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Okay I'll preface my comments by identifying that neither GT nor I should have much to contribute on a NS discussion thread since we don't live there and so, sadly, don't have the chance to visit any of the lovely ladies who've commented on this thread - at least not until the maritime bubble is opened. Not holding my breath though planning for a visit when permitted. (a little positivity?) Posting a somewhat out of context quote from Lydia that acknowledges your "valuable insight" does not amount to positivity. Don't bother responding to Danielle if you can't address her questions. No, you're not obligated to write a recommendation, nor to book a lady, not even to be a positive force: but even one of those helps the board. I've read through the whole thread (and I'll admit to my reluctance to add to it) but - and this won't surprise you GT - I have to support the ladies here. Read their posts carefully. Don't get your knickers in a knot and ask to be reported (for what?), offer the 'last word' and then chime in again - I could continue but I'm not skilled enough to insert all the multiple quotes from your posts. To summarize I'll reference a comment inspired by a post from the 'Unhijackable thread of randomness' (too lazy to find the post) but you'll get the idea: https://www.amazon.com/Novelty-Coffee-Funny-Sarcastic-Sassy/dp/B07ZF59894

2020: Hallowe'en is for diabetics

I think that's acceptable. If you're after confirmation that the SP is local and actually in town you could also request a background with a local landmark or perhaps a piece of local hotel stationery in it. Texting a quick pic shouldn't take much time or effort. Hopefully some of the ladies offer their opinions here. Some may feel a pic is just a waste of their time, especially if they're a recommended SP here, have a website or maintain a twitter presence. Arranging a meeting is a two way street and much of the traffic is heading the direction of the SWrs in the form of clients who are no-shows, time wasters, location collectors or people just wanting to exchange text messages without any intent to book. I once had a travelling SP who had recently had a number of no-shows ask me for a pic with a hand gesture and with a local landmark in the background and I was happy to comply. I actually sent a face pic and she still saw me, lol. I've never had what you're trying to avoid happen to me as I virtually always book with Lyla members or at least ladies I've heard of through Lyla, formerly Cerb - it's pretty easy to get an accurate sense of whom you are booking with from their profile/presence on here. So my two cents is to also build your 'street cred' on the board, look through your local recommendation section and do your homework. Yeah, I've made a few 'leolist mistakes' when my little head takes over the job of the big head. Best of luck!

My horniness fogs my discretion.

RG I always enjoy 'joining' you on your 'rambles'. A well deserved acknowledgement!

Not that I really have any business posting in this NS forum (I live in Ottawa) but this thread identifies what I see as a degradation of the spirit of Lyla and a waste of energy. This comment may be better placed in a board-wide forum. I think these requests for comments on leolist advertisements generally lead to unwelcome comments on here. Here are three suggestions for dealing with leolist/other forums: 1. Post a recommendation here, in the pertinent section, when you have a pleasant (or even wonderful!) experience. Nota Bene*: best provided by established and participating board member, I'm tired of the number of first time and only (shill) posts I've been compelled to report. Participate, post, and discuss, as you wish, to demonstrate your bona fides*. 2. Post a warning in the appropriate area for DANGEROUS and blatant scams. id est* those sections aren't intended for the airing of grievances due to lack of chemistry (see N.B. above). As grandma often reminded this youngest sibling, who often felt hard done by, "Doesn't matter how thin the pancake is, there's always two sides". 3. Let's do what we can to elevate the benefits of being here on lyla: This will help both SWrs and clients alike: the more reliable providers and respectable clients that are engaged on this board the better off we all are. exempli gratia* Here is a video (because I'm a mathlete and a geek) which you should watch for two minutes at about 36:50 that shows an important example: I highly recommend watching the whole video (admit it, you've likely got an hour available) - this was recorded Dec. 26, 2019 and is both prescient and prophetic, Early in the video are a couple of segments which clearly explain covid test reliability as well as vaccine effectiveness. * Latin provided to clarify my age. :)

And you did! !!! Lovely :) Back in the day this thread usually displayed beautiful bum pics from the ladies here on cerb/lyla. You've reintroduced a wonderful balance that I appreciate. Thank you!

Good marketing advice, I've found that as I get older I don't manage to deliver as great a load. My most efficient weight loss routine involves a daily morning deposit. Many have noted 'I'm full of it' 😞

The 'covid situation' doesn't matter to those who can afford commercial space in the market (unlike the regular person they're likely benefiting from these challenging times). I think it was Mark Twain who quipped "Buy land, son, they're not making any more of it" Apologies to Iceland et al.

Go ahead, make me jealous! As soon as we get this covid thing beat I'm headed to god\s country for said drive and some fresh seafood.

My Instant pot mini delivers at least three days of dinners - to tonight is the third day (in five) for beef stew. Spicing and hot peppers are, as usual, on the 'challenging' side. Gotta thank the local farmers and gardeners. :)

Hello Zak: Welcome to lyla! I have to be honest, I don't know that you'll get a response or suggestion on here as this is a request/discussion topic I haven't seen before: that said, it doesn't mean you won't! I would suggest you both post your question in the forum the city you're located in. It may help to complete your profile here on lyla and identify your location. Another option, if you're willing, is to offer on-line services - don't know that it will increase the likelihood of a response but it may increase the market you're reaching out to. Good luck (I think you'll need it!) and good on you for exploring the opportunity. Best, waterat

@Daysha Love Do I have to be from Troy in order to be a Trojan? I sure want to. Lordy, lordy I can't wait to burst that Maritime bubble and visit. I'm OK with sounding eager - this lady presents every reason to be! Help me people!! Let's all do our best to enable travel and look after one another. Maybe I can just put my horse in a Trojan :)

@woot10 lol, I read twice and assumed the 'not' had been inadvertently omitted :)

@brentcrocker44 I agree with you. I can lose count all on my own and have been both overcharged and undercharged before! I've often let the dancer know how many dances I want beforehand and even prepaid on occasion. Never a problem. I'm not looking for a dancer to exceed the 'club rules' though it has been offered and happened a few times. I tend to visit SPs or MA's if I'm looking for more.

An awesome interview! Thank @lydiahardwood I was going to respond to you, @vegeta85 that 'You should see her on a motorcycle' but, predictably, @NotchJohnson beat me to it!

Wow Notch! Alluring eyes and gorgeous lips too, the double whammy! I insist that they all give you a big kiss for posting their pics 😚

I have to acknowledge @StephanieMystique that I found your interview heart wrenching and also that it led me to see you as a brave, strong, thoughtful and caring person. It may seem counter intuitive but the bravery and strength are indicated by someone who can reach out, ask for help and accept it. Not many are good at that. I'm copying and pasting your last sentence as it shows all of us here where our work needs to continue. Thank you.: "I owe the success of my business to Lyla and the community here that has supported me since day one." And a shout out to @lydiahardwood for all her support and leadership here for the community.

Sarah I agree with you and also agree that Lydia's idea is right on the mark. While cerb/lyla is the only board I'm a member on I have the sense that it is unique on the basis of it's positive approach. There is alot of work that needs to be done to build traffic, engagement and participation on this site - and I'm certain it's worth doing. An interview related to that topic is an opportunity for the board to reaffirm and establish it's position as a SW friendly space (for both SWrs and clients) and to build back to its former strength. These interviews should be required viewing for all members joining the community - and I know that's perhaps a ridiculous expectation :)

@OldandNerdy It seems to me your Nerdy sense tingle is on point! The link you provided is supposedly posted on June 4 yet the pictures have the date as being today (09.19.2020). You can tell I'm bored when I post in the NS escort discussion section when I don't live there. A quick glance at the time stamps on the posts on this thread and a look at Holger's join date and content/posts made me go 'whoa!'.

Not that I went to SC.s regularly, especially since Barb's closed, but I never recall paying a 'cover' fee. If I new the cover also supported the dancers I would pay it and continue to anticipate paying too much for drinks :) Clear and concise messaging to the door staff collecting the fee will get the message up the line to management. I expect they know not to take it personally and just pass on the message. These are challenging times for many businesses and I have difficulty seeing that a $12 cover fee will fly.

@1963Kennedy I see wheat you did there, lol.

I stopped in a week ago after reading newfy's post above and had a lovely visit with a Chinese girl by the name of Jasmine. Her English was good and she provided a great deep tissue massage. I prefer places that advertise the full fee as opposed to a door fee and negotiation but I left happy and will likely return. I wound up using the debit machine for part of my payment but that is not a concern for this single guy! Loved the massage!

Assuming you meant to type 'snapchat which'. If not save her until Hallowe'en - she clearly didn't make it straight forward to contact her so it's difficult know who she is and offer a response. Not the wrong place - I was simply speculating that it could well be a scam and that your information, if you went to see her, would likely be most appropriately posted in the warning section. As for your post frequency; it is not only the providers who can build reputation here but also the client/hobbyists - I was attempting to respectfully suggest you do some homework on here for other options. Perhaps yet another epic fail on my part but there don't seem to be any other responses.... Good luck!

Hey Novastorm: my recommendation is that you go visit and post the response (likely best politely posted in the warnings section) - my best advice is to check out local, active ladies from the local area and follow all their covid-19 accommodating protocols. Given this is your most recent post in over 5 years I'm reluctant to make a more specific suggestion...