Sensual Erin

I would like to ask everyone what they do to take care of ourselves to relax on a daily basis and indulge in ourselves? Mine would be a mud bath, candles and a sparkly drink to go with. I don't get to enjoy this every day, but as often as possible. I think it may be the next best thing to sex, when I don't have opportunity to indulge in carnal pleasures. Men too for this one! I know you do it! ;)

I just got my "nominated for members choice" sticker on my profile. Thanks to everyone on Cerb and to MOD for making my day. : ) It's the small things that make my time here rewarding.

Oooohh Meg! Now that you've got me heated up, how about pressed up against the wall and being molested in all the right ways?

I was cut off on my rep point Drlove. :) When I first started here, not only was I welcomed by many Gentleman that directed me on this site, but also by many fine ladies I now consider friends. They went beyond themselves to welcome a new lady and that meant a great deal to me to stay focused no matter what threads went to the wayside. That is far from competitive if you ask me. I'm now able to help newcomers as well and see so much caring among the women here. However, it's a public board and we're not always going to agree. It would be very sad to see people leave for that reason or the fact "competition" may be perceived. It's really not worth it. I enjoy this community too much to leave. I think instead of constantly going over and over the negativity or rehashing the "uber competitive SP's", points made in this thread for the second time, why don't we just forgive and forget? Anything less is pretty immature. I'm tired of it and want to continue making this place happy. Life is too short folks! :)

Thank you so much Isabella. I've been on Chrome and just switched to Internet Explorer. I'll now be posting pictures everywhere and was able to thank all the one's that put nice Christmas cards on my guest page. Copy, paste, copy, paste.....for the un savvy. :)

"Elegance does not consist of putting on a new dress" Coco Chanel

Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. Sun Tzu

Congrats Meg. To one of the most caring ladies I've been privileged to know, even though we've never met. That's pretty special. :)

Congrats Emma. Very well deserved. I always enjoy your contributions here. xo

Pete, I have one comment to make in this thread. For someone that is retiring quietly, you have positively commented with everyone that agrees with your take on the situation here. You're still hanging in there so all is not completely lost from your starting this thread? You have many that look highly upon you and your status here. However, I'm just a lady that gives the same advice I give myself. We're not always going to be right, not everyone will agree and we're all of different views. I"m learning that more and more as I spend time here. Your posts have been appreciated, but diversity is now key and we are evolving. Hoping you do come back as I'm pretty discouraged too by this posting. We're much stronger together than being divided right? Perhaps in most situations..... Happy Holidays everyone. E

Let's congratulate Elizabeth for her newly appointed Goddess status. I would enclose a nice picture to go with, but have no idea still how? :) Anyway, a very well deserved 10,000 to an amazing lady!

I couldn't give you rep points but second that.

I've given back to a few of my sweetest clients as well this year. I've done a few two hour apts. that was not much more than the price of my one hour, and shared my mud bath with them. I don't share my mud with just anyone. ;) The one's I chose to indulge with have really brightened my year. It felt great to give back to them as they've been so wonderful to me. It goes both ways.

This video is so sweet. I couldn't give you rep points Emma, but have sent this video to three of my friends for Christmas. Thank you for sharing.

I like Isabella for the exact same reasons she likes RG. :) Additional Comments: Shoot I was beaten to it. I like Soleil because she's always so sweet on the board. I like Lee's avatar and I like how HB has stuck around with us. hehe! He's a trooper.

I can't give you more rep points so thank you. I will try this.

I would like to add that in my situation, the cancellation fee is subjective and I've only had to enforce it once with a client that just decided he was within his rights to just not show up. When I did ask him what happened, he admitted he got sidetracked and couldn't make it. He's a regular of mine and has tried to disrespect my time on a few occasions. The night I asked what happened, he made no apologies. He thinks because he see's me often, which was suggested in this thread by a few, that it all adds up to the same thing anyway. I don't care if you see me once a week or once a year in this case. It very inconsiderate. I had no problem letting him know how much compensation he did need to bring me when he messaged the next week for another apt. If he wanted to see me again, it was the least he could do to pay for my preparation time. If not, he is quite welcome to find another provider. I had mixed feelings about the fee, so that's why I started this thread. Thanks to those that let me know my policy is fair, and for contributing to a very informative subject.

Can someone please direct me how to do this? I've had so many nice notes on my guest page and want to respond back with the same, but when I cut and paste the image, only a link comes up to the place I got it. Thanks ahead if you can give me advice on "Cerb Guest Book Adding Images for Dummies".

First my family and friends My cell phone Music Myself Poutine My morning coffee The ladies here during my stay as a member. They're my strength and support system during times that are challenging. As much as I value and appreciate the Gents, the emotional support I've received from the ladies is invaluable. Things I thought I needed but gave up: My microwave My cable. Just cancelled it and will report back on that one.

Just an article I've read about opposing sides and how to deal with them. I think if we can handle ourselves better emotionally, the threads will follow suit. Perhaps I''m lost too in all this. : ) It's a general article but I'm always always seeking knowledge in human relationships.

I'm not touching this thread, well maybe just a little but I hope this in not another case of the boys ganging up on the girls? Charlotte and Berlin have good points and this is a good question for MOD to answer? Let's stick to the facts even though it may be good wank material. If belongs in another area boys, you'll have to wank off there. Did I just say that?

Please stop taking me to private chat when you're from way out on the other side of Canada and have no intention of booking, asking what I offer and what you would like to experience. Number 1: You have taken me to private chat before and promised to see me in a week or so after I spent a great deal of time talking to you. I gave you the benefit of the doubt you may be visiting our city and inquiring about my services. You never booked and now several months later. #2. Please don't act like you don't remember this when I call you out on it. You've done it to other ladies too I know. #3. Stop being a major WOT! I speak to members all the time about general stuff in chat so expect the same from you. #4. Please don't request to take me to private chat again and distract me from members that are there that have engaged in good chat. Passive aggressive rant done!

I think this is a crucial point for travelling ladies. One of our members from the East coast traveled here last spring and this was additionally mentioned in the Ottawa reco area that she had a few last minute cancellations. It was Sophia Varoushka, if she does not mind my mention, and Cato kindly reminded the guys just as you have. If the Gentleman want the ladies from other provinces or cities visiting, please do not cancel at all even with notice as their cost is high to travel and the decision to do so is based on this factor. Ifa n apt. needs to be cancelled in this case for any reason, definitely a cancellation fee is appropriate and should be pre paid.

Very well said RG, as a very respectful Gentleman. I don't like to see this thread go into "she could have done this, or avoided that." Please let's avoid what she could have done to avoid abuse? This has nothing to do with Isabella and everything to due with the client. He's the danger and do believe Isabella is courageous and strong by sharing her story. Not everyone calls out violence due to fear or retribution. I know as well Isabella is a very caring, kind individual and did not deserve this under any circumstance! No excuse! Additionally, Isabella has warned the other ladies. She's handled this situation with the class and dignity I admire and respect her for.

You should move this question to the massage section. CMJ is highly recommended and you should have your question answered in that area.