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She has a hot date with Mickey Mouse. Did you see him in the picture? Mission Impossible

Nervous - I am nervous every time - it does not matter if it is my first meeting with the SP or if I have met her a dozen times. I want / hope that each visit to be as special for her as it is for me.

I can live with CFS and CBJ. I have never had a BBBJ so I don't know what I am missing there. But I could not go without daty. Even the concept of protected daty seems like - whats the point. To give up kissing - not going to happen. Practice good hygiene several times a day, and talk openly with your doctor on a regular basis. Stay educated, play safe, choose SPs and other sexual partners wisely, and decide what risks are acceptable for yourself. IMO. Final word - respect the other persons boundaries and limitations. Do not question their choices or push them where they do not want to go.

[QUOTE] 1 May 2014, 3.21am BST Workers of the world can have their International Labour Day, or Workers Day or whatever. But the month of May belongs to an equally fundamental dignity: masturbation. The fact that a whole month is devoted to self-pleasure raises two important questions: who decides these things? And what are people meant to do over the 11 months from June to April? On the latter, it seems that anyone can declare a day, a month or even a year be dedicated to a particular cause. The UN endorses some of these. Last year, 2013, for example was both the International Year of Water Cooperation and the International Year of Quinoa. Oh yes it was! Perhaps I neednâ??t say it, but International Masturbation Month has not been recognised by the UN. Yet. Like many ideas surrounding sex, Masturbation Month is American. Formerly â??National Masturbation Monthâ?, it did not require Republicans and Democrats working â??across the aisleâ? to enact a special law. It only took a unilateral declaration of self-service by Good Vibrations sex shop in response to the firing of US Surgeon General Jocelyn Elders. Elders' dismissal followed comments at the UN World AIDS Day in 1994. Asked whether promoting masturbation might discourage school-age children from riskier sexual activity, Elders agreed, noting that children should be taught that masturbation is a natural part of human sexuality. Conservatives, already outraged by her progressive views on abortion and drugs, construed her as saying masturbation should be taught in schools. An embattled President Clinton, whose own seed-spilling later sucked the life out of his own presidency, saw this as a step too far. So, in Elders' honour, Good Vibrations says: [INDENT][I]We started National Masturbation Month â?? now International Masturbation Month with people celebrating across the globe! â?? to raise awareness and to highlight the importance of masturbation for nearly everyone: itâ??s safe, itâ??s healthy, itâ??s free, itâ??s pleasurable and it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses. Of all the kinds of sex people can have, masturbation is the most universal and important, yet few people talk about it freely â?? worse, many people still feel it is â??second bestâ? or problematic in some way. Masturbation Month lets us emphasise how great it is: itâ??s natural, common and fun![/I][/INDENT] [B]Politics of the pull[/B] The US political battle over masturbation that led to Elders' firing nearly two decades ago represents one minor shift in a centuries-old ideological tug-of-war over self pleasure. The history of attitudes to masturbation makes fascinating reading, from the Egyptian god Atum who masturbated the universe into being and then, generously, continued to control the Nileâ??s flooding by his ejaculations, to the rather athletic how-to instructions provided in the Kama Sutra. The Judeo-Christian tradition has usually not embraced, and occasionally condemned, the solitary vice. But things got seriously weird in the 18th century, when masturbation attracted the blame for all manner of evils and ailments. One early pamphlet, published anonymously, really says it all in the wonderfully descriptive title: Onania, or the Heinous Sin of self-Pollution, And All Its Frightful Consequences, In Both Sexes, Considered: With Spiritual and Physical Advice To Those Who Have Already Injured Themselves By This Abominable Practice. Nineteenth century quacks such as Reverend Sylvester Graham lectured against the dire health consequences of â??venereal excessâ? and the corrupting evils of self pollution. His health advice looks, today, like common sense: exercise, bathing, brushing teeth, drinking clean water and a diet of mostly vegetables and whole grains. Visionary as he was, he is remembered because the bland diet he promoted, and the whole-wheat Graham cracker he invented, were designed to dampen libido. Likewise, the equally odd Dr John Harvey Kellogg proclaimed: â??if illicit commerce of the sexes is a heinous sin, self-pollution is a crime doubly abominable.â? Masturbation is worse than sex? Not as good, maybe, but worse? Kelloggâ??s lasting contribution to suppressing libido was the insipid corn flake. And it wasnâ??t only the self-abuser who was in line to suffer. In â??What a Young Woman Ought to Knowâ?, Mary Wood Allen councilled young ladies to consider the fate of their as-yet unborn offspring. Does this sound familiar? [INDENT][I]The results of self-abuse are most disastrous. It destroys mental power and memory, it blotches the complexion, dulls the eye, takes away the strength, and may even cause insanity. It is a habit most difficult to overcome, and may not only last for years, but in its tendency be transmitted to oneâ??s children.[/I][/INDENT] [B]Touching the enemy[/B] All of this excitement proved baseless. Masturbation now seems, at least to the educated, to be the quintessential victimless crime. At least when practised alone or among consenting adults. And as long as the method of fantasy doesnâ??t impinge on anybody elseâ??s rights. Yet the subject still cleaves opinion in contemporary educated societies. Consider the recent cringe-worthy campaign by Brigham Young University â?? Idaho that considered modern masturbation and porn use patterns alarming enough to erect a turgid war metaphor. The masturbators are personified by spent soldiers, left dying (and, it seems, tugging) on the battlefield by their fellows. Which of course invites the question of what the soldiers are masturbating against in this so-called â??Great Warâ?? Last May, Hugo Schwyzer made a very interesting proposal in The Atlantic of the controversy that still inheres to self-pleasure. [INDENT][I]Tell me how you really feel about masturbation, and I can more or less predict how youâ??ll feel about the more frequently debated â??sex warâ? issues.[/I][/INDENT] His point was that all the issues at stake in the â??sex warsâ?, by which I would include the ideological tussles over abortion, contraception, promiscuity, sexual autonomy, sex education, mens' and womens' work and roles, homosexuality, gay marriage and even the importance of gender, are polarised on the question of what sex is for. If you believe sex is exclusively about connecting intimately with one other person and, thereby, producing children, then you will tend to take the conservative positions on these issues. You will also tend to view masturbation as wrong, wasteful or even sinful. On the other hand, â??delighting in something that, first and foremost, belongs to us as individualsâ? tends to be associated with more progressive attitudes about all of these issues. And what purer expression of sex belonging to individuals can be found than the art of self-pleasure? [/QUOTE] If you want to read the rest of the article follow this link: [URL="http://theconversation.com/worse-than-sex-m-is-for-may-and-masturbation-month-26083"]http://theconversation.com/worse-than-sex-m-is-for-may-and-masturbation-month-26083[/URL]

April 30, 2014 11:47AM ET by Massoud Hayoun [URL="http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/4/30/new-york-moves-tobancondomsasevidenceagainstsexworkers.html"]http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/4/30/new-york-moves-tobancondomsasevidenceagainstsexworkers.html[/URL] Trina Vuitton is not a sex worker. But when the transgender community advocate was stopped by a police officer in New York's progressive West Village neighborhood last year, she was detained for "prostitution.â? The grounds of her arrest, she says, was the fact that she was in possession of two condoms. Despite efforts to subsidize condom distribution in a state battling high HIV/AIDS rates relative to the rest of the nation, police are still allowed to cite possession of multiple condoms as grounds for arrest on suspicion of sex work. But that could soon change. Proposed legislation is currently making its way through the state Legislature that would put an end to the practice. It would be a move cheered by safe sex advocates. â??When the police take our condoms or lock us up for carrying condoms, they are putting our lives at risk,â? Vuitton told a hearing of the New York City Council Civil Rights Committee shortly after her release. â??How am I supposed to protect myself from HIV and STIs when I am scared to leave my house with condoms in my purse?â? According to Vuittonâ??s testimony, the arresting officer repeatedly called her â??faggot.â? She was then held in a male cell in what transgender rights advocates call â??misgendering.â? The New York City Police Department did not respond to an interview request from Al Jazeera at time of publication. Meanwhile, prosecutors are encouraging lawmakers to rush through the bill. The proposed legislation â?? which would allow for sex workers and non-sex workers to carry multiple condoms without fear of arrest â?? has already passed the New York state Assembly and is awaiting review in the state Senate. â??Condoms provide critical protection for sex workers, who are more likely to be victims than criminals in prostitution cases,â? Nassau County District Attorney Kathleen M. Rice told Al Jazeera. â??The public health impact to sex workers far outweighs any value they could provide in court.â? A longtime proponent of the legislation, New York Assembly Health Committee Chair Richard N. Gottfried, agreed. â??New York City distributes millions of free condoms every year because we know itâ??s an effective way to reduce unwanted pregnancies and curb the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. It doesnâ??t make sense to encourage it on one hand and criminalize it on the other.â? Similar legislation has been considered for over a decade and faces little opposition from elected officials who cite public health concerns. But a bill has never passed, owing to what advocates decry as the stateâ??s legislative gridlock. â??There arenâ??t really any real opponents to this legislation. Itâ??s hard to get important and logical measures through our legislative process sometimes,â? said Sienna Baskin, co-director of the Sex Workers Project of the advocacy group the Urban Justice Center. Baskin added that for the bill to be approved this legislative session, it must pass through the Senate and be signed into law by the end of June. Where Baskin says the condom issue points to overarching problems regarding the sclerosis of the state Legislature, transgender community advocates say it is also part of the kind of profiling they face. Queer community advocate with Streetwise and Safe, an NGO that educates LGBTQ youth on their rights, Mitchyll Mora noted that in cases like Vuittonâ??s, transgender women of color are â?? often mistakenly â?? profiled by police as sex workers. â??Condoms being used as evidence has been an issue of stop and frisk,â? Mora said, accusing the NYPD of racism and â??transphobia.â? â??White men in Chelsea arenâ??t getting arrested for having condoms,â? he said, referring to a major hub of the cityâ??s gay community. But in the same neighborhood, their transgender nonwhite counterparts are being detained for possession of prophylactics, he said. Mora said that hinders his work promoting the use of condoms in the gay African-American and Latino communities. Arrest for possession of a condom only has to â??happen to one person and it affects many people,â? he said, adding that many carry around multiple condoms. â??Oftentimes a responsible sexual encounter will require more than one condom,â? he said.

That sounds interesting. I would like to see how that plays out considering that Puerto Rico is United States colony (1890). Puerto Rico is not an independent country and they are under United States sovereignty.

I usually ask ladies to wear their glasses and comfy clothes. With little or no makeup. Save the stockings and sexy outfits for special occasions. ;)

My avatar and profile picture is "Mr. Bean". There was a time in my life when people would mistake me for him. :|

I am sorry, supper was at 5:00 today. All that is left now is the yogurt and tea. :)

Tonight's menu is roast beef, Brussels sprouts, carrots, cauliflower, broccoli, and red potatoes. For desert - mixed berry yogurt and then a cup of Earl Grey tea.

For an in-call the time starts at the agreed upon start time. Which in this case was 4 PM. He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he shows up 15 minutes late. That means he has lost 15 minutes of playtime. Again -- He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he gave you a call to say he is running a little late. Then it is your discretion at when the adjusted start time and end time will be. In this case he was only booking 30 minutes. Again -- He should have his clothes back on and walking out your door 30 minute after he arrived. But that is just my opinion.

Like RG, I am also former military and I have no tattoos. I grew up in an era that viewed tattoos as something questionable people did. I tend to go for ladies without tattoos and piercings. With pale or milky white skin... Now I am getting sidetracked... I have seen one lady - a MP with tattoos and I was pleasantly surprised that she was a soft sweet gentle lady. That lovely lady was Jessica Massage. As the saying goes - "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover", you may be surprised what you find among it's pages. In fact there are several other lovely ladies here on Cerb (with tattoos) I would like to meet some day. I think their ink-work warrants a closer inspection. ;)

You Were Never Lovelier is a 1942 Hollywood musical romantic comedy film.

McAdams, Rachel

Brave is a 2012 American computer-animated fantasy film. If you are a little bit Scottish or still a kid at heart - you will enjoy this film.

I am having a late leisurely breakfast. Raisin bran, orange juice, bagel, and a cup of coffee.

This is just me -- I am sure some people may be into that sort of thing. I prefer focusing on the lady with little or no distractions. After all, she is the one I am there to see. Porn is very expensive when you consider everyone has different tastes. Perhaps investing in sexy outfits or soft cuffs, or blindfold, or feather duster, or small vibrating toy, might be a better choice. Good vibrations and all that... Just an idea....

Garner, James

I wouldn't really call it a massage. But I keep a bottle of moisturizing body lotion on hand. I like to gently rub it onto the lady. Especially after our shower together and we have dried each other off. It is non greasy and lightly scented. It is one of my ways of showing appreciation. They will even ask for it if I forget. So I must be doing something wright. ;) The ladies use a massage oil on me. I do not know what it is. It is in an unmarked bottle. I don't really care for it. But it is the thought that counts.

I agree with what the others have said. I had a similar situation. Only the lady was visiting me in my home and it was our 2nd date. She insisted that she wanted to stay. It was obvious she was not up to it. I tended to her like I would any other sick friend. (Blanket, tea, flat ginger ale, soup, soda crackers, Gravol, Tylenol.) She took a nap (alone) for a couple of hours. She declined the donation but I stuck it in her coat pocket anyway. The rest is history - we saw each other (professionally) for about two years. Always treat people with dignity and respect. Expect nothing in return. When you least expect it someone will do the same for you.

Excessive drinking and Binge drinking: We have all done it at some point in our lives. Some of us continue doing it through out our lives. We spend lots of money doing it. We suffer the consequences over and over again. Yet we never seem to learn. We know the health risks involved and yet we do it anyway. For me, it is often the same time every year. It is usually for just one day or a weekend. Then I have nothing to drink for the rest of the year. Where do we learn these habits? Is it from our parents or our pears? Is it a subconscious effort to suppress painful memories from our past?