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I don't see how it would a problem to bring a donation.

Mod said on a different thread to report this to EC here is the thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=82397&page=2

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Congrats Peachy

Just saw this, glad you had a great birthday.

Happy Birthday Jolie

For me if I was to receive a text I would not care. However I am single so it doesn't matter. I don't believe a SP should be texting someone without having talked to the person beforehand and knowing it is ok with the person. Since a lot of others are not in my situation, discretion is an important part of the business relationship between client and SP. As a client I am asked to be discrete when going to a SPs incall so as not to draw attention or cause and issues for here. The same thing has to be returned to the client by the SP. In this case it would mean not contacting them unless they know it is not a problem for the client.

I have been reading this thread for a while and finally decided to comment. Years ago when I was a bartender in a SC a lot of the dancers were friends. When I went to where they were working if I sat in the front row when they were on stage they would stop and send me off to somewhere else in the club.:) I do think that a SP and client could become friends. Both are people and it can always go that way. I personally don't think it is likely. We can end up with a type of friendship that I call a business friendship. Liking beeing around each other, but only really on business time. For myself, if it was to switch over to real friendship it would not be a matter of me trying to spend time with the SP for free since that business relationship would also be over. This is a special type of industry, and the other reality is I don't pay my friends to ummm.. sleep with me...

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Before heading out for a date I am one of the ones who always takes a shower. It is part of the routine for me that is also the build-up of anticipation for the meeting. That being said, I also would not say no if the lady asked me to take a shower. The only times I have is with Asian SPs and the ladies joined me in the shower and all I can say is it was enjoyable :) I personally book 1 hour dates and am not looking at the clock. If the time from the shower is part of the 1 hour then it is. Each date is never the same (and I don't want it to be) and is an experience. I just look at the shower as part of the experience. Since I am nervous myself showing up, I want both parties to feel comfortable. I think it makes everything go better.

There are covered in the "New to this? Things you should know..." board. There is a lot of good reading there. MSOG also falls under depends a lot of times. Remember you are paying to spend an hour with the SP. Personally I have found that since I am not looking for a rushed experience. MSOG will not always be in the cards, though I have had it be. Also read this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=38622 Years ago I called a couple of the asian agencies on CL. Yes I experienced the bait and switch ..:) There are some who do advertise here. I have used them and the SP was the one in the photos. I also looked up the SP on the Reco board and found others had said the picture was real. It is something you do want to be careful of though.

websurfer I understand worrying about budget and how much to spend. I only really jumped into this last month. I did sit there and think about it for a long time. I was looking at BP and some other places. One thing that I noticed was that there is going to be a basic range for a lot of SPs. If someone was a bunch lower than that range all I know is that warning flags would pop up for me. When I did decide I wanted to start doing this I gave myself a budget for myself per month. I also personally like to meet a women for a 1 hour date. I find this is enough time for both of us to get to know each other and relax. I know when I first meet an SP I am nervous, and even if they are not showing it they are most likely a bit nervous as well. That time gives us a chance to talk and relax a bit. Remember when looking at BP you can also check the recommendation board here and you might find the SP listed. This can give you an idea that others felt the time they had was worth mentioning to others. Look in the ads and check for what they are offering. Read the "help with abreviations" thread here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311 Also read the " New to this? Things you should know..." section. There is a lot of good information in the threads that are stuck on top. It takes a while to read them but it is well worth the time.

Hector, I am a non drinker for years. Personally I do drink non alcohol bear which most SC do have. What I like is the atmosphere in the clubs and not the fact that I am going to get drunk.

Check out the post from Sept 15. I think she might be the one you are talking about. http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/

If you PM with your exact questions I might be able to help with some or all, and I don't know we could post here and I am positive someone else would know.

I think Rogers will allow a second voice line on a cell phone. I remember reading about that somewhere, however I have never had it.

I understand your point about it is supposed to be all about me. For myself it is not completely this way, it is also important for me for any women I am with to be comfortable. I can only say yes. Knowing that the person is enjoying themselves while they are with me is a great compliment. :)

Happy Birthday Isabella

Happy Birthday Katherine

Happy Birthday Audrey

I just found this thread :) When I was 19 I was working as a bartender in a SC. Since all of the women I used to hang around with were dancers I thought about this. It is not the exact same but it is close. I would have been able to as long as I wasn't going to where she was working. I think watching others having my GF or wife dancing for them would have eventually built up emotional for me. Could I be involved with someone who was an SP, yes. If I was though, it is something where I would not be able to hear about her clients. I think this would be the same for most guys. I think most would end up wondering if they were better than them, or if their GF/wife liked them better than them. It would be something that a guy would need to know from the beginning and I don't think most would be able to accept it. I am curious about that also

I was reading the messages from Shayla as they were going up. First one wasn't bad, however the next 3 were. I remember thinking O god on the second one. If Shayla had realized she was offending others on the board with the term she was using and apologized after the second... maybe even the 3rd time, I could see giving her the second chance. However I never saw anything that was apologetic, it was more a what's you gonna do attitude. I thought about it since someone suggested giving her a second chance. Since she never seemed to think there was anything wrong with what she was saying, and she really did offend some of the members here. I don't think a second chance should even be considered in this case. The mod definitely did the right thing since all of the ladies need to be able to feel comfortable and accepted here.

I was debating getting into this hobby for a long time.. years... So I was also scanning BP a lot debating. 1 thing I found is that you have to be really careful and check carefully how the adds are. If something doesn't seem right, avoid them. I would also go over to cowboysdiary and check to see if I was right about the ones I thought. I ended up researching a lot and deciding on the person I wanted to see and I did find them on BP. I ended up at cerb before I actually met up with her and ended up finding her a member here ..:) Go figure. I think both places are useful, however if you want to use BP you also have to be really careful and take a really close look.

After have such a good experience earlier this week I just had to meet up with Mia again. This time I was more relaxed since I had met her before and was more comfortable. We started of with conversation and relaxing, then it headed into getting another massage ..:) Everything was a great as before and I am going to have to make sure I see Mia again before she leaves Ottawa.