Sensual Erin

Absolutely! This thread was not started to creat an argument. Daniel expressed his thoughts and contributed whole heartedly to this debate. This is a debate and should not be reduced to arguments or attacks on anyone. Have you been attacked yet SecretAdmirer? A good debate carries patience and not to be deliberated. There is consideration on all sides and there is no jury!

You're doing great. I like your tried and still true. KFC will always be "finger licken good." : )

Hey folks, I just thought I would add a little fun to our day by not taking anything too seriously. Seeing as I started a thread yesterday trying to understand the usage of acronyms, it went a little haywire. I've decided to start a non-literal language game that is simply language where a meaning is conveyed in language that is somehow figurative or symbolic, as opposed to strictly and accurately descriptive. I'll start with "redbull gives you wings" where wings replace or stand in for energy.

I agree with Elizabeth. Samantha, this is the best thread I have ever read and brings me great understanding. Thank you for your wisdom and humble understanding. You truly are amazing.

Thanks to everyone that has commented, contributed and helped me to understand from both sides. I'm going to ask MOD to close this thread. I never meant for it to turn nasty at the beginning and it escalated with the original questions blown out of proportion. We all need thicker skin, we all have the right to respectfully question. This thread has lost it's meaning. The nastiness is now rampid and actually do prefer the acronyms rather than insults. A few here have shown their true colors as a result and thinking I will be silent in the near future and stick to the cat threads for now. Btw, to the person that mentioned "fucking cats".....was there a need to stoop that low???? All you've done is offend the majority of animal lovers here. My intent wasn't to offend anyone. Off now in search of thicker skin.

I agree, the second paragraph is very well said. I can take a good debate. However, I don't like walking from this feeling like a prude or puritan since I approached this topic. If that is what was communicated I'm dissapointed. I'm an expressive woman that shared with others my thoughts, stated I may rumple a few feathers and didn't expect everyone to agree. I'm done with this thread and am sticking around to add to this board as a provider with the knowledge that I can have a good debate. However, now I feel like I should take a walk down Sesame Street by a few. Have a good night everyone.

Oh believe me. I am not a bible preacher so will not bring religion into this dicussion. I'm not a school girl, can hold my own, have no problem expressing sexuality in a respectul manner and this is just a debate. With debate comes understanding. Please refrain from using the bible to describe how any of us feel. Additional Comments: Well, you do bring up good points Pete and do agree to disagree with you on this one respectfully. I really like this thought from Elizabeth: Originally Posted by Elizabeth Saunders While I am fully aware that my opinion will not stop threads that focus on a particular body part or menu item, it would be appreciated by many escorts if those of you who participate in these threads could keep something in mind: First and foremost, we are human beings.....not just sperm sockets. We are complex people and the interactions we undertake with you affect us in many ways. This is not a business like any other. While you have the right to expect professionalism, it is upsetting to us when we are broken down to simply what we do or how we look. Because let's face it, it isn't just a pair of breasts or a warm mouth that greets you at the door, it is a whole person.

I couldn't spread you anymore points RG but thank you so much. Musings from a true Gentleman always like yourself make me come back to read more. The rest I will start to filter out and do not read. It's just my morning wake up, occasional title thread that makes me not digest my coffee properly. Even if I don't open it to read, the title is there. I am known as the girl that can kick back with the guys, drink beer, swear, listen to them burp and be raunchy. It's part of life and if two roses were identical, they wouldn't be original. Guess I can put it down to it takes all kinds of characters to make our world go round.

Feeling uncomfortable with the wording is not my only concern. I have two. I do call my vagina "lady parts" btw. : ) Anyway, it's the questions that bother me as well. I am a woman that doesn't want to describe my lady parts, or what I prefer during an encounter detail for detail. I like the mystery and if too much is put out there before, for me, it's a turn off. I know some hobbiests do it to ensure their experience will be exactly as they want, but how does it make it sexy if you know ahead of time?

Good points Malika. I've never been a fan of the word vagina either. : ) However, much of the tone is lost through these threads. I would just like to see more mystery, fun and excitement, not the questions put out there that are so blatant. I may just not be cut out to read them. : )

Thank you Jafo. I'm not seeking an apology. It's just that when I read some of these threads, it takes me to a space where I feel the ladies are not valued as a whole. Sometimes I think I just need to let it go and be the girl that takes no offence to our "lady parts" described in all kinds of ways or scenarios. I don't kiss and tell and just questioning why some do? Do I want to know exactly what kind of encounter I will have with a Gent ahead of time I don't even know yet? The only question I make sure is answered before any encounter is can I trust you, am I safe and will you treat me well during our time spent together? A question of allowing "digits, daty, etc. would not get a response. I'm an MA and have been asked these questions. As women, we are giving you are most treasured gifts and deserve the highest respect.

Hello everyone, I may ruffle a few feathers but after reading many threads over the past several months in the General Discussion area, I have a few things I need to address and have faith that most of the hobbiests here are Gentleman I would consider spending my time with. First off, I have learned many new acronyms or Urban Dictionary terminology from the threads on this board. Do I agree that a vagina is a pussy or kitty? I do not, but the word surfaces daily on this board in discussion. I may just not be cut out to read these threads as I am a woman with substance and will not let you know how big my other lips are, if it's shaved or unshaved, or respond publically to any of these threads. Is it just the ignorance of grasping for the proper ways to ask a question? I"m sure I will quickly figure out the answers and have so far continued the faith that the Gent's who start these threads are respectful. However, I'm having a hard time just seeing these threads up even though I don't read them. So when I wake up with my morning coffee, log into to read the General Discussion area and see thread titles of "Daty vs Digits." "Greek or no Greek", etc. It really makes me question things here and a few have almost made me spit of my coffee on a few occasions. Every sensual, sexual erotic encounter is a gift for both the provider and client and I will use "YMMV" for this one. Please don't disrespect us, get to know us a little and ask us personally. Please always remember as well that we are women. If ever I had anyone in my personal life speak to me in this way they wouldn't be with me. Yet, here we are spoken to this way, asked very personal questions, menu item questions randomly thrown out there, etc. I may be old school but do believe old fashioned chivalry goes a long way, even here as we explore our sexual needs. I will always value and cherish my clients that treat me as Erin, not as a menu item or topic of the ??? day.. Hoping this falls upon understanding ears and do enjoy being a part of this board. I just had to get it off my chest as this has bothered me for some time. Cheers! Erin

I know I may have a few dissagreements on this one but this is a question that should be answered by open communication, trust that is established through time with someone that we connect with, respect and of course personal hygeine. I don't think it should be asked as a random public question as the answer is very personal and between two consenting adults. I know menu items are put on the plate for the Gents to explore, question and decide, but where is the sensualty and mystery of an experience that can be amazing if two people explore together and build upon by trust, respect and exploration? How clean your nails are have no meaning if the connection is not built. Then it's just a menu item, or I may just be a little old school on this topic.

That is too bad. I always enjoyed her postings here as well. I wish her all the best if she has retired and she will be missed.

Does anyone have any recommendations for a small, friendly romantic restaurant in the Market area? I've looked at Vittoria Trattoria and it looks nice. Thanks. :)

Not at all. I'm guilty of wanting my marshmallow right away too, but anyone that can get through this gets two marshmallows???

To anyone that is factual and has been guilty of anxiously solving a problem immediately, I thought I would share this insightful view: Why Patience Pays Off --by Viral Mehta , Original Story As a kid, patience was not my thing. In fifth grade, when Mr. Gardner asked a question, my hand would often shoot up in enthusiasm. After giving me a few opportunities, he would try to give other students a chance. My hand, though, would remain in the air, and after some time, I'd impatiently start waving it around; at some point, that move got dubbed, "The Viral." Then, there was the time I enrolled in drumming classes. I was excited to jam, but all we were allowed to do in the first class was practice one beat over and over again. I never went back. I would've done terribly in the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment. In this classic study, researchers gave children a choice between one marshmallow right away, or two later. The results showed that those who could wait 15 minutes ended up scoring 210 points higher on the SAT. Break down the word patience and it actually traces back to the Latin "pati," which means "to suffer, endure." This is the popular interpretation, and one that leaves us in awe of stories like that of the frail, landless Indian farmer who painstakingly moved a mountain. This man chiseled away solo for 22 years, until he finally created a 1 km long, 16-ft-wide, passage connecting his village to vital resources like hospitals. So clearly, delaying gratification or bearing up under pain have their benefits. But a deeper exploration of patience goes beyond risk and reward. Cultivating patience keeps us from being stuck to preconceived notions, and helps us let go of our fixation on outcomes. We come to accept that we don't always or immediately know what is best, and learn to recognize that our reality is in constant flux. Patience elevates our understanding of deeper truths and helps us transcend our limited views. And therein lies its virtue. Consider this powerful quote by Lao Tzu: "Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles, and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving until the right action arises by itself?" We might think of "waiting" as taking time, but it's actually less about clock time and more about inner space. Of course, there are moments when our immediate gut-level response to a situation is a flash of intuition that can be trusted, moments when it's crystal clear what needs to be done. But at other times, an experience stirs up some of that inner mud, and at those times, patience engages us in the process of becoming still. An unclear mind, one in which right action isn't obvious, isn't a "bad" thing. Wisdom, after all, develops at the edges of our understanding. Our fundamental questions can frustrate us, or create a positive sense of wonder and possibility. The challenge is to develop enough stillness to allow the questions to pose themselves without judgment. This is where patience comes in. Needing answers isn't the point -- patience is in finding value in the questions, in and of themselves. The root word for question, after all, is "quest," and so this spirit of adventure is embedded within true questioning. That's not to say that answers aren't important. They do come, but often not the ones we'd expect, and often ones that open up to even deeper questions. In this way, those moments of fuzziness, when dealt with patiently, become opportunities to turn our boundaries into edges of exploration. When we think we know, we expect to find a solution in the direction in which we are looking; when we don't know where to look, we remain open to all directions. But remaining open and "unmoving," as Lao Tzu suggests, isn't about being passive or lacking conviction. There's lots of committed activity happening beneath the surface -- it takes great effort and discipline to remain alert to what's happening within. This sharp alertness awakens us to the power of the subtle: the mental seeds we sow become the roots of our skillful words and actions. And it is patience which creates that inner space. First, the mud -- our unexamined reactions and habituated patterns of interpretation -- rises to the surface, but then eventually it settles. Our view clears. We find that those initial, rigid interpretations relax and a multiplicity of perspectives emerge. We start to see in a way that is more real, more whole, more true, and we become more free to consciously choose our actions. Through it all, the journey of patience is rooted in knowing that our current reality inevitably gives way to change. But change won't always happen when we think it should, and patience with ourselves comes from accepting that there are things we can control and things we can't. And though we must make diligent efforts to keep pushing the boundaries of our awareness and to deepen our ability to rest comfortably in the present moment, how fast we develop isn't up to us. That same fifth grader who couldn't wait to blurt out answers, now sees the value of meeting questions with a heart of patience. Patience, then, is a kind withholding of judgment and of conclusion, a valiant invitation for our evolution to unfold just as it needs to.

Happy Birthday Malika! xoxo

Congrats on going blonde! I'm a dark natural blond, but do have my hair highlighted to a medium sunny blonde shade by my hairdresser. I know all about the drugstore formulas. lol! It's a two step process to go from your dark brown to light. Has it made a difference in this business for me? I don't think my clients mind what color I am but my personality is blonde and feel more confident with this color. I think it's my confidence that makes the difference no matter what color I choose. Isn't it fun being a girl though! :)

It's getting hot in here. ; )

Oh I like this. I like my legs and the curve of where my calf meets my ankle. I'm only 5'6 and thought my legs were too long, but have been told I'm long, slim and elegant like a deer. Confidence is sexy and I now show them off.

There's no need for us to be trapped indoors complaining of the heat when we can add some sexy fun to our day. Here's a few of my tips with no A/C required: 1. Wet white tshirt contest. For all you guys that like fripples get out your garden hose and she may just be happy to see you. 2. Take a nice cold shower together 3. Ice cubes rubbed on your wrist increases cool blood flow 4. Spray gun fights or start a major war water balloon fight. My favourite Let's add to the list and have fun as winter will be here soon enough.

You know you're old when you watch the Golden Girl's re-runs and realize there's only one Girl that's still with us.

I've done both couples massage and duos when I was agency based. Since I've become independent, I do miss the fun and sensuality of massaging someone with another lady and having another person to give and recieve a massage from. Trio's can be a great experience if both ladies are comfortable with massaging the other, and the client is well aware of both ladies limitations..... The best body slide I ever had was from another lady...: ) Additional Comments: You should check out CMJ and Paradise Spa for this request. Both places offer duos and are the best in my opinion.

I love a man in American Eagle cargo shorts, t-shirt and a dark rugged tan. You guys aren't the only one's drooling over summertime candy. :)