to a great connection as well. ;)

The TV should have an HDMI connection? I use my flat screen TV as a monitor connected with an HDMI cable. That's with a laptop so not sure about a notebook?

Greetings, I'm moving from my location end of next week and am offering a few special discounts as the boxes are stacking up and sadly wrapping up my cozy location. I'm now offering a 30 and 40 minute special before I go, until early next week. About me: I'm a privately located and independent sensual masseuse. As my guest, I will generously pamper you with my full attention and with my warmest welcome. I take pride in offering a fun, but relaxing sensual indulgence. I will tease your sensitivities and renew your spirit as we playfully move along. The rest we privately fill out the blanks as this reservation is only for two. Care to join me? I look forward to learning more about you. Please pm for additional details. Erin xoxo

This was my first job too and had to collect from my customers. I lived in an older residents building at the time and the tips dated back to that era. I'll never forget the sweet 95 year old widow that never answered her door, but did for me. She would hand me a quarter for a tip and tell me to go buy myself an ice cream. This was actually the best job I had for cash I did not yet have to fork over to the adult world of bills, rent, education, responsibility and all that other good stuff.

My last thing purchased were moving boxes. Clean cardboard I can trust were worth every dollar.

Too funny for words? 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,....35,36,37,38,39,40,life

A timeless and natural beauty.

Happy Birthday! Hoping you have a wonderful day.

Happy Birthday Lexy!

Congrats Carrie.

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My number 1 priority this Christmas is to make my Mom's day as happy as possible. I lost my Father this year and she lost her Husband of 40 years. It's going to be different but we have each other. I love the time before the actual day to get together with dear friends and enjoy the entire month of December. It's a magical and happy time of year to see everyone enjoying the hustle and bustle in the malls, the lights, the tree's and hopefully snow. I've always loved this season.

Please excuse my two strongly comments above. I can't edit my comments and never saw the repeat until it appeared. lol! I may just be shiplapped or tongue and grooved. :) Last purchase. Vitamin water.

Happy happy belated handsome! Hoping you had a wonderful day. xo

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Wow! That's a lot of postings and much appreciated. I always enjoy your contributions Nikki, and have learned from your insight. Keep them coming!