Sensual Erin

I've been refereed to as a spinner from time to time as well but I don't think I fall into that category. I'm 5'6 and lean, with curves. I think the term is suited to a very petite girl under 5"2 and less than 100 pounds. I don't think your reference would offend or cause confusion for the ladies.

Congrats Shortcake! It is an apprenticeship. lol! What a great community this is. I'm always entertained and learn something new from this site everyday thanks to people like yourself and many other good contributers. I've even added to my Youtube playlist. I'm officially addicted to Cerb. : )

I have to agree and appreciate the fact MOD is looking out for the Ladies. Thank you. : ) I have personally had problems from new members that haven't taken the time to look at the schedules, announcements, or services the ladies offer. They do not take the time to look at our profiles, recommendations, or get to know the community a little first, or ask or seek advice from the more established and valued members about the conduct of this board. Yes, there are ladies that offer this service and if he were to take a look around and "rephrase" his question, I don't think it would be a problem. I've been asked a few times in chat by new members for just a bj or just a ???? It's offensive and disrespectful to not look us up, get to know us a little, get to know the differences in our services.... A little bit of respect, good rapport and contribution goes a long way...... My two cents.....

I think Cleo is absolutely right. We all do what makes us feel comfortable and the decision to be an MP or SP is a personal choice. I'm an MP because I love to touch, feel and explore. That's what satisfies me in the choice I have made and constantly strive to be my personal best at it. I'm so happy to see someone that recognizes and knows there are differences. I can't tell you how many requests I get for SP services when it's known I'm an MA. I think some people think they go hand in hand. They don't and every provider is different with what her own personal comfort level and the services they provide for either. I'm cautious of spa's but the well known one's on here are safe and legit such as Club CMJ and Paradise to name the two best in my opinion. . As an independent provider, I feel safe from a bust as well as I am quiet, low volume, drug and party free. I think the police are going after the drug houses or bawdy houses where several girls are taking clients in and out on heavy volume and neighbor complaints start coming in. SP or MP, if you stick to the quality providers or spa's you should have a wonderful and safe encounter. Additional Comments: Berlin! Hahaha! Love your humor!

This poor guy is too funny! Thanks for posting.

Thanks Megan. I will contact you. I had no idea I can rent studios by the hour? This is so helpful. Thank you! : )

I have a few questions as I am planning ahead for a move to a very private residential area and my in calls will be greatly reduced as a result. I was wondering what the demand is like if I start to do out calls? Secondly, if any other MP's already have a studio, and if I would be able to book time there for my clients? Please PM me as this is another possibility. As well, when I move to my new residence are there clients that would book a few hours with me at a fare rate to spend time with me as more of a "social companion" for the evening? This would include light snacks, beverages by the fireplace, great conversation and would be followed by a session. I would have to lure anyone in for at least two hours so it looks like a date. ; ) I already have a few that do book longer and I really enjoy the extra time with them. This will be a big change as the place I have now is just right as far as having people over and generally not noticed by my neighbors. My days of the higher in call volume are soon to come to an end and would like to gather as much information as I can to plan ahead. All responses and any info are greatly appreciated! Thanks. : )

Happy Birthday Bethany. : ) xoxo

I listed my hobbies under general interest and never thought of putting down anything about my session. Yes, my sessions interest me, but think this question on a more personal level. It can be misleading? : )

Mine is MegforFun. I feel like I know her even though we never met and always look for her in the chat room. She makes me laugh which is so sexy. Awesome lady and just love her cleavage as I'm a smaller girl too. However, I just had to comment on one of your gorgeous pics as well Megan. There's so many fine ladies on here. : )

Thank you Rodehard. You're very kind and we had great chats before we even met, which created the "I feel like I already know you" comfort and put us at ease for a wonderful encounter. I don't open up my space or location to just anyone. I'm a believer in "get to know your client" before a meet. It allows us to get to know someone and answer basic questions, focus on the clients and providers interests, use specific facts and create a conversational tone with the luxury of taking the time to think about things. I maintain a low volume of great clients and wouldn't have it any other way. Taking the time to remember something about the client or provider creates a connection that is so meaningful and leads to a wonderful encounter. I've been personally touched many times. I have received messages with "where r ur pics" or " I need to see you now. Give me ur number?" and do respond to them with "How about you tell me a little about yourself first, and we can get to all the good stuff after?" Many do not take the time to do so and they are probably the people I don't want to see. To sum it up, it's about being aware, learning as much as you can about someone, and most importantly, staying safe.

I prefer online bookings as well. It's nice to be able to plan ahead and have the time to prepare, over the occasional last minute phone calls. That's what I prefer. I've been overall successful with getting to know my clients by written communication. There's a context and a conduct to both. Plus, when you have a good correspondence back and forth and plan the encounter ahead, there's the whole anticipation factor that can be exciting.

I love to chat in there as well with my regular roomies. You're one of them. : ) There's many of us that are personable and chat away. I am one and chat in private as well and if I have to run I do, I always sign off to let everyone know and say bye. It's always understood and overall fun. The person who approached me is a new member, but common sense should lead the direction. It's pretty sad that the code of conduct is misused and it's difficult to reinforce. Overall, we all deal with the frustration of a few bad apples here and there but worth it to chat with the good ones. Thanks. : ) Additional Comments: Thank you. I will.

I've got another chat room rant to add to this thread. While having a great conversation with my roomies as always, I got a private chat request from a member. He asked about my services and after corresponding with him for quite some time to give him all my details, it turned out he just wanted a date. This is not Plenty of Fish or E Harmony as the majority knows. : ) Anyway, after politely turning him down, he kept insisting, and it's lucky I had the patience today as it was very irritating and a waste of my time. I politely let him know that I had things to do and that the chat should be wrapped up unless he wanted to book some time. He asked me if he was wasting my time and if I could chat some more. I told him yes and he seemed surprised. I'm wondering if this should be reported to MOD in the future to warn other ladies of the time waste and potential danger of this kind of lurking activity. I asked him if he does this to all the ladies on here and he said just me as I am pretty and nice. Hhhhhmmmm. I'm not that naive! We are all part of this community as providers and hobbiests and I thought it was very innapropriate on his part. Any thoughts?

You are right. My statement about what Mother would "allow" her daughter to travel to another city to live in a strangers house may have been a little judgemental considering the holes in the story. Perhaps her Mother had no idea or if she did, had no control over it as she is an adult and can only be offered advice and warning. I just assume that the victim would have notified a mother, family member, or friend of their plan to begin with, would have been good common sense. My apologies if I my comment created more speculation.

Absolutely! Predators lurk everywhere and where is the common sense? You're right Carrie. Why did a family member or friend not know of these plans and put a stop to it? She called her Mother after day nine? A mother that cared would want to know her whereabouts from the first place and would not allow her to travel to a strange city and live with a complete stranger. This is really unfortunate and could have been avoided.

This is absolutely horrific. So there's still an erotic Craigslist in Wisconsin? Craigslist is truly a dangerous site and if the erotic section has gone down, the predators still lurk. I wonder how this was posted as there is no more erotic section, right? That's my first thought from an add of this nature. There's Molly Maid for cleaning and cooking, well sorry, but you can learn how to or eat out. This kind of add is a major red flag and should have been flagged as Craigs apparently does? However, who in their right mind would travel to a new city and move in with a complete stranger as a tenant for "exchange" is just plain stupid! My heart goes out to her but a little common sense would have prevented this assault. : ( Additional Comments: Thanks. I just wrote my thoughts before I saw the classified section it was under. Wow!

I agree 100% as well. Discretion is difficult at times and unless it is written in a reco it is inappropriate to mention a name. There are members that speak to several providers and that is their right. It need not be publicized. There's a lot to be worked out on Chat and it must be a difficult environment for the MOD to monitor. I haven't really explored the chat rules, but my common sense has kept me out of trouble. Perhaps there should be more stringent rules on this kind of activity as well as others. It's up to us as members to report or discuss these things that need to be addressed to keep the chat room happy. MOD cannot take care of everything. Thanks for starting the thread Megan! : )

Thanks everyone. : )

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Awww. that is so sweet. : )

That's right. There's been a few threads that have caused misunderstandings and MOD does not make exceptions, so please look around the site for reviews and locations. It's a friendly community and these questions are outlined under the discussion and reviews section.

Wow! That is amazing! What a contribution to this fine community, indeed. Congrats Cato!

Thank you. I may just be a little on the more conservative side when it comes to the Urban Dictionary. I do understand what direction you were trying to take the thread so no offense, and still getting used to a whole new terminology. ; )

I agree. This is such a private question and should be kept within the PM vicinity. To ask such a question and have a lady answer, could be looked upon as solicitation. Plus, I don't like the term "hairy kitty". Sorry, but I must add that as it sounds derogatory to some of us.. However, the "shaved-versus-unshaved" thread may give you some info. My Monday morning two cents as I sip coffee. : )