Sensual Erin

Awww, you too beautiful. I am now thinking of cute little Butters in a South Park episode where he paid $5 for his first kiss. I wanted to put a quote here from the episode but it may get me in trouble. : ) Kisses and hugs to you Meg! xo

No apologies necessary. I've always been priced all inclusively before and after I became Independent. I understand palours operate differently. All those kisses may add up! : )

Megan says it all right here. It's really up to the lady and should not be expected on a first meet. There have been a few clients that I'm quite comfortable light kissing and do not charge extra $ for it. Most MA's are all inclusive and you should not be expected to pay more. This request is more of a GFE style massage, and there are ladies that offer it as part of their session. I wouldn't like it to be looked upon as an extra or to be expected as two people should do what they both feel comfortable doing. The cold and flu season is here so we all have to be careful. As well, if you're prone to cold sores you do need to be more aware and responsible. Just like everything else right? : )

I don't think a question like this should be addressed here. Reputable spa's and Mp's do not offer extra's as it would put their license at risk. I don't know about this particular spa, but here is not the place to ask about any MP estabishment. It's no wonder some of these places get shut down as inquiries like this put them on the radar.

This is a a tough topic. Like Capialman mentions though, boundaries. This is a word that goes out to the water for a few. I have regular clients I really like, a few I'm fond of. However, when too many boundaries are crossed I do encourage that person to move on. I'm pretty open about who I am and don't mind personable, within our personal boundaries as we are all different. There's so many great Ladies and Gents on board here. What we provide and share should be explored and not held too dearly. If it's no longer fun and if it becomes too emotional, it's no longer sexy.

I don't think whether a member is of a senior level or new will make a change to the recommendation threads and the bumping problem. I've seen threads bumped up repeatedly by members commenting with things like "I've got to get out to see her" or of the sort but has never met with the provider, so this is not part of the recommendation. I see these from new members and the Elite. It reminds me of Cheerleaders. These statements are not reco's and should be kept in the Courteson, Massage discussion. This issue has been discussed many time in various threads and the problem still exists. However, it is abuse and can be reported. It takes us all to press that "report abuse" button and MOD encourages us to do so if the rules are being broken. I started this thread and messaged MOD on the questioned reco. He advised me to just report and passing it on to everyone else.

I agree Sara. This takes away from the true recommendations. Thread bumping is not permitted but a few have slipped through.

Has the recommendation rules changed? I've noticed this in a recent reco thread. Is this allowed for paid advertisers and are the rules different for them? I know as providers we're not allowed to add to even say thank you as it bumps the thread back to the top and is unfair to the other recent recos. Thanks

I have one to add. Please don't message a lady for the first time and ask what the price of a session is if you bring wine. This offer does not entitle you to a discount. I have been known to have wine with clients I know, that book me for more than an hour. Second, if you do not know the lady yet, she will look at this as a red flag. Third, if you have experienced this with another lady, do not assume the next one will accept the same. Not all providers are drinkers and it sends out a feeling that you may be a dangerous encounter. Please use safety and discretion. There's too many people out there that assume having a few glasses of wine in under an hour and then hopping in their car is ok. In my books it is not and I do not send tipsy people on their way.

I'm an MA, but have a few I miss myself from back in the days. Naomi, Dallyn and Michelle-MA, from CMJ, were favorite ladies of mine for many reasons. I've met many great ladies but these three had the full package of class, beauty, and wonderful caring personalities. These were the ladies that were not only kind to the Gents, but to their fellow collegues as well. I have not forgotten them. :)

I agree with Mmad. There's ladies here that do tantric and are reputable. I've heard from a few clients about this one. You'll find everything you need here. Good luck and welcome!

I posted an earlier reply in this thread as this was the lady I was thinking about, but didn't want to speak for Jessica. If you haven't found something yet, Jessica is an experience you will certainly not soon forget. I'm a fan. ;)

Your request may be granted if you develop a good rapport and give some notice ahead so the lady can accomodate you. Last min. bookings at that time is more difficult as many MA's and MP places only operate until 10pm. Hope that helps.

Wishing everyone a great time tonight! It looks like a great group of people will be attending. Unfortunately, I am unable to drop by, but will be there as well in spirit. Watch out for ghosts!!!!

I think as well, it's really important to seperate if the laws of atttraction are personal or professional. As a provider, I let so much go that I wouldn't tolerate personally. For example> I had a client the other day that was 15 years my senior. He was still physically attractive with his steel blue eyes and body and I took an interest as I am single and was attracted to him. As soon as he mentioned "generations" and what he has to deal with dating in his personal life it turned me off. If only he knew these decades he made reference to, I was way out of diapers. My attraction became a turn off as he had no idea how old I was and put me in the young category. I've never had children and my genes have been kind but i am older than what he thought I took no part of, generation wise. I have a friend with a beautiful teenage daughter. She's seventeen and as she was heading over one day she texted me with "there's an old perv petafile that is hanging out of his car, whistling and hollering at me so I spat on his car!" She expected me to be proud of her. I wasn't and did let her know if you see me dad coming your way and twisting his neck in admiration and you even attempt to spit on his car, I will kick your sweet little ass! My father does and who can blame the old guy! She needs to get over herself and realize this thing is historical and not going away....

Wow! This guy is definitely being a jerk! I completely agree that any attraction that you may have for him for his character and personality flew out the window when he insulted your friend. I think a lot of people, male or female can be callous and judge someone by their size or appearance. When it comes from someone that is not physically attractive, it can cause question of "who do you think you are?" I think men are probably more guilty of this than women due to commercial objectification. Our media presents women by youth and on body parts compared to the total package which is where true sexy comes from. Anyway, that's my opinion so hope no guys jump on me for that. I see this quite a bit, especially in older men. Whether they will admit it or not, most guys wouldn't mind being able to date and attract younger women. Once you get to a certain age, being able to attract and date a younger women seems to be an elusive ability that most guys assume they do not have. And, even if they are able to experience the thrill of dating a woman who is younger than them, they will do unnecessary things to try and make sure that they are able to attract her. Things like spending a lot of money on things to try and sway her or by trying to dote too much attention on her. This explains why many older men may hobby as attaining this in real life is rare unless the man keeps himself in great shape and doesn't try to persuade her with money. Confidence is key if the goal is to date a younger woman. Otherwise, it will be paid for one way or another. I have a male friend that is older and only dates younger women. They way he does it is by possessing an alpha male character. The way he acts compensates for anything that he lacks in the looks department. Alpha males are the leaders of the group that are confident and act boldly. These older men get quality women because they are confident, persistent, and not intimidated by beautiful women. As far as women and age. There are many beautiful women over the age of 35 that have substance, life skills and class. I think the same applies to both sexes in the law of attraction. However, the admiration for youth is fleeting. That's been my expereince. I've dated men ten years younger with no attraction as there's no similarity in our generations so the age gap is too wide for me. The same applies to older men. Older men can be too needy. What are we all to do? Good subject.

I'm late too! Congrats Dorinda and keep them coming! : )

Happy Birthday Samantha. Enjoy your special day and miss you lots. xo

I welcome new members as well! I started here last winter and learned so much with all the support from the oldies...; ) As far as "just try to not get nominated for anything." That's a thread that is out with the old and in with the new! Please let that thread RIP. This is a board with differences of opinion at times, but overall a great board, great group of folks, one of the best to advertise on and an awesome learning experience.

We've all been guilty of the double entendres where my head goes straight to the gutter after failing to be clear and love to catch people on them. Things that sound dirty but weren't... Here are a few of mine: 1. Back in the day at a great party the hostess made choc. chip cookies and I said. "I can't even eat my own cookie right now!" 2. On a trip to Home Depot looking for a new sink faucet, I spotted a brushed stainless steel one and had to touch the handle. As I stroked it a few times in awe of it's smoothness, my partner at the time had to walk away and let me know it was just all wrong to stroke a faucet at the hardware store. I never thought of that until it happened. Now I'm much more careful when around faucets.......

Congrats and looking forward to reading many more. : )

Congrats as well to you both! This community is enriched by both your contributions. I always enjoy reading your thoughts, insight and your due dilligence to keeping us informed in all aspects of this business. Both of you are invaluable to this community and I look forward to learning more.

I like Angela for the same reason she likes Sky. She speaks her mind and helps us all out. Plus, I like her teenage boobies..... Additional Comments: Oh, I get two now as I was too slow on the draw. I like Elizabeth's postings and have learned new vocabulary skills as I have had googled a few of them. ; ) Both class act ladies.

I have asked to be removed as well. I have no interest in this award personally and do not want to feel like my points were percieved as jealousy or vindictive. I'm still a fairly new kid on the block myself and feel penalized for my support and insight on this topic. I no longer feel good having any part in this. Good luck to the other candidates and hoping this thread has a peaceful finish. Thanks so much to those who gave me their votes. It was a priviledge to participate with the great ladies here and am very grateful. xo

Absolutely! She's got my vote as an amazing contributer as well as a many others that have been so insightful on this board and have given their time away from this business to enrich the community. That's what it's all about. Glad we agree WIT. ; )