Sensual Erin

This is interesting. I know a few want to see our reviews before they book for reference but do not write them? Instead a thank you note that the experience was great is sent by PM? This generally does not bother me but it's a point. I agree with Sara as well. If we maintain our presence and contribute to the board we become multi faceted women, not just a kiss and tell experience. Contributions and smarts are very sexy traits too. If a girl has just started out and "both" know it was a great experience, why not take a few moments to just write a kind word? The experience or "details" do not need to be mentioned. This is business for the ladies so I don't think it's unreasonable to ask, especially if she took the time to answer any concerns or questions outside of the actual session time. It goes both ways and these things do become forgotten and some don't realize the "total" amount of effort the ladies make as well.

You've got a good point. The "other" board allows clients to post bad reviews publicly about providers but nothing is there for the provider to report rude or disrespectful clients? It should go both ways.

It can be difficult to write an add that answers all inquiries about our services. I prefer an initial email contact to answer any other questions privately. I think the information and pictures are suited to each providers comfort level. I personally am not very public, but reveal more info privately. It adds to the anticipation before our encounter. I really enjoy a nice back and forth chat before the meet and usually all questions have been answered. I don't think a professional picture is necessary if it's from a high quality digital camera and a helpful friend to avoid the mirror and long arm troubles. When I try by myself with a camera I always feel like the old scary commercial, the one with the Bits and Bites guy that tries to stick his hand out of the TV set to give you a handful. Creepy! : )

Coke with a little rum and ice. : )

The communication process can be such a double edge sword as well both ways. I get concerned with meeting a client that wants to see me right away and not have at least a little rapport before a meet. I think a formal introduction is at least necessary with even a fictitious name. I appreciate a "How are you today?" or anything to address one another and take the first steps to getting comfortable with each other.

I completely agree with how that ladies have responded to this thread and the gents that have gone through the "intro phase" with their experience. I like to initiate a bit of a "getting to know you process" by email to break the ice and add anticipation and seduction to an appointment. In my experience, I have chatted more with a client that may be a little shy or nervous about the encounter to let them know I'm real, down to earth, and interested in them as a person. This is where it's not just about the hour we spend with you. I know this is a different topic but thinking of another similar thread about "money." Often we will spend a few hours getting to know you and preparing so the one hour fee includes so much more. I know some do not get this and think we are there all day to just talk it up. There have been others as well, that have included a nice additional tip for these kind of services. We don't know until we meet you. I've gone from being tipped generously for my time as well as spending many hours communicating ahead with only compensation for the actual appointment. We learn with experience. I do become uncomfortable as well when clients ask personal sexual fantasies before a meet. I don't know who you are and have other things on the go as well. There are time wasters that will use this approach whether it be by pm or on chat. All the ladies I have spoken with are great people with wonderful reviews and contribute to this community with thought, respect and grace. If you take the time to look us up, read our thoughts, our contributions and get to know our personalities a bit......,,,there shouldn't be anything more that just good old ice breaking before the appointment.

Oh boy this one makes me think, but love it! ; ) Concrete Blond Caroline

I'm making dinner right now. Stouffers TV dinner, of turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, and added knorr gravy to make it similar and experience the same level of proportion of quantity to food flattery, versus quantity? I think I matched up on two of the most significant, instead of four? That equals Y=5.44x+6.62, on the "good cook" ratio right? : )

Thank you, Winnepegcub. I knew eventually someone would understand these observations. If we have no communicative understanding of each other or limited skills in this area, I wish us all luck in our journey of understanding what lies beneath us all.....; ) Hugs, Erin

I'm reading a book called Mathematics and Sex and just had to share a part of it: Y=5.44x+6.62 Don Byrne and Don Nelson uncovered the equation. This is the relationship they found between attraction and similarity. The equation says this: when you are chatting with someone, it is not how many topics you see eye to eye on, but the proportion of topics on which you do that affects attraction. The higher the proportions of similar attitudes, the greater the liking will be. So if you discuss two topics like music and food, and match up on one, you will experience the same level of attraction as if you discussed four and matched up on two. And whether you are discussing how you feel about abortion or dark chocolate is secondary. It is all about proportion or quantity of similarity, not quantity. It's interesting and I'm sure this can be used to seduce someone. The key is to make sure you do a lot of agreeing. but the beauty is you don't have to compromise when it comes to these topics you feel passionate about. Just make sure you steer the conversation on to something trivial every so ofter and agree with whatever the seducee puts forth. Easy as 1, 2, 3! (Is this a math joke?!) The more you approve of someone's personal attributes, whether they are ideas, actions or looks, the more they will be attracted to you. So commenting on how yummy someone's cooking is (something personal) is going to be more favorable in terms of attraction than agreeing with their views on the latest political party (impersonal-well, for most people) Flattery will get you everywhere, but not everyone has it! Just my rambling half cent this morning and wondering if this makes for good dinner party conversation? lol!

For me it's space and silence. When I feel I'm becoming out of balance and there's too much noise in my brain, I turn off the phone, pry away from the computer and enjoy a hot bath. As I get older and possibly not as patient, I find myself on a path to becoming more understanding, living by the moment, and forgiving most silly human behaviors when people tick me off. A glass or two of wine helps as well on that note....: )

Here's one: Devendra Singh found men judged woman with waist to hip ratios close to 0.7 particularly attractive, usually in the range 0.68 to o.72. The ratio is calculated by dividing the waist measurement to the hip measurement. So Cameron Diaz according to http://www.babewarehouse.com has the measurements 34 23 32, has a hip to waist ratio of 23 divided by 32. =0.72, while Pamela Anderson with measurements 36 24 36 has a waist to hip ratio of 0.67. Since Cameron barely scrapes into the sexy range and Pamela is outside of it all together, they must not have the bodies to fit Devendra's study. Hhhhmmmm....??? lol!

LOL! I like my numbers as well. I'm reading a book called Mathematics and Sex. I may just post my findings on another thread. : )

Have a great 3.141592653589793238462 . . .Pi day as well! ; )

Thank you Docottawa. You're too sweet! ; ) xo

I have a friend that just inherited Nancy Sinatra style, vintage suede red boots. I must borrow them after she returns mine. : )

Oh, I appreciate this. I love shoes and have been looking at two pairs I must add to my collection. One in black and the other in nude, same style. I'm going to try the nude then. Thanks for the rec and now I have made my color decision. : ) Ladies and sexy high heeled shoes. Is there anything better?

I spend a good amount of time during my session lightly caressing that entire area, body sliding and stimulating the blood flow. It's a slow tease, pull back, tease again and pull back. I think it's too mechanical to just give someone a massage and then five minutes for the release. Puts you poor guys on the clock as well. I think as soon as the person flips over and after a nice massage to the chest area, the sensuality begins and touch and tease plays a great part in a slow build up to the final release. As well, if I do spend an additional 5-10 min on the release it's not a big deal. The worst thing a guy can hear is "Ummmm, you have two minutes left." Now that's a shriveling limp moment! lol!

Awww, thanks Silverado.Yes, it takes all kinds! The bath really helped and back to my chipper self with sweet Gents like you! ; )

LOL! Thanks Pete. You always make me laugh and add some fun to the day. I would love for you join me to rub my shoulders while soaking in a hot bath. You are a tease! ; ) Hot baths and strong sexy hands make all the winter day rants go away. I can just imagine...... I've read too many books lately on human relations and got to get out more I think? lol!

I know this thread gets quite a bit of commentary and rants, but again I have to say nothing is more rude than taking a lady to private chat window, having her outline her services, take up her time, and then just leave the conversation when not interested without a thank you or even a good bye. I know it's common and seeing it with new members quite a bit since the demise of CL or Kijiji. No class with these people. There's been a few problems with new members in many regards to disrespect and it really isn't going to serve them well on this site. My pet peeve of the day and time to go soak off the annoyance with a nice hot bath! Thank goodness for the good members that make this place fun and friendly.

I agree. Mod does take care of the one's that ask in a public thread but it's not very often these people do. They catch you in private chat and that can be reported as well. Additional Comments: Oh, I just got this MrGreek. What a good idea to send the thread to the person directly. I like your thinking. : )

I agree with you 100% Rebecca. There was another thread that outlined the same problem and it's very irritating to say the least. There are members that do not take the time to look at our profiles, our services, if we are all inclusive or if we are even an SP or MP!! The fact is, we are spending time with you and these "only ???" solicitation requests are very disrespectful. Some of the ladies do offer a single service but a few are too lazy to look and start soliciting everyone it seems to get what they want. At the very least, it's not attractive or makes a lady feel good to ask for these things before you have even met or have taken the time to check out her services and reviews. It's very tacky, cheap and undercutting. Mod has been great handling these types.... Bad apples everywhere and I now just shut them down if they do. They'll get it sooner or later I hope!

You'll do wonderfully. Sensual massage is a great thing for many Gents that like to unwind and appreciate the therapeutic and sensual connection of the encounter. A jacuzzi is not necessary. : ) Wishing you great success!

Mr Green is only suggesting the price of a "full massage" after the initial room fee, not FS. An additional $80 is the appropriate tip for "extras" within an MA experience. It's not unreasonable to pay $130 for a 45 min session. I think one thing a few members fail to understand is that the attendant makes nothing off the room fee. If she is not tipped fairly and appropriately, she makes no money. There's another thread in regards to this matter as it can be misunderstood.