waterat

You sure don't need to look very hard to find examples of them on here! Former members Gregsand and JamesQWERTY (both banned and, I think, the same person) fit the description. I think he's back on here with a new name and changed IP address.... It is very easy for 'benevolent sexism' to morph into malevolent sexism. This vid may address your question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTG53yRhOhg

Wow. Okay, so that took 5 years to resolve. There's another thread on 'sex dolls' and definitely not my thing but don't we have more important things for the courts to be doing? For example preventing and establishing that human trafficing and child pornography should NOT be conflated with sex work.

It's not about 'fault' being assigned - doing that isn't going to fix the situation nor prevent it from happening again. And yes, you need to pay attention to your phone. She did attempt to contact you twice the morning of the appointment and perhaps she's not an early riser - hence the timing. Did she actually send you the location/address? Many providers only provide a general location or intersection via text and then give details through a phone conversation. I've no idea where you're messaging from nor how long you've been seeing sex workers but you've only been on this board for a little over a week so I'm not sure what other suggestions to make. I'm certain there is not a single SP across the country who has not had to deal with 'no-shows', time-wasters and address collectors and in some cities it is reported to be worse than others - I'm in Ottawa and a few years back we had a bad rep for being no-shows - by which I mean not prepaid but an appointment reserved and then no client showing up: hence this SP asking for prepayment. I used to travel into the city from some distance out in the country so had to ensure the SP I was visiting provided a general location early enough that I could arrive at the arranged time. Are the mixed feelings about feeling ripped off? Or that you still are intrigued to see her? If the first, forget it and move on. If the latter see below. It seems clear to me that she was available to see you. If you're over the issue of having paid fully for a missed appointment then recognize that standard practice in your city/province may be for a full fee deposit.... though I still defer to Phaedrus' earlier suggestion.

It appears as though your slip up was in not hearing her texts..... I often miss texts (don't have phone with me, don't hear them, don't tend to check my phone frequently etc.) so if you're anticipating communication for a prepaid visit it's obviously important to be attentive to your phone. I've never been asked to prepay for a visit - I would only prepay if it were a provider that I already knew well and had visited numerous times and I can't imagine any of them would ever ask me to prepay. I agree with Phaedrus' advice: best to move on.

Duh. Is 'Mod_Cat' a moderator? or a purported moderator? Whomever they are they're still a 'Moderated Member', perhaps self moderated? One thing I'm quite certain of is that Mod_Cat is not the lovely cat who is now mostly missing (and missed) from this site.

WOW RG! not only can you spell Ophthalmologist (most can't - in fact many can't spell hobbyist....) but at least you'll be able to see the box spring when it arrives! Back in the day 'box' was a slang word for..... oh hell I don't even want to think about it.... Keep your eyes on the prize!

Well I have to agree, Alison. Lyla is waaaay too dead and that is unfortunate! I will address your questions though I would have preferred to only answer 2)...... The last MA I saw was Breath Taking Vivian and her best asset is her captivating smile :) I don't care about lingerie colour (OK Red) but really I just want it to come off. I seem to be too old for twitter so to 4) and 5) I'll respond Donald J and Melania :)

Welcome LadyKay! Go to the 'Home' section, top left immediately below 'Forums'. Scroll down to your province, select, scroll to your city (or closest one) and there you'll find where to post ads. Keep participating and asking questions to get beyond 'moderated staus'. Lyla was recently purchased by new owners and the current moderators don't appear to be monitoring status nor updating it very frequently so be patient. Welcome and enjoy!

An interesting post Zoneman and you bring perspective to the discussion though I guess it is likely a very rare if not unique perspective. You and your wife have been together for almost 20 years and, while I don't mean to pry, you've been a member here for 6 years, may still have a Terb account and your posts seem to indicate you're still pariticpating in the industry. One of your posts indicated a slight discomfort with sharing your phone..... so my intrusive question: do both of you still pariticate in the industry or is it just you? My wife of 31 years left me a few years ago. While whe was unaware of my involvement in this industry for the past 8+ years, the lack of intimacy and affection in our marriage for well over a decade led to failure of our marriage. To quote Zorba: "Am I not a man? And is not a man stupid? I'm a man, so I'm married. Wife, children, house--everything. The full catastrophe." Apologies for my hijack - back to the client/sw relationship and its' evolution.

Caution noted and respected, Angela: I simply suggested he contact her.... every encounter should be respectfully arranged between the individuals. Emily's lovely 'blogasms' offer numerous inspirational videos on oral techniques, hence my suggestion. Perhaps I should have offered my comment more discretely.

I would suggest you contact Sweet Emily J though it appears you've been around long enough to know her.... my only suggestions is to be prepared to reflect the honour she so ably provides... !

RG you used to be a boatless fisherman but GM aren't yet clientless truck purveyours.....

The trouser snake.

You ensured the lesson was lost. Hope gets you two things. Hope and older. Go return the ten bucks and change, you could feel better and not need to post here. Oh wait. Do you know the difference between a canoe and a canuck? Canoes tip.

Don't feel berated Raquel.... I didn't perceive the posts to be attacks but simply additional comments. I think that the suggestion is simply that there's evidence that the dolls may indeed be a tool that helps. Not my cup of tea and I find them repulsive but I'll hold judgement to see if there's any published research.

It will be more than $130 next year..... Doug Ford is planning to raise it due to all the ruckus over BUCK-A-BEER. btw that's the new license plate slogan.

And for the song! I'm diggin out my Lightin' vinyl momentarily. I'm glad this wasn't posted in the 'Best Song' thread as I wouldn't have watched it. How many 'Best Songs' can one person have? lol You're right, Notch, excellent view!

Wait. Notch! Those are dresses? (I acknowledge the 'naughty) My ex. never wore dresses like theat. Maybe that was the problem. Nice pics!

I had the distinct pleasure of meeting with Kyla last night for an hour of pleasure. She is slim, poised, attractive and comfortable in her own skin. She visits from Montreal as often as her schedule allows and hosted me in a discreet and private location. We shared some bubbly and strawberries I brought as well as some thoughtful and engaging conversation. Our intimacy will remain between us but she loves to cuddle, listens attentively and is a true joy to spend time with. If you have the good fortune to visit with her you won't be disappointed! She sometimes travels with a well-behaved cannine friend and although I didn't get to meet her fur-baby this trip I'm a dog lover - although a non-allergenc breed a heads-up to those who may wish to take some benadryl. Still basking in the warmth of a lovely visit and anticipating our next rendezvous. She is fully bilingual, welcoming, caring and an eleganet hostess! She is arelavely knew lyla member and posts her updated # in her ads.

Luxe: I share Notch's sentiments too. I enjoyed our conversations at the cerb socials and have appreciated your thoughtful and though provoking comments on many threads. I especially remember an analogy you made on shopping at the various 'levels' of Loblaw stores: Superstore, Loblaw, No Frills etc. and the service one should expect. It opened my eyes to how this business works and lead me to have a more open mind. Thank you for that. I know I'll miss you and, if possible, I hope to still see you here on lyla, as quiet as it has become.... Cheers and all the best for your future, waterat.

I'm only responding so Greenteal doesn't get 'the last word in'. Yes. I would be very confident you're clean and safe, in fact I would bet more than a year's worth of SP, MA, Dancer visits that you're fine.

Okay, now that I've responded to your inauspicious start..... simply do a little research on reputable health sites on HIV. This should set your mind at ease. I have the sense that your acitivities may be bringing you more worry than joy and they shouldn't. My initial thought was to assure you that you've clearly had HIV for quite some time and that it's first and primary symptom, an addled brain, was evident. Condoms are a simple, effective first step. Chillax man!

@Luckyme: sorry to have missed your birthday yesterday my friend! Best wishes albeit a day late. See you at Barb's this afternoon with your refund? :)

lol Luxe! I believe this post qualifies for the wtf thread...... :)

I was in for a few hours this afternoon as well - had to practice for next week's final visit. I had hoped to wish Bridgette all the best but somehow managed to miss her. The General may have been to blame for this. Probably! I had fun making the acquaintance fo Molly and it was a pleasant sojourn in the CR. Things got a little quieter after the Leafs left so I retreated to the GP for a meal during the late afternoon lull. While I'm looking forward to the final visit it will be tainted with some sadness.